Pat's Shadow Feb 14, 1997 ~ Apr 16, 2014 Adieu Sweet Boy

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Pat+Raja+Shadow (GA)

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My wonderful boy Shadow went to the Rainbow Bridge this evening at 5pm. He is reunited with all his best friends who went before him
from the Forum and they are all running and playing in the sunshine. I know he is doing the Moondance with Moonie once again! Somehow it is
fitting that we just celebrated the Full Pink Moon! How we have missed all the good buddies that have meant so much to us....it has been so sad
without them all. But, we have our beautiful memories of the good times. For those of you who remember us, Raja sends her love. She is dealing
with kidney issues now and is doing better than can be expected of an old girl.....They were both 17 years old this past February! The Twins! :mrgreen:

I feel so thankful and blessed that I have shared in their lives. Shadow was helping DH do the daily crossword puzzles almost
to the very end. He was not eating well and we were having a tough time balancing his BGs and his inappetence. He had lost a lot of weight
and a couple of months ago the Vet took an xray. It was basically all gray with no definition to his organs at all. There was nothing that could be done
for him really. I have been watching him closely since then, amazed at how long he was hanging in there. He didn't seem to be in pain and I am
thankful for that. How helpless I felt though....how sad I was that there was nothing for me to learn, nothing for me to DO to help him. After learning 5 years
ago this August about FD and what I could do to help my kitties, there was nothing for me to rally about or do now. My heart aches and I miss him so.....

There was a rainbow around the sun here today. I carried him in my arms into the car and DH drove around the corner to the Vet office. My sweet boy
seemed peaceful and relaxed. I opted to leave the carrier at home and was happy that he seemed content as I held him in a soft towel. He was very quiet as they sedated him.
How regal he seemed. How graceful. He was brave and loving his whole life....right up to the very end. He has taught me much and has given me much....
My Angel Baby....my Handsome boy....farewell and adieu to you ~ until we meet again....
 
Although we have not met before now, you have my deepest sympathies. Fly free, Shadow.

May warm memories of precious moments spent with Shadow bring you comfort now in this time of great sorrow.

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Shelly
 
I am so sorry to hear this (((((Pat)))))) and ((((Raja and DH))))) Oh my.

I know Shadow knows how much you love him and is probably feeling good and checking our his new digs and feeling very very loved right now.

I am going to light a candle for our dear Shadow tonight to help him along his way.

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My heartfelt sympathies go out to you.
 
(((Pat))) ((Raja)) ((DH)) I'm so sorry it was Shadow's time to go. :YMHUG:

Fly free sweet Shadow - send your beans and your sister a sign when you arrive safely at the Bridge. wings_cat
 
(((((Pat)))))
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that Bear Man joined many other old friends to greet Shadow at the Bridge. My thoughts will be with you, DH, and Raja in the days ahead. May your memories of happier times together give you comfort.
Linda
 
{{{{Pat}}}}}
We are so very sorry to read of the crossing of your beloved Shadow. We do miss the old timers and forget that now, we are old timers too. What a wonderful gift you gave to Shadow, and what a wonderful life. We feel your heart breaking and send you love and comfort.
 
Oh (((Pat))), my heart is breaking for you. I'm so very sorry for your loss of your sweet Shadow.
So many of his old friends, have welcomed Shadow at The Bridge, where he can run and play again.
I am holding you and Princess Raja, in my heart.

Barb :YMHUG:
 
Shadow… always so sweet and gentle, even as he left this earth he was calm and dignified. I'm in tears for you, I understand the love and the pain. I like to think that Shadow is playing with Moonie, Bear, Mannie, Max, Curry, Donovan, BigMac, Scrabble and Hank and Maui as well as so many other sweet FDMB kitties. There is a huge group of friendly kitties ready to greet him today.

We sure had a lot of fun on the board as we learned about FD and you were such a good sport as Shadow and Raja were often the victims of my Photoshop silliness. Many great memories that I hope will allow you to smile again. ((((((((((Pat))))))))))))

I know how much this hurts and my heart goes out to you. I'm sending you hugs and also some gentle scritches for Raja. I'm sure she will miss her brother.

