R.I.P Harry March 14, 2011

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chatcat24

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I am SO sad to write that why bother updating Harry's charts - he's passed on. We went to Mexico for the last ten days, had my mom give him shots 2 x a day (which was going fine, until the last day before we left), where Harry suddenly got ketoacidosis and after 1 1/2 days of not eating, mom took him to the vet, paid $600 (for the first chunk of the bill to get him on an IV stat), and JUST as she picked us up from the airport, we had to go get him from the vet - except that the vet agreed that there is something else going on they haven't figured out, the bill was already up to $1100 and I knew that when they temporarily brought him in to see us for a few minutes it would be our last. He gave me "bum up", snotted my hand twice, I pet him and kissed him goodbye and asked that the final shot be given. The vet stated that in Harry's case it probably wouldn't be solved in 24 hours (the the bill would be up t0 $2500 by then) so for his sake she agreed that putting him down would be the best option.

I am SO sad, have had the biggest headache as I slumped to the bedroom to try to sleep - but here I am, at 3 a.m., when Harry would have woken me up for pets and food.

Luckily I have a neighbor cat who loves me too, Harry's spitting image and friendlier, who was waiting for us at the doorstep when we got home. I pet him, he purred like mad, and it made it almost harder as I thought I will never hold Harry again in my arms. But in the meantime, before he moves away in one month(or given away) it's a good fill in / good way for me to ween myself away from him.

But I went on a tirade and cleaned up as MUCH as possible, right when I got home, of Harry's things and bowls and toys so I wouldn't have to look at them, to start the grieving process. It's so hard.

Sad day of what was supposed to be a great time back to our home from a wonderful vacation........BUT I said, even before we left and several times when we were there, that I didn't expect him to live (for some reason I knew) while we were gone. It was so much harder for my mom to see me "make the call" of having to give him the final shot instead of having him buried / gone before we came back. :sad:

Harry, I will always miss you.
 
I am so very very sorry for your loss. It is never easy to make that final choice, but I know that you did give Harry the best gift of all. Know too he will always be with you, in your heart, and your memories. Fly free Harry. wings_cat
 
Rest in Peace Harry! I'm so sorry and sad for you. I know words can't describe the loss you're feeling for Harry. I know this may sound strange, but it's as if Harry sent your neighbor's cat to greet and comfort you. Hugs and prayers go up for you.
 
you will be sorely missed, Harry...

celi & binks

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Thank you, everyone. It's so hard. I have had the biggest headache this last 12 hours from crying so much - but I know he's in a better place.
 
Dear Helena, It is so hard to say farewell, but farewell is not goodbye. Harry will always be with you, in your heart and in your memories. Fly free, sweet Harry. You are much loved. wings_cat

In deep sympathy,
Ella & Rusty & Stu (GA)
 
(((Helena))) I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so sad to lose him while you were away.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. :YMHUG:

Fly free Harry o:-)
 
I am so sorry about Harry. My heart goes out to you at this very sad time.
Remember, even though you are in pain.... Harry is not.
(((Helena))) Take it one day at a time. He was so fortunate to have your love.
 
(((((Helena))))). I am so very sorry to here this news. Harry will always be right by your side as your little fur angel. No more sickness Harry, fly free. wings_cat
 
((((Helena)))) I m so sorry....this is a very difficult time for you I know...but the memories of your boy will comfort you hopefully as you grieve. He is at peace now and forever free of pain....condolences to you and your family.

Fly Free Dear Harry..... wings_cat
 
Geez, not even an hour passes by when I don't think of Harry or bawl my eyes out. I feel better knowing he's not in pain anymore, and joined a chat room group from petloss.com which have been very helpful. One of the site crew is going to assist me in making a special webpage for Harry, of which I sent pics and my story on him - I will post to for everyone to see when I can.
Until then, thank you everyone for the kinds thoughts and prayers.

...Is it odd I thought I heard clicking on the kitchen floor the day after he passed? (his nails while he walks on the tiles) and also I thought I heard scratching of his cat post a few minutes ago too??

Hmmmm - Hi Harry. Miss you my "Cat McBlack".
 
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