9/25 Gracie PMPS 98

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Marje and Gracie

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Good morning, our friends. DH is not here but, Carl, it is Wednesday. Perhaps I should start calling it Jose Wednesday since the pool service guy, Jose, comes every Wednesday and Gracie patiently waits for him on the window seat in a guest room window. Only on Wednesdays.

No recap today but Gracie is doing fine. I took her dose up a bit and she has been flat, low blue so I'm hoping the new dose kicks in soon and she starts churning out her greens. I'm sure she feels the stress and sorrow here but she has been playful and happy. Her coat looks so gorgeous and is silky. She and Tobey have been running and playing; it's cool enough here now to have the doors and windows open in the mornings and at night and they've been loving the fresh air. It always amazes me how fast her little tiny legs can run.

My DMIL passed quietly last night. They found on Monday that the cancer had spread to her lymph nodes and brain. Mike said they talked Monday about her going in to hospice and she actually was awake and ate breakfast yesterday morning. However, afterwards, she coded and they resuscitated her because one of his sisters was not there yet. They put her on a ventilator and kept her on morphine; she did not regain consciousness. After Julie got there and spent some time with her, they removed the ventilator, and she peacefully passed three minutes later. The doctors said her cancer was too advanced and she could not breathe on her own. But all four of her children and two of her grandchildren were with her and I do believe even if she wasn't conscious, she knew she was not alone. What more can any of us ask but to be surrounded by our most loved ones as we cross? The service is Friday and Mike will be home Sunday.

My cousin is still here and she's been wonderful...but she always is. Her mom has Alzheimers and also a much less aggressive form of lung cancer. Donna got a call yesterday that Aunt Betty was sick (my other two cousins live near her, too) but after the tests, they determined it is just asthma and the cancer has not worsened. Donna leaves on Friday.

So please forgive my absence and know we think of each of you. Thank you all so much for your prayers for my DMIL the other day. I'm not able to go to KY for the service but I'm trying to make necessary calls like to Social Security and Office of Personnel Management because Mom was retired civil service. And also working with Southwest to get the rest of her grandchildren to KY for the service as they will fly any and all relatives there for free....what an amazing company and they have been fantastic to Mike and me.

I should be back after Donna leaves Friday but I leave on Tues or Wed to see my mom as she is not well but it is not life threatening. She fell and has a hairline fracture on her femur and she's going through alot of depression right now so my sister from SC and I are going to be with her.
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So sorry to hear DMIL is gone. Condolences for your entire family. Hugs to Mike and you.
Prayers for them and for your mother.

If you are traveling thru ABQ , I can swing down if you have a pit stop.
 
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:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
Thinking of you and Mike and his family as you all grieve and mourn this loss.

Karen
 
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Mike/Marje/Fuzzy Feetz - I'm sorry it was DMIL's time to cross. I'm sorry you have to be home instead of by his side too.. :sad: BIG HUGE LOOOOONG HUG and more...

I'm thankful Aunt's was just asthma...sounds like Donna needed a break and what amazing timing that she was there with you when DMIL crossed.

Another BIG HUG,
 
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I'm so sorry to hear about DMIL's passing so quickly. I'm glad she was surrounded by her loved ones. I'm glad your aunt's cancer wasn't worse and it was just asthma. I hope they get that under control. Sending prayers for your family in this difficult time and for your mom.
 
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Marje, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Mike, and his family.


It is wonderful that your cousin is there with you. Glad to hear her moms cancer has not worsened. Prayers for her as well.


Prayers for your mom, I think its great that you are going to visit her and spend some time with her.



I am sorry to hear that you have so much going on right now. Thank you for updating us - nice to hear from you.

*hugs*
 
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Marje,
Please pass my thoughts and prayers to Mike and his family. It is good that she was surrounded by love at the end.

Prayers for your Mom too.

It sounds like LBG hearts Jose ;-)
 
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Marje, (((HUGS))) x a million! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Such a sad time I and KNOW how hard it is not to be able to be there. Sending prayers and glad that Donna is with you.....

