Hi again, Kadie,
I see that Jubalee has had DKA. I'm very sorry to hear that.
Is she completely free of ketones now? Are you testing her pee at home? (You can do that with Ketodiastix strips (or generic equivalent). Crumpling plastic food wrap in the litter tray is a good way to catch a pee sample, and you only need a tiny amount).
I would strongly urge you to keep trying with the hometesting. I know it seems an odd thing to do at first, but it's amazing how quickly it can become 'second nature'.
Here is the link to the FDMB page of hometesting info, tips and tricks, and example videos:
Hometesting Links and Tips
The things I've found most useful are:
1.
Most important: Make sure the ear is warm. Warm ears bleed so much more easily than cold ones.
2. Put a little pressure against the underside of the ear, opposite to where you're pricking, otherwise the lancet can push the ear away rather than prick it. Some folks use a bit of cotton wool or folded tissue, but I just use a finger tip (and have occasionally taken some blood from myself that way....)
3. Massaging immediately below the ear prick can 'milk' out more blood.
4. Two ear pricks close together can often produce enough blood for a test where one ear prick might not.
5. A teensy weensy smear of vaseline on the outer edge of the ear can help the blood to 'bead up' and stop it disappearing into the fur.
6. It's important to reward the kitty for each test (or attempted test) with a cuddle or a treat. (And in fact I crumble a few treats for my cat and then test him quickly while he's munching on those.)
Please know that this should not hurt Jubalee at all. There are very few nerves in the outer edge of her ears. But it is a new experience for you both, and may take a little while to get used to.
If Jubalee doesn't like having her ears touched then you can acclimatize her to this by holding or massaging her ear for a few seconds and then giving her a treat. I did this with my own cat. When I was learning to test I'd pop my cat up onto my desk, massage his ear, and give him a treat. Then I'd set up the testing kit, click the lancet device next to his ear, and give him a treat. Then, when I came to do a test 'for real' he was fine with that.
I'm sure you will find a way that works for you and for Jubalee.
Eliz