Phaedra - my son's cat

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rhiannon and shadow (GA)

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I've debated whether or not to share this but some of you knew her situation.

Phaedra. My son's cat.
1997-2012
almost 16 years old.
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Discovered she was also diabetic when Shadow was diagnosed by testing her ear.
She changed diet too and the few times I tested her, her numbers were in the good zone.
She would not cooperate with getting a urine sample.
I suspect she was also dealing with kidney disease.
Vet did give me antibiotics for her in case she had a UTI but she was peeing on our hardware floors, even on electric power surge plug.
She spent a lot of time in the meatloaf position.
My son decided it was time about a month ago and started letting her have dry food again. ( I frowned)
Then he chickened out for about a month's worth of time.

He wasn't willing to do any treatment for her or spend money on her.
I told him it was kinder to let her go now before things got really really bad.
so this evening, a vet came over and we said Goodbye.
The moment they pronounced her gone, he left for a friends house to spend the night away. A bit of denial and certainly in pain.

My husband buried her quickly in the back yard with another beloved pet.
in about a foot of snow and really howling winds with snow flurries.

I've decided that since we are traveling in a week, I won't even put up a tree.
I'd prefer my son not associate this sad time with Christmas if I can help it at all.

Fly Free, Phaedra.
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Rhiannon, I'm so sorry to hear about your son's kitty, Phaedra. Now she is pain free. I will light a candle for her. Hugs and prayers for you.
 
((((Rhiannon)))),
We are sorry to hear the circumstances of Phaedra's passing. She was a beautiful kitty. Fly free, dear Phaedra and land softly at the Bridge. Your family loved you and will miss you very much.

In deep sympathy,

Ella & Rusty
 
So very sorry about Phaedra's passing, hugs and prayers to you and the family.

Kathie
 
Rhiannon, i am so very sorry to hear of Phaedra's passing. May all our prayers help to heal your broken hearts. Heaven has a new sweet angel.
take care my dear prayers and hugs to you all.
mary and oliver
 
So sorry to hear this, tell your son that this was the best for Phaedra. I hope it will be easier to be away at this time.
 
So sorry to hear the news. Your poor son, hope he knows he did the best thing for Phaedra. Fly free beautiful kitty! Hope you are able to have a nice Christmas being away. Prayers for your family!
 
Hugs and prayers Rhiannon, so sorry for the loss for your family. She is in a better place now and pain free.
 
Rhiannon I am so sorry to read this. I am sorry for your son too, I am sure he is hurting too. It was the kindest thing to do - let her go.

I was so taken back by Phaedra's photo - she looks exactly like by Elsa. A beauty indeed. Fly free little one, you will be missed.
 
I'm so sorry, Rhiannon. She was such a beautiful kitty. Deepest condolences to your family.

Also sending you healing vines.
 
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