Re: 2/4 Ruben AMPS 261 AT-not eating
Sorry I haven't really been on for a few days. I'm not on here too much on the weekends plus it was Superbowl
and my brother's birthday yesterday. But, I've still been following you on my phone. ;-) It lets me read posts but it just doesn't let me comment. :roll:
One thing I wanted to mention is that I also was wanting to know the same thing about what's so special with KFC? Luckily, Mikey has a voracious appetite so I've never had to worry about getting food into him, but if I ever had to, I've also hoped that I wouldn't have to go the KFC route for similar reasons.
RubenTheCat said:
i know, thats why i want to leave- worried about the stress of it on ruben
he does love ruben but to self absorbed to help ruben or me. i was up til 5 w ruben, at 7am i asked if he could open a can of food for him and he said some stupid commen and left, never got food for ruben, this is on top of other things since ruben got sick
I'm dealing with similar issues with my brother (who lives with me while he's finishing his last semester of college). He's told me numerous times that I can't rely on him for mid-day testing when he's home and I'm at work so I've had to waste my lunch and my gas driving home to test Mikey. (Although to be fair, there have been a couple of occasions where he's actually done it for me!) He also often tells me I should donate Michelangelo to science.

I know he loves Michelangelo, but I think he's just tired of my (mostly) single-minded obsession.
A lot of people (including my brother) have a mindset that animals are less worthy than humans in the sense that they'd save an unknown human tied to the railroad tracks over their own pet. For me, I hope I never have to make that decision because I have a feeling that the human wouldn't make it.... Because of this, they also have a tendency to not be as attentive or compassionate when it comes to their (or others') sick pets. Just as ECID, EHID (Every Human Is Different). This does not generally reflect how they would treat others (like their own kids), but only on how they view animals. They just have a lower threshold on what they're willing to do. I think this is also the reason so many vets don't push home-testing: a lot of owners would surrender or PTS if they got both the diabetes diagnosis and having to give shots on top of having to test multiple times a day.
It gets to me, but at the same time, I remind myself, "this is
my cat and I can do whatever the hell I want with him with or without my brother's support." Yes, it would be better if he were more supportive (or supportive at all), but I've got plenty of support to make up for it from all the people here! :YMHUG: I'm a strong, independent woman who has made my own way in life and I've been doing just fine these last few months without him. Same with you: these last few weeks, you've been doing just fine without your bf's support!
But is it worth throwing in the towel or is it something you can accept and realize that he's just not going to be here for you in matters relating to Ruben? Or is it important to you that your SO has the same regard for life, both human and animal, as you do?
And if you ever want to move to California, I have a spare bedroom opening up in a couple of months when my brother graduates. :lol: