Dear Pat121,
Sorry you've been going through all this -- my "baby" girl, Callie (aka, CoCoBean, Beanie) was diagnosed at the end of December with high blood pressure and diabetes. She went blind within about 3 days and it broke my heart (still does). And she had been going to the vet about every 30-60 days last year, as she has either IBD or lymphoma.
Anyway, I live alone, no family left alive, moved to a new city a little over a year ago, and was born with one hand (and losing use of the other) -- bottom-line: I don't have access to help and was a BASKET CASE about testing her glucose!!! I still really dislike doing it, but have come far in a short period. I am also an empath, passionate about never causing anyone pain, and my puddytats are truly my children in this lifetime (didn't have human ones this go-around) -- meaning I do everything possible for their quality of life and comfort.
Two things I want to be sure you're aware of, that have been ESSENTIAL for me and Beanie:
(1) Nevermind Vaseline -- use a (very small amount) of TRIPLE antibiotic gel (Neosporin, or off brand) instead -- it helps the blood bead like Vaseline, but has a very mild pain relief ingredient in it, to help take the "edge"'off a bit. I get a tube of it from a local Dollar Tree for $1. I think Wal-Mart carries an off brand of it for near the same price. Once I've gathered my testing tray of everything I need (including her favorite treats, of course!), putting on the Neosporin is the FIRST thing I do -- that way, it has a bit of time to "work" while I'm getting out the test strip and lining up supplies. Remember -- use just a very tiny amount for a very thin layer -- too much and it can meld with the blood, causing an error reading on the meter. I make this layer probably close to the size of, say, the diameter of an M&M, or a tad larger -- even to help "numb" the area around the pin prick. After I've grabbed the blood sample with the meter strip, I use some clean tissue or a sterile cotton pad to wipe off the blood and Neosporin; I then put a VERY teeny bit (very thin layer again) of fresh Neosporin only on the spot that was pricked.
(2) My vet's office only uses 25-gauge needles for glucose testing kitty's ears; I was horrified initially and insisted on using lancets. I tried two different types of lancet styles for about two weeks, before I threw in the towel -- so many pricks and hardly ever any blood (or enough). And I knew my baby girl felt it, because she shook her head most times. I finally made myself try the needle and ultimately got relatively "comfortable" with it -- done the right way, it is simply more effective (I can describe the method, if you'd like). Perhaps now that her ears are "conditioned" to bleed, lancets would work -- but I refuse to use her as an experimental pin cushion. And I've grown to respect the control of the needle, how visible the tip is and the greater precision with it accordingly.
If any of this is repetitive, or you knew, please disregard. But please let me know if there's anything I can answer or help with -- some nice folks on this board helped me when I first got Beanie's diabetes diagnosis.
Well, I'm off to go get a nadir reading now (ugh -- still, lol). Best wishes to you, Pat121, and your fur baby, Beau!