5/2 Tugger PMBG 73 Juicy Fruit Day 6

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Marvie and Tugger

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Looks like Tugger had a good day yesterday:

AMBG 99
PMBG 90

Better start to today at 80 =) Not much to report since I wasn't here yesterday, today all he's done is eat and sleep lol. Hubby was super active all day yesterday so that meant the dogs were too, I am guessing that today is Tugger's recover-from-hyper-dogs day.

Isis is settling in well, she's attached herself with velcro to hubby's side. He's now learning what I have been dealing with for 2.5 years with Boomer :mrgreen: or maybe :twisted: heheheh He's now thinking of changing her name to Velcro or Hemorrhoid (Hemmie for short because she pulls like a V-8 he said ROFL) I'm loving it lol. It's funny to watch him trip over her every time he turns around. It's also kind of funny to watch him get frustrated over it because he's been sitting here in my shoes for a couple of years now, laughing about Boomer being up m butt 24/7 and now it's HIS turn. *nods* Yep, I'm kinda lovin' it :lol:

Boomer seems to have accepted her and isn't quite as nervous now. We're watching for her triggers and redirecting her before she can get snippy with him. She doesn't like to be crowded, seems to be the thing that sets her off most often, so we're trying to make sure that doesn't happen. Boomer sees that we are working at it to keep him safe and has even put her in her place once or twice. Progress is being made =)

I had a blast yesterday :mrgreen: I spent a lot of money on yarn and drooled at all the ones I couldn't buy. I petted sheep and Alpacas and little hoppy lambs. I was stepped on and bumped into a thousand and one times because the crowd was HUGE. It was way more crowded than I have ever seen it before.

I do wish to rant for one brief moment... WHY do people insist upon bringing their small children out to crowded festivals in 90 degree heat? The come out in giant strollers which they then load up with all sorts of crap to entertain the brats who don't even want to be there in the first place. Then they proceed to shove these giant strollers through the crowd with NO regard to the legs, heels and feet of the other people around them. They let their brats put sticky hands all over the very expensive yarn that most of these vendors have spun/dyed themselves. They let them run wild in the crowds, again with no regard to the people around them. Most of whom have left their own brats at HOME because it's just NOT a place meant for small kids. Each vendor gets a pretty small area to set up. These areas are so crowded that you can't even move around comfortably under the best of conditions. You literally have to stand still and wait for someone else to move so you can take their place. It's not a place for kids, seriously. It is even more NOT a place for strollers. I also saw a lot of people out there with tiny babies, most were wearing baby in a pouch. It was 90 degrees, humid and the sun was out in FULL force. The babies were miserable in the pouches, screaming because they were hot and uncomfortable. Really? You've got to go to this festival SO BAD that you can't leave the baby with dad or grandma or even wait for the next one? I never would have considered taking my boys to something like that when they were newborn or just a few months old. It's just not fair to the baby. It was so hot yesterday that the adults were walking around shiny with sweat on every exposed body part, shirts were drenched to the point of dripping in some cases, people were getting heat exhaustion. Not the place for a small baby or even a toddler for that matter.

I do love kids, I really do. But some activities are just not meant for you to bring the whole family along. Unless the whole family are knitters, crocheters, spinners etc. Which I have known of. Sure, kids like the sheep and other animals but that's really about the only thing there of any interest to kids, that interest is pretty short lived too. Once you've seen one barn filled with baaa'ing sheep, you've seen 'em all really. I felt sorry for the kids and irritated with the parents for putting them through it. I heard so many kids crying "I'm HOT" ,"I'm TIRED", "I'm HUNGRY" (not many kids like lamb sammiches, especially right after they've been PETTING LAMBS!) and "I WANNA GO HOME NOWWWWWWWWWWWW!" Heck, by 1:00 I was crying (in my head) "I'm HOT. I'm TIRED. I wanna go home now." We only got there at 11:30 and I had WANTED to be there, if that tells you much. We stayed till 5 and when we left we were all three filthy, exhausted and wishing for a shower and a bed but had to drive back home. I can't imagine being 4 and having to be forced to go through that day.

My plan for today is to wallow in my purty yarnz and recover =)
 
Re: 5/2 Tugger AMBG 80 Juicy Fruit Day 6

Tugger is still looking great.

I have to agree with you. Frankly, I see the same thing at stores -- superwide/big strollers that are brought into boutique sized stores with tiny aisles. If the stroller isn't demolishing the displays, the kids are and the parents are oblivious. My favorite was a year or so ago when a kid was on a Razor-type scooter in a gourmet store. The kid was barely big enough to use the scooter, was slamming into customers, and the parent was not to be found. When the mom was finally tracked down, she didn't understand the problem and was very huffy when asked to take the scooter and leave it outside, keep the kid under control, or leave. I really don't understand why parents expect the rest of the world to either enjoy or babysit their out of control child.
 
