calicocutie
Member Since 2017
Hey everyone,
So my cat's diagnosis came just about right after I asked for a divorce. I am self employed with a very varied schedule which makes being home every 12 extremely challenging (even with a 2 hour window). Recently divorced with no family or close friends in this town...basically it's just me and her and my hard work to keep her in the expensive food/meds/doc visits that her condition now requires.
I have to leave for long weekends for trade shows, it is not unusual to work early morning then be around in the afternoon then gone significant portions of the late afternoon into the evening. I am finding it very challenging to give her her shots like she needs. I honestly do not know what to do.
She is difficult to gvie shots, is a very finicky eater and is challenging on the whole with me; with anyone else, that just gets more difficult. I am not sure I can afford someone coming in on the regular to give her a shot on top of everything else. It is truly just a very challenging time.
How bad is it, really to skip a meal/dose every couple of weeks if I just cannot make it back in time? Any other ideas here? I all the sudden feel like this single mom who is 'doing what she got to do'. It sucks.
So my cat's diagnosis came just about right after I asked for a divorce. I am self employed with a very varied schedule which makes being home every 12 extremely challenging (even with a 2 hour window). Recently divorced with no family or close friends in this town...basically it's just me and her and my hard work to keep her in the expensive food/meds/doc visits that her condition now requires.
I have to leave for long weekends for trade shows, it is not unusual to work early morning then be around in the afternoon then gone significant portions of the late afternoon into the evening. I am finding it very challenging to give her her shots like she needs. I honestly do not know what to do.
She is difficult to gvie shots, is a very finicky eater and is challenging on the whole with me; with anyone else, that just gets more difficult. I am not sure I can afford someone coming in on the regular to give her a shot on top of everything else. It is truly just a very challenging time.
How bad is it, really to skip a meal/dose every couple of weeks if I just cannot make it back in time? Any other ideas here? I all the sudden feel like this single mom who is 'doing what she got to do'. It sucks.