Iris Deary
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Oh, and I've read the term bouncing but did not know what it meant. Like rodent ulcers.. Sorry I'm late for second shift.
Any time Iris. Keep asking questions.Thank you for talking to me.
Rodent ulcers is a term for lesions on the lips. The correct term is "eosinophilic plaques."
"The most common site for these lesions is on the lips, especially the upper lip, where they appear as ulcers. They are sometimes referred to as 'rodent ulcers' although this term is technically incorrect. ... These lesions are often called eosinophilic plaques."
From your description of the lesions on Lee's lips, I thought that could be the problem.
This link describes the diagnosis and treatment options:
https://vcahospitals.com/know-your-pet/feline-eosinophilic-granuloma-complex-in-cats
If the sores and ulcers on Lee's lips have still not cleared up, he should have another visit to the vet, so the vet can look and see what is going on.
1. When was the last round of antibiotics?
2. When did you start those antibiotics and when did you stop?
3. Were there any signs that the ulcers were getting better?
If you can't physically lift your husband, you can't bring him home and take care of him. No matter what the VA hospital wants you to do. Someone younger and more physically able needs to take care of him, like his son. Cold, hard fact. 2 jobs or not. Time for his son to step up to the plate.I'm scared they will want him to go home with a family member. And I can't lift him or deal with him, I don't think, and his son works two jobs.
Tell her that the test strips for the pet meter are $1 each. Tell her that you test at home. Tell her you test multiple times a day. Tell her you will continue to use the human meter and test strips you can afford and she can learn to deal with it, like vets had to do before pet specific meters existed. Tell her you can't afford to bring Lee into the vet for them to do a curve test because it's too expensive. Tell her you can do a curve test yourself at home for about $2.She wants me to do pet meter so their testing will jive with their's.
Tell her to divide the dose by 2.5. That is a simple arithmetic problem. U40 * 2.5 = amount of insulin drawn up in the U100 syringe.I reduced dose to 6 U-100 units. That totally confused that vet. She kind of treated me like I was dumb and every time I tried to explain she talked over me.
I hear you. Your body can't do what it was able to before, and your money runs out but the expenses keep on coming.Boy it's hard getting old.
As women, I think we take on the role of caregiver and sometimes we simply are not able to do all that is expected of us or all that we want to do. As difficult as that is to realize, we still want to be that strong caregiver, supporting our families as much as we always have. Definitely agree with Lisa, that it's time to have a serious sitdown talk with the son.The thing about son is right. He has never had to help someone else. He lives close to me, has an extra room, and we could help each other. You made me really think. I was looking at what would be expected of me.........of course.
Anytime Iris.Thanks for listening, hearing and supporting. I don't get that much.
No knee replacements yet, but I do have one knee that both locks and buckles sometimes. I do leg lifts every morning before I get out of bed. The exercises seem to help, especially with the locking up part. Need to do stretching exercises in the morning too, for my back and so I can reach down and get my socks on!Replaced knee locks and needing to be replaced knee buckles.