He had such a great life with you. And a long one. That doesn't make it any easier I know.
I don't remember where I found it, but am quoting as I had written it down many years ago. 
– and when you are ready, we will listen to your stories.
You are much loved. 
♥
Thank you Elise for helping me through so many situations with both of my boys. Both Rico and Dre benefitted from your support and knowledge. I miss them something awful, they were such a joy to be with. Your girls are lucky to have such a good mommy.With a heavy heart and tears I just made contact with a Jayla. She had to let Dre go yesterday. He was her soul kitty and they were so connected. He was a miracle cat and fought so hard to come back from so many illnesses to be with her. It was not diabetes that took him as with so many fur babies here. I know she will appreciate hearing from you. Prayers for a soft landing dear Dre. Give your fur babies an extra hug tonight.
Elise
Thank you Kyle the tears are hard to control and coming home is heartbreak all over again. I pray he sends me a sign soon and Rico came running for himSo so sorry about the loss of your sweet Dre @jayla-n-Drevon ! He was such a special cat - and you were the best mom ever and took such good care of him for so many years! I am just heartbroken for you! With my deepest sympathy, Kyle
Thank you Elise for helping me through so many situations with both of my boys. Both Rico and Dre benefitted from your support and knowledge. I miss them something awful, they were such a joy to be with. Your girls are lucky to have such a good mommy.
Thank you Carla...I remember the days you helped me with Dre and I am sincerely grateful. You are right I did everything I could for him but in the end it was too much for his body to fight. The last gift I could give him was freedom -as hard as it was I know it was the right thing. I promised him and Rico I would never let them suffer.I'm so sorry to hear this. I know Jayla did everything she could for him. Fly free sweet Dre. Sending prayers.
Thank you Wendy....and thank you for your guidance over the years. I know you understand the pain all too well.Aww, Jayla, I am so sorry it was your old man's time.
Fly free Dre, sent your mamma a message when you get to the Bridge.
Thank you Bron, You have helped us on our fd journey, Dre was most certainly loved and he knew it he had no fears.Oh I am so sad to hear this. Jayla is devoted to her fur babies
Fly free beautiful Dre. You were much loved
Thank you Christie, I love the poem(((Jayla)))
@jayla-n-Drevon my heartfelt sympathies. We have crossed paths here over the last few years. I know it feels like a piece of you is missing, and it can be so hard to not have them near anymore... give yourself time to grieve.
This poem helped me when I lost my heart dog...ya, he was a drooler, but the kitties don't mind me sharing
"A Poem For The Grieving
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die...
Anonymous"
Fly free sweet Dre, and there are some butterflies for you to chase now
I will light a candle tonight for Dre
yes a large piece of me is missing even my bf is emotional.
I love your post-I actually smiled for the first time today! Your words are beautiful thank youJayla, you are a hero. You are his hero. That is what Dre will be telling every cat he happens to meet. The cats will ask him how old he was when he passed and exclaim, "Wow! Really?" And Dre will tell them the story of your love and devotion.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and your pain, and wish we all could surround you and listen to your stories about Dre and hug you in person. This will have to do –
Lyla, Thank you so much for such a thoughtful posting, it really touched my heart. Diver Dre and Remission Rico!Jayla, I am so, so sorry that it was time for your sweet soul kitty Dre to fly.
I would do anything to ease the weight of your pain even a little bit if I could. But I know there are no words.
Dre has a legacy on the board, and Rico too. You and I have not really interacted, yet I have learned so much from reading your posts and your boys' spreadsheets, and I've always been in awe of your devotion, care and love for your boys. You, Dre and Rico have helped countless kitties and beans on the board, including Butters and me. Dre will always be remembered.
Mogs..Thank you my fried for your kind words, we both know the pain that comes with the many years of joy.I would do it all over again without hesitation.Oh, Jayla...
I am heartsore for you at hearing the sad, sad news about your darling Dre. Can't believe it...
Please try to stay away from the what-ifs. Of all people, that is something you will never ever need to worry about. Dre reached 21 years of age - 21! And that, dearest Jayla, is all down to you being such an extraordinary cat mama, and to the care and devotion you gave to Dre every day of his life - such a rich life, full of love, happiness, and caring. (And the same goes for dear Rico.)
