Teddy Man GA April 28, 1999 - Oct 18, 2011

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Linda and Bear Man

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Teddy Man passed away today after a brief struggle with pancreatic carcinoma. He was 12 years old. He is reunited with his sisters Grace and Emily, his litter mate Truman, and is back safe in the arms of his beloved Bear Man. Teddy was a seven year survivor of intestinal lymphoma. He amazed all of his doctors with the length of his remission. I thank God for every single second that I was given with Teddy after his first cancer diagnosis. He lived seven happy years that I thought he would not have, and I am so grateful for that. I have thrown Teddy a birthday party every year since his diagnosis. Although my whole world has ended today, I will still keep in mind that while Teddy's loss is to be grieved, his life is to be celebrated.

Teddy came to me as one of a litter of 5 kittens and their Mom that I fostered after they were abandoned on the doorstep of an appliance store. The kittens were one day old. One of the kittens, Olivia, died of FIP while I was still fostering the litter. I eventually adopted Truman, and sent Chloe, Freddy, and Teddy back to the shelter (along with Mommy Cat) for adoption. Truman also passed away from FIP shortly after I adopted him. Freddy and Chloe were adopted from the shelter as a pair, leaving Teddy alone in the cage at the shelter. He quickly came down with a devastating URI and eye infection. I visited him every day while he was recuperating, and once he was well, I adopted him and brought him home to join Grace, Emily, and Bear. It was the best thing I have ever done. I am privileged to have known such a special cat and to have had him for the time I was given.

Teddy was a loving cat, who always ran to greet me at the front door to jump into my arms to be carried around like a baby. He loved everyone he met. He was an avid party goer here in LL with his buddies Mannie and Russ. He was a tireless caregiver to Bear Man. When I gave Bear his shot in the morning before leaving for work, it was Teddy's job to wake Bear up to eat. Teddy also was the foreman and chief inspector on my kitchen renovation this year.

In 2004 he was diagnosed with lymphoma. He had two rounds of IV chemo, and had been on an oral chemo protocol ever since. He has had his health ups and downs, but never lost his loving spirit. Last week he was diagnosed with pancreatic carcinoma, with metastasis to the lymph nodes. I brought him home to spend his last few days with me. He was weak, but we sat and snuggled together on the sofa, our favourite thing to do.

Jojo once said of Bear, Emily, and Teddy, that they were racing each other to the Bridge. She was right. I have lost all three of them in the space of just over one year. My heart, my soul, and my spirit have been broken.

Edited to add photo of Teddy as a kitten with his siblings and Mom (click to view larger):

 
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((((((((Linda))))))))
I'm so glad he was able to come home and be with you.

I'm so sorry for alll your losses
tears here


Fly free sweet Teddy wings_cat
 
Linda,
Know that I'm in tears and at a true loss for words.......
I'm truly sorry for what you are going through....I know what each one of your kitties meant to you, especially Teddy....
I got up this morning thinking and praying for Teddy....
a candle will be lit at home tonight to guide Teddy and for him to be reunited with Grace, Emily and Bear Man.....

Fly Free Teddy wings_cat you proved the vets wrong and now that you leave your mammabean all heart broken...you are free from pain and will play again with your siblings who await for you....
 
You are left to grieve, but there is a joyful reunion at the bridge today. Sweet Teddy, fly to Bear, Emily and Grace. We grieve with you.
 
Linda, we are so very sorry to hear of Teddy's passing. What an amazing story. He has such a great life with you. I wish all kitties could be so lucky.
Liz, Anne, Zener & Tillie
 
My heart is breaking today......Teddy's life is certainly one to be celebrated. Your tribute to him was beautiful. Fly free and land softly Teddy......you will be missed.
 
There are no words. I grieve today. There is comfort for me, and I hope for you, knowing that Ted is reunited with Bear Man, once again able to care for each other. Fly free Ted - there is no more pain or suffering or illness. Run in the grass, play in the trees, let the sun warm your fur.

