babyg
Very Active Member
Hi everyone,
As some of you may know, I lost my baby whom I had for 16 years about a month ago. I've been going to shelters looking to see if there's a cat for me, but I'm just confused. How do you know you're ready, and how do you know this one is "the one"? When I got my cat all those years ago, the minute she was in my arms she grabbed me fiercely and purred and purred and didn't want to leave me. I said "I want this one. She's the one." But even though I've since held cats that have purred and seemed sweet, I don't know that I've had an inner nudge like this is it. There's one cat I've seen a couple times now who is very sweet and gives kisses and love bites, but also can have a feisty side and bite/scratch. Kind of like a jekyll and Hyde. So I'm not sure. It's a huge commitment and responsibility for the next possibly 20 years of my life. How do you know?
As some of you may know, I lost my baby whom I had for 16 years about a month ago. I've been going to shelters looking to see if there's a cat for me, but I'm just confused. How do you know you're ready, and how do you know this one is "the one"? When I got my cat all those years ago, the minute she was in my arms she grabbed me fiercely and purred and purred and didn't want to leave me. I said "I want this one. She's the one." But even though I've since held cats that have purred and seemed sweet, I don't know that I've had an inner nudge like this is it. There's one cat I've seen a couple times now who is very sweet and gives kisses and love bites, but also can have a feisty side and bite/scratch. Kind of like a jekyll and Hyde. So I'm not sure. It's a huge commitment and responsibility for the next possibly 20 years of my life. How do you know?