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tee hee - don't mean to laugh, but the whole kid thing cracked me up. It's so true.

so other than boomer the great dane, what breeds are the other dogs you have? Miss Velcor and all. and do you have pics to share?

congrats on day 6!

FWIW - 90, 99 and 80 really are all the same number - so don't get hung up on the numbers so much during the trial, Tugger is doing great and I'm sure he'd like you to make him a nice bed with the yarn you bought yesterday.... hint hint
 
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Tugger is looking great, Marvie! Happy day 6!!

you know, you are sooo bad!! I can just see the enjoyment you are getting watching your DH and Isis go about their daily activities! Does poetic justice come to mind??? Sometimes it's nice to see that!

I also agree that there are places that small children, heck, maybe even any child should not be. I think that there are many parents that just don't pay enough attention to what their children are doing, and if they are, they don't care. Makes me very mad to see this and I have to bite my tongue so many times. But, all in all, it seemed that you had a great time yesterday and now today, you get to enjoy your purchases....what more can you ask - a nice ambg AND some wonderful yarn!!!
 
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Tugger is looking great :mrgreen: and I so agree about the kid thing and I do have well grown kids now but I also hate to go to antique malls or flea markets where kids are being dragged or worse yet a all day auction that is SOOO boring for a kid to be at a auction all day long running all over. We always left our kids at Grandmas or just did not go our we also did not own those HUGE strollers people all seem to have now we had those very small cheap ones that folded up very small. Good to hear the New Dane is settling in :mrgreen:
 
Re: 5/2 Tugger AMBG 80 Juicy Fruit Day 6

HI Marvie and Tugger! Scrabble missed his partner yesterday! Glad you had fun being out, wasn't it nice???? I am finally feeling like we have more freedom here too!
Glad your drooler is adjusting!
I agree with the kid thing too it is sooooo annoying!
Have a great Sunday!
 
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Sienne and Gabby said:
Tugger is still looking great.

I have to agree with you. Frankly, I see the same thing at stores -- superwide/big strollers that are brought into boutique sized stores with tiny aisles. If the stroller isn't demolishing the displays, the kids are and the parents are oblivious. My favorite was a year or so ago when a kid was on a Razor-type scooter in a gourmet store. The kid was barely big enough to use the scooter, was slamming into customers, and the parent was not to be found. When the mom was finally tracked down, she didn't understand the problem and was very huffy when asked to take the scooter and leave it outside, keep the kid under control, or leave. I really don't understand why parents expect the rest of the world to either enjoy or babysit their out of control child.

I see this kind of thing all.the.time. ohmygod_smile Especially when we lived on post in Germany. These kids would run wild in public, run all over their parents at home, etc. then those same parents would ask me how I got my kid to be so well behaved? Hmmm, well first of all... I expect it? Then there are consequences when I don't get what I expect. Kind of simple really. I have a three strike policy. First time, I explain the consequences of the inappropriate action and describe an appropriate response or two for the next time a situation such as that comes up. Second time, I apply the consequences for a very brief time frame. Third time, I throw the book at him. I am more harsh with the time frame, depending on the severity of the action. There's not usually a fourth time. He doesn't want to think about how much worse it can get after the third time :mrgreen:

Thing is, I'm willing to suffer the consequences right along with the brat. When he's grounded, in essence, so am I. I have to deal with him up my butt like a velcro dane with her daddy ;) It can make you crazy. It can make you want to relent. I don't relent though. I think hard before I set consequences and I make sure they are ones I can live with before I set them. I'm the mean mom that kept him home from Busch Gardens after he was caught playing with matches in the back yard (dry summer, pine trees 3 6 yr old boys.) While the other kids got to go with their parents. When he complained I said that I was sorry that those kids had parents who would eventually have hooligans for kids but when my child makes really bad choices like playing with matches, he does NOT get to go have a fun day the very next day. Next time, he'll think harder about his choices before taking action. Sure enough, from that point on if he even so much as found a lighter in the street he brought it to me and when he wanted to know what fire does we experimented in the fireplace, safely, together.