I'm so sorry Pat. ♥ ♥ ♥
 
Dear ((((Pat, DH, Raja)))),

We are saddened to hear that it was Shadow's time to head to the Bridge. I remember so many good times--all those beautiful full-moon parties at your house, hosted by Shadow and Raja. All of the contests between "Shad-0" and Stu to see who would be the "High Roller" of the day. What fun we had struggling with the FD dance!
Our hearts go out to you tonight and we share your grief. But at the Bridge there is joy because Shadow has arrived. He is being greeted by all his old pals and he is sending you his love and thanks. Fly free, dear Shad-0, on your beautiful new golden wings. You are much loved.

In deepest sympathy,

Ella & Edward, Rusty, and Stu (busy in the Two Chefs' Kitchen with Mannie, as they prepare a welcome dinner for their buddy).

We are lighting Stu's candle tonight in honor and remembrance of your wonderful boy. Hugs to you and many scritches to Raja.
 
(((((Pat, DH & Raja)))))

I have missed your posts and stories of Shadow and Raja. I am so saddened to see this condo and to learn that it was Shadow's time to join his friends at the Bridge. I am glad that it was a peaceful crossing. There is no question that Shadow knows how much a part of your life he will always be. He has left pawprints on the hearts of many here.

Fly free sweet Shadow and land softly. There are candles from Lantus Land to light your way to the Bridge where your friends are waiting. They will keep you safe and happy until you are reunited with the ones you love best.

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Another old-timer has crossed the rainbow bridge. I'm so sorry it was his time, but it sounds like it was a very gentle crossing and that's good to hear. You and Shadow were some of the one's that made me realize FD was do-able. Seeing how relaxed you all were, all the antics your kitties got up to at the parties, made it all seem like a fun adventure. Shadow is sure going to have some good times now with all his old friends.
 
Many thanks to you all for posting....I feel your warm love, as always. :YMHUG:

I wanted to share that my DD Bree arrived here from Oregon yesterday. She is responsible for bringing me my two kitties 17 years ago! A woman she worked with on Cape Cod had a litter of kitties and she went to pick up the black one for me. She saw Raja and called me up....
"Mom, there is a gray kitty here that is SO gorgeous.....I know you wanted the black kitten, but oh my...the gray one is so beautiful!"
I have told the story many times....LOL...how I said I only wanted the black one, but since the gray one was sooooo pretty, take the two.....they're small!!
The woman said that these two were good buddies out of the litter so she was thrilled that they were going to be living in the same home!!

And so that is how I came to have my two....because of Bree...and coincidentally, she was here to say good bye to Shadow today. It was a bittersweet turn of events.....nothing that I could
have anticipated or planned. I am thankful that both my DH and my DD were there with me today.....

I know most of you have said goodbye to your furbabies and my heart broke with each and every passing of each and every dear friend. I thank you for your kindness to us today....and
for all the friendship and help you have given to the three of us during all these past years.....Bless you all...... :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
Pat - I am so so sorry. another beloved friend left and the world is that much emptier and sadder without him.

Fly free sweet Shadow. You are much loved and will be sorely missed.

Maui is waiting for you with a lovely uniform, err outfit with your name on it and a fabulous job that I know you will enjoy.
 
(((Pat))), I am sorry to read of Shadow's passing. I think of you and the kitties often.... What a legend Shad-O was. I so remember our early days with LL, and Shad-O showing Mannie the ropes. I remember BearMan's throne too. The memories from those early days are endless. I still remember Shad-O's invite to a full moon party, Mannie's first ever invitation. They are fond memories of you, of Raja, and Shadow. I shall cherish them always. I am sorry it was his time to go, but know too that he is grateful to you for helping him cross. It is never easy, but what a gift of love it is. Fly free Shad-O. I will always remember you....
 

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I am so very sorry, Pat. No doubt Shadow can still feel your love at the bridge, and I am sure you can feel his love raining down on you. Many prayers and our deepest sympathy to you.
 
