Thanks, Robin. It's good to know that you were successful with twice a day meals, and that you don't recommend more frequent feeding. That's actually a relief.
I believe I have reduced the calorie consumption, by giving approximately the same amount of what are mostly lower calorie per ounce foods (the ultra low carb, like Tiki).
I feel like a bit of a failure that I can't comply with watching them while making sure they eat only their own portion off of an individual plate. In this, I have to admit that I have too many cats. Several of them need much more of my attention than Wynk does right now. I spent most of November bringing one kitty back from what I thought was deaths door (we were lucky). I predict that four of my cats will not be with me six months from now, and that kills me.
I don't have children and I no longer have a husband. I have a great job that allows me to pay for good cat care and excellent cat food. What I don't have is time. There are many evenings when I get into bed without having eaten dinner myself. I am not complaining to you, because this is the life that I have chosen. And I love these cats more than anything! I do spend time with them, but at mealtime there are many other cats to feed and medicate. Honestly, I have to admit that I've become overcommitted, but I will continue to do the best I can.