Marje and Gracie said:
Dan
I know Frankie is underweight and she needs to eat, but it is not true that an unregulated diabetic cat should be allowed to eat as much as they would like. please take a few seconds to read this post on
Feed Kiity as Much as They Want?.
It's best to determine what her ideal weight is and then feed the number of calories per day to get her there. A good formula for maintenance is 20 calories/lb per day so I'd use higher than that for her. Weigh her, feed her 25-30 calories per pound per day, weigh her again in a week....is she gaining? Keep checking her weight and adjusting the calories per day as needed.
That is a great formula and way easier to remember than that whole
13.6(X)+70 thing. Thanks, Marje! Something that helped me make sure my kitty was getting enough calories is "round big" his approximate daily caloric need. For example if he needed 250 calories/day, it was very rare that he actually would eat ~250 calories each day; it turned out that some days, he'd eat only 200 calories, other days, he might eat 300 calories. So, what I did was make sure he was
averaging between 200 to 300 calories every day. Of course, ECID (Every Cat Is Different), so Frankie might be consistent in her eating and you won't have to worry about this or maybe just need a smaller window (like a range from 250 to 300 calories a day).
Dr Schrodinger said:
Mine would not tolerate me holding anything on the inside of his ear. It's not really suprising as their are a lot of sensitive hairs in there. Don't tell anyone else, but I gave up with cotton pads & toilet roll wads & now just poke it against the callouses on my finger. Not pretty, but it does the job, and my kitty gets an ear rub at the same time. I also hold him like a set of bagpipes, with his back end tucked under my arm, so he gets a cuddle too.
Guilty of this, too. I look at it that if I poke through the ear and hit my finger, then I'm doing it too hard. :lol: Michelangelo is super-sensitive already and even the neosporin bothered his ears to the point that I had to switch to vetericyn instead. Until I ditched the tissue on the inside of the ear, it was a constant battle for the two of us where I knew I was pissing him off and he knew I was trying to help but wasn't too happy about it.
Dr. Schrodinger is also correct that the ears learn to bleed better and some ears even bleed better than others. With Mikey's right ear, I can get a sample every time with one (rarely 2) pokes. His left ear, on the other hand, requires 3 pokes
minimum before I might see a drop of blood (and even then, it's usually too small so I have to "milk" it). Not sure if someone has already shared this with you, but here are some
additional ear testing tips that cover most of the difficulties that come with testing.
Dan and Frankie said:
Is white Albacore Tuna good for treats?
Treatwise, I generally look for any freeze-dried meats that contain pure protein and no other ingredients (eg "
Premium Chicken Pieces"). Half the time, I end up buying the dog treats instead because you get a bigger bag for a cheaper price (although you do have to break up the treats into smaller pieces, usually).
Dan and Frankie said:
One of the other problems that I am having is my Wife's Take on this whole thing.... she seemed very stoic when we decided to put her down, but now that I have decided to take this on, she is very upset because she thinks it is going to cost too much and that it will be impossible to manage when our babies come. She is not as compassionate about animals as I am, so her logic is flawed and being 4.5 months preggers with twins is not helping on the hormonal side.... This is a battle I am dealing with right now as well... she has seemed to come off it, and I don't want to upset her, but there is no way I am putting down a cat that I feel is perfectly happy, and just needs help.
Sometimes, the only way to solve that problem is to let the evidence speak for itself in a couple of weeks when Frankie turns back into the kitten she once was. Heck, you'll even see a change for the better in Mollie just from changing their food.