Dear, dear Pat. I'm saddened to hear about sweet Shadow. This weekend I had been thinking about you and your crew. I missed hearing your stories about their daily adventures. You know he had just the BEST mom ever. I will be keeping you, Raja and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Extra hugs for you Pat and lots of scritches for Raja.

Fly free Shadow. Land ever so softly.


Lots of love,
Tena, Curry(GA), Sidney and Zeke
 
Oh, Pat......I am in tears and my heart is breaking along with yours. I am so very very sorry that it was Shadow's time, but at least he went feeling your love. I think they know when they are making their last trip in this world. Ralphie was very relaxed in the car also....like he knew that peace was coming soon. You were and are a wonderful fur mom and I know that Shadow knew that also.
It's comforting to know that our fur babies have some friends on that other side and we know that they will never be alone in their journey across the bridge. We are there to send them off and the other GA furbabies are on the other side to welcome them to a happy healthy there after.

Hugs to you, Pat. Fly free Shadow. Say hey to my Ralphie.
 

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:cry: lighting Butthead's candle for Shadow, one of my Donovan's first buddies here on FDMB

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My boys will take good care of you, Shadow....
Continue to send signs to your mama and sister to let them know you're OK.

MJ
 
Oh Pat .. I am so sorry to see this .. I was just thinking of you three the other day and thought about sending a message hoping that all was well .. ((Hugs)) I'm so glad Shadow was able to go peacefully .. Please give Raja a scritch from us ...
 
So sorry to hear of Shadow's passing. Oreo and I are old timers who have wonderful memories of Shadow's moon parties, wonderful friends, kitties, and the fun we had while we learned how to take care of our fur babies will be with us forever. Shadow had a long happy life and knew how lucky he was to have his loving beans to take care of him.

((((Pat)))) Fly free sweet Shadow, land softly and have a great party with all your old friends waiting for you.

Denise and Oreo
 
((Pat)) so sorry to hear the news. I remember you fondly when we were on LL together. Prayers for your heart. Big hugs, again I am sorry for your loss. Take care and hold Raja close.
 
Oh, (((Pat, Raja, DH)))! Bless you all in this time of sadness and loss. Sending prayers of strength and comfort.

wings_cat Fly free, sweet Shadow. Enjoy your new FD-free life beyond the Rainbow Bridge...all the birds you can chase, grass you can eat and friends you can pal around with. Don't forget to check in on your beans and Raja every once in a while. Send them a reminder that you're still watching over them. I know they are missing you something fierce.
 
(((((Pat))))) I am so sorry to hear of Shadow's passing to the rainbow bridge. I know you and DH must be heartbroken. You have been an awesome mom to your boys and I know that Shadow knows how much you love him. I hope in time your loving memories will heal your heartache. Sending prayers of peace and comfort to you, DH and Raja.

Fly Free Shadow! wings_cat
 
Aw, Pat... I just stopped in and saw this. I'm soooooooooooooo sorry. So very sorry.
My heart is breaking just thinking about your loss.
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wings_cat Fly free sweet Shadow...
 
(((Pat))) I am so sorry to hear about your sweet Shadow boy. Gosh, we met you, Shadow and Raja right away when Maggie (GA) and I first joined the Board. You taught us so much. What fun we all had with those Full Moon parties. I know how difficult this must be for you. My heart and prayers go out to you, DH and Raja. Shadow will have Maggie and so many of our GA kitties waiting for him there at the Bridge. Fly free sweet Shadow.
 
OH, Sweet Shad-O! We have missed you so here in LL. Fly Free, and join your friends at the Bridge. It will be a party that will be long remembered as will you.

((((((((((Pat, DH and Raja))))))))))I have been thinking of you and wondering how you were lately. I am glad that Bree was there to help you close the circle.

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Oh (((Pat)))

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sweet Shadow is flying free with the many fury fellas and belles that have met him at the bridge with love.

Peace,
Rebekah
 
((((Pat)))) I am so very sorry for the loss of Shadow. He was such a good boy and you are a great bean. Big hugs for you and scritches for sweet Raja. Fly free little one and land softly. All of your friends are waiting for you at the rainbow bridge.
 