Hugs to all Linda - I am so so sorry for your loss.

Until we meet again Ted - I will miss you so much... ~~ Mannie
 
(((Linda))) I'm sorry Teddy has left us. I'm sure there is a lot of joy in the 'heavy side down'. They are reunited again.

What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more sound,

one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we

were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you are gone,

but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.

Fly free sweet Teddy, land softly on you beautiful wings wings_cat
 
Linda, I am so sorry and heartbroken for you! I never got to know you and Teddy as well as some of the others know you, but I've been following your story hoping and praying for you and Teddy. What an amazing story for Teddy to have survived seven years with intestinal lymphoma. He was a survivor and miracle kitty. My heart and prayers go out to you today. Lots of hugs.
 
All I can say thru the tears is big loooong hug Linda. You're a wonderful caring, loving, amazing MamaBean.

Teddy - fly free sweet baby and land softly right back in MamaBean's heart.
 
tears are flowing here as well .. I'm so glad he spent his last few days with you, snuggled on the couch .. Fly Free Teddy ...
 
Linda,

I'm so very sorry to read of Teddy's passing and for the heartache you've endured over such a short period of time. When Belle died last year, the only thing I could think of was that the same thing would happen to all of my others, especially since 5 out of 8 are 11 or older. I actually sat down and thought about each one... how they came to me, where they would be if I didn't have them, if they would even still be alive if I hadn't taken them in. When I read your story about Teddy and his litter, I thought through the same things. If you hadn't adopted him, there is no way he would have lived the love filled life he had with you, and it's unlikely anyone else would have fought for him through his initial cancer diagnosis, let alone the 7 years since. I know I can't say anything to make things better, but I do know that the pain and heartache we feel for their loss is the price we pay to give them a happy, loving life as one of our kids.

Again, I'm heartbroken for you and your loss of Teddy.

Jason
 
(((Linda))) I am so sorry to hear this. Even knowing that Teddy was going through serious issues, it is so hard.
I remember his birthday parties. They made me smile and gave me the idea to do that as well.
We now have a party for all 3 furries on #3's birthday (Sunrise). Thanks to Teddy.
 
What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful cat. I am so sorry your time with him could not have been longer, but it is clear that you cherished every moment and never forgot what a gift it was to have him. I am sure he felt exactly the same way about you. Rest in peace, Teddy.
 
(((LInda))) I cannot stop crying today for you. Three of your most beloved babies in one year....I am not even able to imagine your grief and your heartbreak. One alone would be too much. I am so happy, though, that you had these last few days with Teddy at home where you two could cherish your bond and your love. Thank you for sharing his incredible story with us today. We will light a candle for him as he makes his way through the veil to join all of our GAs and his most beloved Bear Man, Emily, Grace, and Truman.

For you and Teddy...a poem from ee cummings:

I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)
I am never without it (anywhere I go you go, my dear:
And whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling)
I fear no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)
I want no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
And it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
And whatever a sun will always sing is you

Here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart (I carry it in my heart)

Gentle journey, sweet Teddy.
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Dear Linda, My heart is heavy at the news of Teddy's passing. What a joy he was to you and to us here on FDMB. I am so glad he was able to spend what time he had left at home with you. Fly free sweet baby.

Pattie
 
(((((Linda)))))

Knowing Teddy's time was short makes this no easier. There's a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. I can't imagine losing so many is such a short time. I certainly can reflect on all of the care and devotion you have given and continue to give to all of the companions who have become such an integral part of your life, and you, theirs. Your heart is breaking only because it is so big as to have cared for kitties that many would have given up on far before their time. You gave them their forever homes and each a life filled with love and the delight of having them with you and with each other. I loved hearing about how Teddy would take care of Bear. What a special boy. All of those memories will, with time, replace this fresh hurt.

WCF shared this fable with me. There is never enough time. Teddy was a truly remarkable cat and his life deserves to be celebrated. His way to the Bridge will be glowing with our candles. The ones we love who have gone ahead will be there waiting. Teddy will be snuggling with Bear and reuinited with Grace, Miss Emily, and Truman. He is without pain even though his leaving makes you, and us, saddened by his departure.

