Charlotte Spiegel
Member Since 2021
Hi all,
Came across this forum and I hope you all can help me. I adopted a 13 year old cat in January from a couple that were moving to Hawaii and didn't want to take him. He was so lovely at first, but he did tend to pee on thing, like clothes left on the floor, bathroom rug etc. So I researched, thought it was all behavioral, vet agreed, etc. Cut to six month, he started peeing everywhere, ruined my brand new couch, peed on my bed, everything. I have removed every soft item from my house, or put it in closets. Well about a month ago now, vet diagnosed him with diabetes after they did some blood work. As awful, stressful, limiting and expensive as it has been doing all that, which I am happy to do cuz its not his fault he's sick. I thought it would stop the peeing but it hasn't. Trust me when I say I have tried everything, Nature's Miracle does nothing, he has two, open top, perfectly clean litter boxes that he uses often. I don't leave any clothes out, don't have any small area rugs, my second new couch is covered in a blue home depot tarp 24/7 now. But my bed, sometimes while I am in it sleeping, it's just so so so infuriating. I love him a lot but I am reaching the point of wanting to get rid of him because it is starting to make me really miserable. But if I get rid of him, aside from one diabetic cat rehoming charity I found, looks like most places will put him down which makes me so sad. He really is a lovely cat and I don't want to get rid of him, but I feel like I can't have guests over, I feel like I can't date cuz I don't want to subject anyone to, I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to hate him at all, but the peeing is making me start to resent him I think.
I would love any and all suggestions, just please note I have done all the Nature's Miracle stuff and Litter box suggestions. Any time I see or hear him kneading something I stare at him til he's done to make sure he's not peeing. The previous owner said he was neutured but is it possible he's not? I really just don't know anymore.
Cat's name is Darthy (short for Darth Vader)
Thanks, Charlotte
Came across this forum and I hope you all can help me. I adopted a 13 year old cat in January from a couple that were moving to Hawaii and didn't want to take him. He was so lovely at first, but he did tend to pee on thing, like clothes left on the floor, bathroom rug etc. So I researched, thought it was all behavioral, vet agreed, etc. Cut to six month, he started peeing everywhere, ruined my brand new couch, peed on my bed, everything. I have removed every soft item from my house, or put it in closets. Well about a month ago now, vet diagnosed him with diabetes after they did some blood work. As awful, stressful, limiting and expensive as it has been doing all that, which I am happy to do cuz its not his fault he's sick. I thought it would stop the peeing but it hasn't. Trust me when I say I have tried everything, Nature's Miracle does nothing, he has two, open top, perfectly clean litter boxes that he uses often. I don't leave any clothes out, don't have any small area rugs, my second new couch is covered in a blue home depot tarp 24/7 now. But my bed, sometimes while I am in it sleeping, it's just so so so infuriating. I love him a lot but I am reaching the point of wanting to get rid of him because it is starting to make me really miserable. But if I get rid of him, aside from one diabetic cat rehoming charity I found, looks like most places will put him down which makes me so sad. He really is a lovely cat and I don't want to get rid of him, but I feel like I can't have guests over, I feel like I can't date cuz I don't want to subject anyone to, I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to hate him at all, but the peeing is making me start to resent him I think.
I would love any and all suggestions, just please note I have done all the Nature's Miracle stuff and Litter box suggestions. Any time I see or hear him kneading something I stare at him til he's done to make sure he's not peeing. The previous owner said he was neutured but is it possible he's not? I really just don't know anymore.
Cat's name is Darthy (short for Darth Vader)
Thanks, Charlotte