Hello,
We had our cat at the vet yesterday and she was diagnosed as diabetic! My wife took her and when she came home, the news was worse than we could ever imagine! She has very high sugar levels in her urine and the decision has to be made on how to go forward in the next few days. I've had her for almost 13 years and she still to day has been the most loyal companion you can ever imagine. Sees me out the door every morning, waiting for me when I come home and sleeps on our bed every night all for a little scratch and maybe a treat here and there. Late last year, she just wasn't herself and developed a lump on her belly which was later diagnosed as breast cancer ( which I had no idea a cat could get ). Again, it was either the humane way to end a life or pay for the expensive surgery with less than a 10% chance of success. Everyone told me I was nuts. I may not be your stereotypical cat owner and people just don't get it but I've grown soooo attached to her over the years and just feel like I owe her everything I can give. Well, she recovered completely to everyone's amazement and has been living cancer free for 11 months. Now, the vet again says we either have to do the humane thing before suffering occurs or start insulin treatment ASAP! I really don't know what to do. She's almost 13 years old and I wonder does quality of life start to come into play here? I don't want to just give up on her but yet not sure if giving needles and traumatizing her any more is the right answer either. I just don't see any changes in her demeanour or behavior that are out of the ordinary so I don't understand the sudden urgency to make this decision. The vet suggested we just enjoy the weekend with her and take her back next week is probably the humane thing to do I'm trying to school myself on this topic but I think hearing other people's opinions that went thru it are much better than just reading a webpage! I'm literally sick inside about this and scared I'm going to do the wrong thing. Is it selfish to want to keep her alive if things are going down hill??? I really need some help here and would appreciate anybody that has had a similar situation to weigh in! Sorry for the long-winded post but just have so much on my mind and really want to do what's best for her!
Thanks very much!!!
We had our cat at the vet yesterday and she was diagnosed as diabetic! My wife took her and when she came home, the news was worse than we could ever imagine! She has very high sugar levels in her urine and the decision has to be made on how to go forward in the next few days. I've had her for almost 13 years and she still to day has been the most loyal companion you can ever imagine. Sees me out the door every morning, waiting for me when I come home and sleeps on our bed every night all for a little scratch and maybe a treat here and there. Late last year, she just wasn't herself and developed a lump on her belly which was later diagnosed as breast cancer ( which I had no idea a cat could get ). Again, it was either the humane way to end a life or pay for the expensive surgery with less than a 10% chance of success. Everyone told me I was nuts. I may not be your stereotypical cat owner and people just don't get it but I've grown soooo attached to her over the years and just feel like I owe her everything I can give. Well, she recovered completely to everyone's amazement and has been living cancer free for 11 months. Now, the vet again says we either have to do the humane thing before suffering occurs or start insulin treatment ASAP! I really don't know what to do. She's almost 13 years old and I wonder does quality of life start to come into play here? I don't want to just give up on her but yet not sure if giving needles and traumatizing her any more is the right answer either. I just don't see any changes in her demeanour or behavior that are out of the ordinary so I don't understand the sudden urgency to make this decision. The vet suggested we just enjoy the weekend with her and take her back next week is probably the humane thing to do I'm trying to school myself on this topic but I think hearing other people's opinions that went thru it are much better than just reading a webpage! I'm literally sick inside about this and scared I'm going to do the wrong thing. Is it selfish to want to keep her alive if things are going down hill??? I really need some help here and would appreciate anybody that has had a similar situation to weigh in! Sorry for the long-winded post but just have so much on my mind and really want to do what's best for her!
Thanks very much!!!