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Fly free Teddy and land gently. We all hold you in our hearts.
 
I'm so sorry to hear of Teddy's passing but glad to know that he was home with you and at peace when it happened. You are both in my thoughts and prayers tonight and for the difficult days and nights to come.
With love, grace and strength,
Gwen
 
(((((Linda)))))

I saw a beautiful, bright, full, rainbow today. I like to believe that it was sent by Bear Man and Miss Emily to welcome Teddy to the Bridge. My heart aches for you and I cannot find words. I hope that your happy memories will comfort you now and help to mend your spirit.

Edward joins me in sending our deepest sympathy and much love,

Ella, Edward, Rusty, and Stu (GA)

Ted, I will never forget you. You helped me out when I was tired from my travels and confused. Fly free, my dear friend, until we meet again. In several weeks, at Halloween, when the veil is thinnest, we will see each other through the veil and you will be healthy and reunited with Bear and Emily and all of us kitties will rejoice.
Russ
 
((((Linda))))
I'm so sorry to hear about Teddy. I have been reading your posts and my heart is just breaking for you. I didn't know you lost 3 of your beloved babies in the span of a year. How devastating to lose them so close to each other, although I'm sure they are probably running and playing together, free from pain. I'm glad Teddy got to spend some precious time with you at home.

Your words about Teddy and what he meant to you, were beautiful. What a loving tribute to an amazing kitty. Fly free, sweet Teddy!
 
So sorry for your loss of so many in such a short time, Linda. Fly free on angel wings, Teddy.

Claudia
 
(((Linda)))

I am so sad to hear about Teddy. My heart is breaking for you. I am just glad that you and Teddy could spend his last few days together at home.
What a great tribute you wrote for Teddy. I know he is happily reunited with sweet Bear Man and Miss Emily.

Many hugs to you Linda.

Fly free precious Teddy. wings_cat
 
((((Linda)))) I am so sorry. There are not enough words to tell you how sad this is. I know how it feels to lose so many so quickly. Take all the time you need to grieve. You gave so much love and care to Bear Man, Emily and Teddy that now you are bearing the pain they no longer feel. My heart goes out to you. I hope they can reach down from the Bridge and help heal your pain. Sending prayers of peace and comfort for you.

Fly Free Teddy. You are a sweet boy and will be missed.
 
Linda for Weezer said:
You are left to grieve, but there is a joyful reunion at the bridge today. Sweet Teddy, fly to Bear, Emily and Grace. We grieve with you.

I love this and couldn't have said it myself. I can't imagine the depth of loss you must feel. Teddy took good care of Bear when he was needed, and then he took good care of you while you grieved Bear and Emily. Teddy must have felt that you were ready and would be ok if he went to join the rest of his family. I can picture him cuddled up with Bear tonight, missing you but secure in your love.
 
((((Linda))))

I'm so very sorry for your loss of your sweetest Teddy. I'm happy that you got to spend his last few days together, snuggled on the couch, and I hope this brings you some comfort. I am also sure that there's a party at the bridge tonight. Know that I am thinking of you. I'm sorry, I really don't have the words right now.

Fly free dear Teddy wings_cat
 
tears.. many tears.... ((((Linda)))))

The space our furbabies occupy in our hearts is always bigger than the cats themselves. Your tribute shows the love you have for Teddyman.... love which will be forever special.
My heart is broken into lots of little pieces.
Fly free Teddy, may you find Bear and Emily on the other side of the bridge. Land softly....
 
Oh Linda

What a beautiful tribute for your sweet Teddy Man.

I can just see Bear Man and Emily waiting with open arms for Teddy as he crossed the Rainbow Bridge. They are together once again.