Saying prayers that the universe will send some small comforts your way. My heart goes out to you...
(((Jayla and Spirit Dre)))
Mogs
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Thank you Julie...more Kleenex time
Jt I have no words..such kind and thoughtful words. Thank you...I miss him so muchA true veteran hero! I remember your name when I first came to FDMB. You are BOTH a standard to live by. THANK YOU for your years of joy sadness and pure love. This board has been lucky to have you both. My heart goes out to you. Dre in my estimation was a guiding light. You his driver. Fly free dear boy land ever so softly in Jaylas heart... forever.
Thank you Ella-he will wear his wings with prideDear Jayla,
Dre was such a fine kitty, and a venerable guy. I am so sorry for your loss. Our GA kitties are always there for us: just look around that bend in the path and he'll be just ahead with a spring in his step and love for you in his eyes.
Fly free, sweet Dre, on your beautiful new golden wings.
In deepest sympathy,
Ella & Edward, Rusty (GA) and Stu (GA)
your way, Jayla.
A true veteran hero! I remember your name when I first came to FDMB. You are BOTH a standard to live by. THANK YOU for your years of joy sadness and pure love. This board has been lucky to have you both. My heart goes out to you. Dre in my estimation was a guiding light. You his driver. Fly free dear boy land ever so softly in Jaylas heart... forever.
JT your words hit me right in the heart...thank you so much for helping to regain my strength -- I miss my boys terribly, I was unable to properly grieve my Rico because Dre was so depressed and I knew he need me.
They passed almost a yer apart. Thank you again your words mean so much to me.
Thank you Mogs.....everywhere look I see the boys stuff it will be there a while...Sending some more prayers and
(((Jayla and Spirit Dre)))
Mogs
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Ah, Jayla...Thank you Mogs.....everywhere look I see the boys stuff it will be there a while...
I'm just seeing this now.... Oh J I'm so sorry. Your dedication and love for Dre was emence, and you've helped many with the knowledge you've acquired with his care. I'm so so sorry for your loss.I have no words to adequately say thank you to each person. My heart is broken and my home is empty.
I guess I never imagined life without my boys...Dre was devastated when Rico went to the bridge.
Your kind words mean so much to me especially when you always wonder if I did this or that....
Thank you all so much
And thank you @tiffmaxee for being so supportive and thoughtful.
Hi Janet, Thank you...I can't seem to stop crying I miss him so much - I know Rico was waiting for him but they were my world...I know you understand. He was doing so good and then he just went down and I couldn't let him suffer for a moment.
Thank you Mogs,Ah, Jayla...
I was the same. I left so many things exactly where they were. I needed them to be there. It was all I had to hang on to. It took having to change address before I could move her belongings. I still have her sharps container on my worktop at the new address and the mug and cloth I used to protect her insulin is still in its spot in my fridge.
I hope that seeing the boys' little bits and pieces around you will remind you that their spirits are with you, and always will be.
My heart hurts for you, Jayla. Soul cats are so precious...
(((Jayla, Spirit Dre and Spirit Rico)))
Mogs
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Thank you so much....the candle shines like my boys
I long for this day....
I loved seeing the pic you posted of the boys, oh those eyes, they look right into your soul. You can see how much they love you, Jayla. I hope the fond memories of them give you some comfort.
This is such a wonderful picture of Dre and Rico.
Thank you Ella, I was looking at the millions of pictures I have from over the years and I was so blessed to have found my soul kittys. I have their special toys along with the toy box for when they got bored. My bf wants us to pick the best picture and have it professionally framed. I guess these feelings are normal but it hurts so bad.This is such a wonderful picture of Dre and Rico.
Don't discard any of Dre's diabetes equipment for a while. You need it just now. I still have Stu's and Rusty's meters and all of the toys that belonged to Rusty, Stu, and Alice (a civvie). Gus plays with them all the time, and he sleeps in their baskets. It's a passing of the torch, as it were. Someday another kitty or two will find a wonderful home with you and will "adopt" your boys' things.
He had a long beautiful life with you. Much longer than he would have with almost any other person. If you keep yourself open to signs for him you may find he still pays you visits.
