Don't I know!

One kitten I took in at 4 or 5 weeks over 20 years ago, developed severe asthma. I kept syringes of depomedrol and epinephrine at home, she was on prednisone. When I had to go away for a business workshop I boarded her at the animal hospital. I wouldn't put the responsibility of giving her injections on my friends or family who might cat-sit. Sure enough, she had an attack while boarded. The attacks got worse, and the injections less effective, until the day they didn't work at all. She was 3 years old, and died on the way to the vet before she could be put into oxygen.
I kind of thought so.
I actually haven't seen him drinking a lot. The wee-wee pads were dry, unless of course he's using places I have yet to discover.

But there was a good size clump of urine as well as some man-size stools in his litter box this morning. He's eating, but he's not wild about minced or paté in any brand. Well, too bad Fatboy, get used to it.
I just got a call from one of the other doctors at my usual vet. office. She OK'ed the release of his exam results. She said by all means get a 2nd opinion. I've actually worked mostly with her for 10-12 years. Why I didn't make the last appt. with her is a mystery to me. Anyway, we talked for a while. I asked her point blank, saying I understood if she didn't want to answer, why did the other doctor explain things to me the way she did, gave me two horrible choices (actually
no choice), and so on. She said the reason for not giving the shot of insulin was because we hadn't worked up a plan. Doing one shot without any follow up plan would do nothing. I said, but all I had to go on was that it was going to cost me "thousands", up to $1,000 a month, what with insulin being $300, and monthly trips for a battery of tests. Quite honestly that made me think because I couldn't afford that, my only choice was to watch him die. She said
nooo, that's not the way it works at all. She said, as some of you said, initially it can be expensive for the tests, but once we start doing the home testing and injections, it's not all that expensive, with only occasional office visits once he's stable. Well #*@%$!^ why didn't the other doctor phrase it and frame it that way?

So now I don't know whether to be relieved or even
more peed off! Anyway, she said the food change was a good first step, and that many cats can go into remission. I knew I should have seen her, but it is what it is.