You've had so many losses this past year Linda. My heart is heavy for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lots love and big hugs,
Tena, Curry and Sidney
 
((Linda))
I cannot stop crying. My heart is breaking right now.
I am so glad that Teddy was able to come home and spend these last few days with you.
You have shown such great ove and devotion to all of your furbabies.
They are all so blessed to be loved by you and many stars are shining brightly tonight to welcome him.

Fly free sweet Teddy. Soft landings and safe crossings.
 
((((((((LINDA)))))))) I cant even find the words to say how I feel for you tonite... It's like you have always been here.Always admired you, for your strength, your kindness, your deep deep love for your fur babies..And Devotion, like I have never seen...And they felt the same way about you!
My heart feels like it broke into 50 pieces with grief for you. Such losses, in such a short time..
I said to Libby today, Grief is the price we pay for love, but what a gift to have received--The unconditional love of 3 beautiful cats who adored everything about you. You gave Teddy so much more time that he might not have had.
Teddy will be reunited with his beloved Bear & Emily, the circle complete--
Look for them, they are still with you, always.
MY Dear Hero Momma Bean, my heart is with you.
Lighting a candle to light the way....for Teddy to the bridge--Fly Free Teddy Man, Land softly with love.
 
Big Tears. My heart is breaking for you, too, Linda.
I kind of had a feeling that Teddy wanted to be with Bear. I am so sorry for your loss.
But it is not a complete loss, just a separation. As you will one day be happily reunited with your babies.
(((((((((((((((Linda)))))))))))))))) I wish I could give you a real hug.

Fly Free and Happy, Teddy
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Be with your charges, Bear Man and Emily.

And, feel the love from down here, coming up to you.
 
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I'm so very sorry for you loss, Linda. Another angel has joined the ranks. You are in our thoughts and prayers...

Amy
 
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oh linda, i'm just so very sorry. it's a terrible loss and you've had too many, too soon. i hope you can hold on to the joy they each brought to your life. :YMHUG:
 
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Hi Linda-

I am so, so sorry. I never knew Teddy's story but I really loved hearing about his life with you. I know it's been very tough for you....my thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
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((((((((Linda))))))) :cry: :cry: :cry: I am so sorry for your loss of Teddy may you find comfort knowing he is with his fur siblings at the bridge tonight

Fly Free Teddy wings_cat rb_icon
 
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(((Linda))) I’m so sorry you lost your Teddy today. He was lucky to have you and his fur family…
Too many losses in such a short time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :YMHUG:

Fly free sweet Teddy. o:-)
 
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So sorry you lost your Teddy Man. He sounds like he was a wonderful kitty. Fly Free Teddy Man>>>>>>> rb_icon <<<<<<<<<<<
 
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((Linda)) So sorry for your sudden loss of Teddy. You took such wonderful care of him until he crossed to be with old friends. So sorry for your hurting heart.
 
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:cry: :cry: :cry:
((((((Linda))))))) Your sweet kitties are watching over you now and can feel your love with each teardrop.
People who are as loving as you, make this world a better place.

♡ Peace and comfort to you, lovely Linda. ♡
 
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"Sometimes there are no perfect words...
Only thoughtful silences that whisper softly of caring."

I'm so, so sorry, Linda. Teddy gave you a piece of his soul... he'll always be with you in spirit.

wings_cat Fly free dear Teddy Man...


Grieving with you... sending hugs across the miles.
Jill
 
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Linda, thinking of you and wishing that words could make it better, could help your loss. But you have been here before and know that time will help heal your loss of Teddy.
Fly free to the Bridge Teddy and join your family.
 
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Knowing you've lost so many of your babies in such a short period of time makes my heart break for you even more. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just in reading what you've written, I know you loved Teddy so much and gave him a great life...he knew it too.
 
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so much sadness this week
((((Linda))))
I had the honour of meeting Teddy last year and he really was a sweet sweet kitty.
And had the best mom ever!

Big (((((((hugs))))) to you
 
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Dear Linda, my heart goes out to you. I really sorry for your loss
Sending you a big hug, lots of prayers and comforting thoughts
 
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