I’ve been following some of the stories here and reading the posts and learning about others who have so many challenges. I lost Merlin 7 weeks ago. His acro tumor was causing him a lot of discomfort and his vets were slow to diagnose it all. I had been in contact with AMC NY’s Dr. McCue to discuss his case and the chances of him being accepted into their program. His tumor got the best of him a few days before our phone consultation; I couldn’t let him suffer and hold on. I cried for days; he was the love of my life, really and truly. We would have ‘love sessions’ and my girlfriend said to me, “I want a man to look at me the way he looks at you.”
So I’ve been feeling all the loss here on these posts over again, but most especially the outpouring of love and friendship that so many of you have expressed here on this thread and others. I wish I had gotten on this forum earlier and been able to ask for help and comfort from you all. I got here the last week of his life and was immediately informed and guided from the experts who wanted Merlin and me to succeed. That’s is what this forum does and I hope to continue to give whatever support I can to those struggling.
For those of you that are reeling from your loss, I give you my heart and send all my love.