It's a whole lot harder to deal with a spoiled brat than it is to live with the consequences a few times and come out with a kid who thinks a little bit before he makes a choice. Not to say he always makes the right choices, but he knows if he makes X decision over Y the consequence for X will be quickly dealt and not pleasant to live with. Sometimes it's worth it to him to take the punishment, sometimes it's not. But at least he's thinkin' about it. And when it comes time to live with the choice he made, he owns it and deals with it. Because that's what men do and if he wants to be treated like a full grown man, he has to earn it. In return, as long as he's following the rules he's pretty much free to make his own choices and do what he wants now. I expect him to keep me up to speed on where he is at all times and got him a phone with which to do so. I expect him to use the manners we taught him when in the presence of adults and females but don't care if he curses moderately in my presence. He'll learn with a quickness that 16 isn't too old to have his mouth washed out with soap and mama isn't really all that small when pushed if he curses in front of other adults though and he knows it.

I don't expect perfection but I do expect him to own his behavior and show the world that his mama raised him right. We learn from mistakes but only if there are consequences. Sometimes those occur naturally and I don't need to apply any (touch something hot and it burns, pull the cat's tail and it scratches) other times, I need to step in and apply them myself but he knows there is always a consequence one way or the other.

I never really took my kids to places kids didn't belong when they were wee. I either stayed home or found a sitter. When we went to kid friendly crowded places I used an umbrella stroller and only took a couple of diapers some wipes and a bottle or just snacks once they were older. The event was the entertainment and we didn't need a ton of crap to lug around. As soon as they were able to ditch the stroller and walk on their own, I got a freakin' kid leash and gave up the stroller. He learned to stay with me and hold my hand but I had the tether in case he forgot. By the time he was three or so I could simply snap my fingers in a store and he'd be at my side instantly if he started to wander. I also taught him "Whatchu do?" what do you do if... you get lost in a store? You find someone wearing a uniform and ask for help. It was like a game, we'd come up with all sorts of scenarios for "Whatchu do?" and we even practiced getting lost once so he'd do what he was supposed to do and not be too shy to ask for help. I told a manager what we were doing and they let us practice all the way to sitting the "lost boy" on a bench till his mom found him at customer service. =) I could have taken him to that event yesterday at 4 years old and he'd have been fine (if we only went for a couple of hours) and perfectly well behaved and I wouldn't have worried about him getting lost in the huge crowd or touching the prettypretty yarns with his grubbygrubby paws. I wouldn't have, but I could have. I wouldn't take him now though because he'd be worse than those kids who were forced to be there. He whines more at almost 16 than he ever did at 4 :lol:
 
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Good morning! This is one of the best reads I have had in ages. And I could not agree with you more! One of my pet peeves: oblivious parents, way too big strollers, and the world evolves around me syndrome.

I hope you had fun, despite the little two-legged monsters. :lol: Sounds like it was fun. Is it really that hot in VA? Here I sit in WA, cursing the cool weather. We will be lucky to break 50 today. And sun? What is that?

AND: CONGRATS TO TUGGER and day 6. Excellent, excellent, excellent!!! :RAHCAT
 
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Hooray for Tugger! Day 6 already!! Wow. Go Tugger, go!

Also in agreement about "modern" parents and their total oblivion when it comes to their kids. Don't you love it when they're at the next table in a restaurant at dinner time with toddlers and even infants? We no longer live in the city, but when we did my DH used to call them YUMS (Young Urban Moms), and we used to have to dodge those double and triple strollers on the sidewalks. Now, cats at the next table, that might be OK!

Ella & Stu
 
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Great Day 6 for Tugger! :) Glad to hear Isis is settling in and that DH is getting a tiny taste of his own medicine. :lol: It's nice, isn't it?
 
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Congratulations on Day 4!!!

Thanks for the rant, I always feel guilty about my aggravation with the YUMs (love that, Ella!) since I don't have kids. Glad I'm not just a cranky old lady.
 
Looking good for Tugger today! He napped with me on the bed for a while this afternoon, I just fed dinner and now he'll settle in for the night. He's MUCH more social now that the shots are not happening and there are so few tests! He comes and hangs out with us a lot more now. It makes me happy to see him chillin' in the chair with Bella or curling his belly up on my feet :mrgreen:

I think I'm all rested up from yesterday, time to go walk Isis now. She may be hubby's hemmie but he's still foisting her training off on me lol. Not for long though because he is SO going to go to ob. classes with her soon!
 
I would just like to say...

...Our furbabies never disrupt aisles, restaurants or public events!!! cat_pet_icon Another argument for Felines.
...Nice PMBG! GO TUGGER!
 
Looking GREAT.......... T :mrgreen: U :mrgreen: G :mrgreen: G :mrgreen: E :mrgreen: R :mrgreen: !
These are the one's that make mamabean happy.


dancing_cat dancing_cat HAPPY DAY 6 !! dancing_cat dancing_cat


Glad you had fun at the yarnarama!

WooHoo!

Betty & hank
 
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