Well, she eats at the same time as everyone else, but she usually isn't in the same place as they are. I just take her plate to wherever she is. Maybe I'll try changing plates. Who knows what might work? What's really irksome is that she'll make me think she's going to eat something...then I come back, and she's gone and the plate looks mostly untouched. I think what she really wants may be dry food, given that she seems to prefer un-rehydrated dehydrated raw, but she's out of luck on that score!
About her going OTJ - that would be lovely, of course, but as Venita knows, we've never expected this girl to go OTJ. So that's not my goal. My goal is to get her eating well and to become properly regulated, whatever that takes.