Sweet Donna, I am so very, very sorry, and my heart aches for you.
Please don't fret about communicating with him -- no one knows that boy or loves him as well as you. And I truly believe that the strength of those bonds is tangible and real, and they can carry thoughts and words and love as surely as you can walk across a footbridge here on earth.
Listen to your heart, Donna, and Shiloh will tell you whatever you want to know. And I'd be willing to bet he's shining and radiant, running and happy, free of all his troubles -- and it's all because of your love.
You have given the greatest gift love can offer, and I hope and pray I am as brave and selfless as you when that time comes to my house. I know nothing can comfort you right now, but please know that I will never, ever forget your dedication to Shiloh.