Dear Pat, I'm very sorry for your loss. Special kitties like Shadow leave paw prints on our heart.
Fly free sweet boy. May there be light to guide you and tons of friends and yummy treats on the other side of the bridge.
 
What do you do when a good friend dies?
Do you lash out in anger and curse at the sky.
Or grasp hard denial, the means of the weak,
In an effort to kindle the comfort you seek.
What do you do when a good friend dies?
Once life's breath, so precious, gives the chest final rise.
In haste you take blame, no other at fault,
You kneel upturned earth and deem all happiness to halt.
What do you do when a good friend dies?
When with him the times, both good and bad, lie.
Do you cast aside the past, for memories hurt much too much,
Or struggle and fight for that last lingering touch.
What do you do when a good friend dies?
When all of the tears have all but been cried.
No matter how much, no matter how hard you try,
The only thing to do is say farewell.
Goodbye.

I'm truly sorry to hear of Shadow's passing. Fly free Shadow, and know you were loved and will be missed by your family and all your FDMB friends.
 
Pat, I am so sorry to see this - it's so sad to see them age and know their departure is near and not be able to help them in any way except love. My heart goes out to you - they are such a huge part of our lives.

Am so glad to see that he left peacefully and am sure his arrival at the Bridge was anything but peaceful with all of our babies who have gone before welcoming him. And the rainbow - what a comforting sight that must have been for you.

Please know that you are being sent many comforting hugs from those of us who remember and knew your sweet boy - and who are sharing your sadness today.



Emmy & Dude (GA) & Mittsi too
 
((((((pat))))))

my heart goes out to you. Shadow has been your dear friend and companion and it's hard to say farewell for now. Thinking of you and sending you my deepest sympathy.

fly free, little shadow, freed of your broken body - no more pokies. rise high little one!
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(((((pat)))))

I am so very, very sorry to hear that Shadow has crossed. I, too, remember great stories of your two beautiful babies and how sweet Shadow was for is tests but Raja gave you a run for your money sometimes. It is so hard to let them go knowing our hearts will be so empty without their daily presence. But I believe your precious boy will be with you always.

You were there for us in the beginning and got us through those early days. And you were dealing with two of your own. We will always be grateful. Prayers that Raja will continue to do well.

Fly free Shadow.
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Oh (((((Pat))))) I'm so very sorry to see this. My heart is breaking along with yours. I am glad Shadow was comfortable and at peace until the end, when you could give him that final, greatest gift of love. I know that Muffin was there to greet her old friend, and she and all the other GA's are so happy to be reunited with him. I do hope he sends you signs of his continuing love. We will always remember and miss your sweet sweet boy. Fly free Shadow, and gentle landings.
 
What a blessing to be able to spend 17 years with such a wonderful friend. I wish you peace and happiness as you reflect on the lifetime of joyous memories that you shared together.
 
Oh Pat,
what can I say that you already don't know....I know you are in pain from not having your boy around and I now Raja misses her brother so deeply....

sending many hugs your way for you, DH and Raja.....

May you find comfort in the many memories you made with your precious boy Shadow over the years you two were blessed of having one another....

it is not easy letting go of one whom you love....I hope he sends you signs to let you know he is well....I know my two boys are there playing with him....I did ask Rocket to make sure all of his friends from LL were there...and yes...there are many :(

Fly Free Shadow wings_cat know you are truly missed by your mom, dad and sister....but for now...enjoy the company of many angels that have greeted you at the bridge!
 
((((Pat)))
I haven't been here in so long I didn't know. I'm so very sorry for your loss of your sweet Shadow. I know how much you must miss him. I still miss Alex and Jackson every single day.

Hugs to you and DH and Raja and please accept my belated sympathies .

Much love,
Caryl
 
((((((((Pat)))))))))

I'm so sorry to read that Shadow is gone. He has fought hard to stay with you for as long as possible, and I know how hard it is to not be able to help anymore. Hugs to you, and give Raja some extra love too. I lost one of a bonded pair a few months ago, and it broke my heart even more to see Mickey without his brother (although truly I think Mickey took it better than I did. I think he knew what was happening even when I was in denial).

Fly free, Shadow. wings_cat
 
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