Hi Becky,
Others have given you great advice on home testing etc. So let me fill in the reassurance part, I have two diabetic cats which wouldn't seem like that big of a deal except for the fact that I adopted them both as diabetics and both were in really rough shape when I got them. I adopted them from DCIN through this very board. Today Maxwell has been in remission for over a year, he was one of those that not only quickly became regulated but also went into remission quickly. Then there is Musette she had I have been dancing the sugar dance since last June and while she is now regulated for the most part...she still throws curve balls every now and then she is a happy healthy little girl that loves life, her new humans and her new furry family.
And here is something else to give you hope...Not only did I adopt both of mine as diabetics when I did it I already had 11 healthy kitties at home, and now that my 3 foster cats have new homes my husband and I are looking at adopting our third sugarcat. Why? Because with the advice from this board and the power that comes from home testing a diabetic cat is just about the best cat there is! There is a bond that developes with that sugarcat that is like nothing I have ever had with any of my other cats. Oh sure I have a bunch of lovebugs, but not like my diabetics. And with what support you can find on this board neither of mine have seen the vet of anything other than the basic everyday cat things, in fact I think my non-diabetics have seen the vet more than my diabetics....lol. But also the information I have found here has made the life of my other cats better as well. For I have learned to be a better cat mom thanks to my diabetics.
Mel, Maxwell, Musette & The Fur Gang