Pamela and Tigger,
Sergei had thrown a blood clot to his hind legs early Sunday morning (3wks ago today), which prompted an emergency visit. The vet found a murmur, and said that there was little or nothing she could do to save his legs. We felt like he had been through so much in the past few months, and as he was approaching 15 we did what we thought would be best for him. I posted a few weeks ago about his passing, but was just going through our posts this morning and saw your reply.
The first two weeks were very difficult for us (my wife, Ser's sister, and I).... We love his sissy, but unlike her, Ser was always engaged, always at our side - a very "constant" in our lives. I still miss him terribly. He had a pink nose that turned pinker when he was happy, and pale to white when he was not. His passing was as peaceful as it could be I guess.... At the hospital he had been in the back and the vet brought him to us so we could spend a few moments with him and hold him through his depature. He was so happy to see us. His nose went from white to pink in an instant. Putting him down was the hardest thing I've had to do. God, I miss him! He was my best friend, a true friend, and he was so sweet.
A google search on feline heart murmor/blood clots/symptoms afterwards yielded a result of HCM(Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy), which I think is what I think was Ser's issue, and it made me quite angry/frustrated with the vets because Ser had 3 panels of blood work, and an ultrasound on his digestive system, but not once did they look at his heart. I had posted here, and explained to the vet/vets his symptoms( - Lack of appetite, Less activity, Gagging, Weight loss, Coughing/wheezing). I recognize that even if they had found it, there may not have been much they could do, but its still frustrating...... my emotions flaring up I guess.
We are now focused on keeping Izzy healthy. They have been together forever. She no longer looks for him, and her spirit seems to be improving, but she is certainly missing his energy in the house. They had been indoor cats exclusively, but we have allowed an afternoon walk outside a couple of days a week to try to give her some distraction. It seems to be helping. She is also very sweet. :smile:
Thank you for your reply/concern,
Ser & Isabelle, Keith & Robin