Fondly,
Bern (and Tashie too )
 
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((( Marje ))) I'm sorry for your loss and for the pains of you and your loved ones. It sounds like you have a very close family and you will see each other through.
 
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Aw, Marje, I'm so sorry about your DMiL. (((Hugs to you and Mike.))) There is so much going on in your life right now, please take plenty of time for yourself.
We will be thinking of you. Best wishes for your mother to heal. I'm sure seeing you and your sister will be an amazing tonic for her.

All my best!
 
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I'm sorry for your loss - I hope that all of your wonderful memories will help put a smile on your heart.
 
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So sorry to hear of the passing of your DMIL. Take time for yourself and your family now and don't worry about this right now.

Hope your mom heals quickly and without any problems. Having you and your sister visit will be the best medicine.

(((HUGS)))
 
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(((((Mike and Marje))))) Please accept our condolences on the passing of DMiL. Very sad that you can't be there too, Marje. We are all thinking of you and sending many comfort vines.
Liz, Anne, Zener and Tillie
 
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Dear Marje & Mike,
We are very sorry to learn of the passing of Mike's mother. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Many prayers for a speedy recovery for your mom and for improved health for Donna's mom. It is good to be with family during times like this. We are thinking of you all.

Hugs, and for the kitties, scritches.

Ella & Edward, & Rusty
 
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So very sorry to read this sad news, Marje. I know how much you wish you could be with your precious DH at this time, which makes it all that much harder and difficult.

I am glad you have found a little comfort in Donna as she with you in this sad time.....

I hope when you are able to visit with your mother, you and your sister are able to brighten her days a little...I am sure you will be able to do just that!!

take extra care and time for yourself

~kelly
 
Missy G is back in :mrgreen: and I hope she stays there for a while tonight!! Lil Stinka has been pretty flat blue lately. But better flat blue than flat yellow.

You all have brought tears to my eyes (and I'm sure Mike's when he goes back and reads this) for all your prayers and thoughts in this condo and in your own. It means so much to us. So sending a big big hug to you all and thank each and everyone of of you for visiting even though we aren't around posting on condos.

(((Rhiannon, Karen, donaleen, Lyresa, Carla, Jamie, Carl, Amy, Jane, Josie, Bern, Nina, Devon, Carolyn, Susie, Chris, Melissa, Barb, Ann, Liz, Ella, Kelly, John, and Rich)))). You all are the best family!
 
Hi Marje, just wanted to send my condolences as well to you and Mike :cry: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: I'm glad Gracie is showing you some green tonight, bringing you some sunshine. Sending vines for your mom as well and hoping for a speedy recovery.
 
(((Marje and Mile)))
I am so sorry for your loss.
I'm glad Mike's mother was surrounded by her loved ones when she passed.
Sending prayers to you and your family.
 
geez Marje...your plate us surely full. So sorry to hear about your mother in law's passing. It was wonderful she was able to have so much family around her. Hope your mom is doing well.
 
I am so sorry Marje! All of our prayers for you, Mike and your family. Please take care of yourself and your family. We are all here to help you through your grief.

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
 
(((Marje))) my condolences and heartfelt sympathy to you and Mike. It's so nice that she was surrounded by her family and love. So sorry you can't be there with Mike. Healing vines and prayers for your Mom and also for Donna's Mom. Marje, take care of you.
 
(((Marje))), I'm so very saddened to hear about the passing of your DMIL :cry: I'm sure she felt the love of everyone around her. I'm glad they could all be with her! Sending you and Mike hugs for peace and healing...

Many prayers for your Mom and Mikes family as well!
 
Marje. I'm so sorry to read of your DMIL passing. Please pass our condolences to Mike and his family. So glad it was just asthma with your aunt. We'll keep your mom, you and Mike and his family in our Prayers.
 
Marje - So sorry to hear about your MIL. Prayers for your mom, aunt and your family.

HUGS -

Libby (& Hershey, too!)
 
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