GA Old civvie boy, Jonesy, sick. Any ideas what it could be....?

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Elizabeth and Bertie

Elizabeth and Bertie

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Well, as if Sophie being sick wasn't enough, now my lovely boy, Jonesy, is pretty poorly too... :(

Jonesy is 18 and a half years old.
He's lethargic, very miserable, off his food, and losing weight.
His appetite has decreased gradually over recent weeks but has suddenly tailed off almost completely.

He's had bloodwork done and all this has come back normal (in fact, pretty good for an oldster...)
The vet couldn't find anything wrong on physical examination: No lumps or bumps, no obvious signs of pain (other than his back legs; Jonesy has arthritis and takes Cosequin and krill oil).
There is no temperature.
No vomiting.
His teeth don't seem too bad (bit of gingivitis).
He was treated for a UTI a while back, and so had urine tests done again, which came back normal (although the vet has taken more to do a culture).

Jonesy has been prescribed an appetite stimulant to see if than enables us to get more food into him.

The next stage would be to look for things on a subtler level, and do ultrasound etc. We're not sure that we want to put Jonesy through that if there is no likely prospect of improvement.

Does anyone have any thoughts about what might be going on with him...?
Any suggestions/questions I can put to the vet...?

Maybe this is just 'Jonesy's time'. But we really do want to help him in whatever we can...

Thanks in advance, lovely people...

Eliz
 
I don't really have any ideas about what it could be, Eliz. It could be his time...but I'm not sure. Did the vet have any ideas? Maybe ask if he has any thoughts? When it was Gypsy's time, the vet gave me some ideas...we decided not to go through further testing based on what she said because there was little she could do to treat.

You might consider the ultrasound just to get an idea...and then take it from there. Just a thought...it might give some idea if it was something simple you could treat or not.

I don't have much in the way of advice, but tons of hugs for y ou!
 
Hi Eliz,

I'm sorry to hear that Jonesy isn't feeling so hectic. :(

Things I'd be looking at:

1. Is there any chance he could be constipated? (It's a real issue for Saoirse: she gets miserable and lethargic if she doesn't poop regularly.)

2. Any signs of nausea?

3. Can he smell his food properly? (Try warming the food, adding tuna water or parmesan, hand-feeding to help him 'taste' the food via Jacobson's organ.)

4. Did you get a SNAP/Spec fPL done in the bloodwork?

5. Occult pain, perhaps (maybe from teeth/mouth)? I assume that you've already tried the usual things: different textures and consistencies of food; raising the bowl, etc. You could ask the vet about doing a pain med trial with bupe to see whether that might improve eating. If Jonesy eats better on pain meds then that could possibly point to oral discomfort (or possibly pancreatitis/other source of GI discomfort).

6. Is the weight loss coincident with and proportionate to the inappetent behaviour? Perhaps try feeding a calorie-dense, bland, convalescent/recovery-type food?

Sorry for all the 'teaching granny to suck eggs' stuff, Eliz; just trying to cover any bases I can think of. I hope you can find something to help Jonesy feel better very soon. Sending healing thoughts and :bighug:s. (The ultrasound - and perhaps a dental X-ray while he's there - might give you some ideas; and peace of mind.)


Mogs


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Suggestions based on his bloodwork being good and no other obvious clinical signs of anything amiss.

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((((eliz)))) i'm glad you've posted here to get some experienced eyes on Jonesey's situation. I can't add much except what I've just said in an email to you - is there a chance he may be depressed? Older age can affect us all a bit like that, and he's seen a few comings and goings in your household so maybe he's starting to feel a bit tired and emotional... I don't know, only a suggestion. Try "asking" him how he feels and just give him extra portions of TLC.

So hoping for an improvement.

Diana x
 
I have no practical advice to give, Eliz, just wanted to say I'm so sorry Jonesy isn't feeling well, and that I'm sending prayers and healing vines his way. (((Hugs))) for you and gentle scritches for Jonesy. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
PS - caveat about the bupe suggestion: it can dampen appetite a little (and it can also constipate, so you need to be on top of that potential issue also). I should have explained better above: what I was angling at (but didn't express very well) was to see if you give Jonesy some bupe with the appy stimulant in play would he be more keen to eat his food?


Mogs
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I hate to say this, but this sounds very much like what I just went through with Tiger. We did have the ultrasound and biopsy done and it turned out to be cancer in her lymph nodes and intestines. I suggest at least having the ultrasound done and as quickly as possible.
 
Thanks so much, folks, you've given me some very wise and helpful suggestions to think about.

I have been wondering whether pain meds might help Jonesy. But, of course, the pain (which I 'think' he is feeling) is only a symptom of something else. Addressing the pain won't address the root cause, but may make him more comfortable for a while...

I'm not sure about the ultrasound and/or x-rays because, well....my feeling (rightly or wrongly) is that anything that turns up via that route (in this particular case) is not going to be something we can treat... Jonesy isn't well enough for a dental. And if it is cancer, then, there's not much we can do but try to make him more comfortable for the short time we have....

Thanks again for your thoughts, very dear people. I've got some thinking to do...

Eliz
 
Don't give up hope, Eliz. For all you know there may be something treatable going on... Just because Jonesy's getting on a bit doesn't mean he doesn't still have life left in him. I guess, ask the vet for his very best advice and research like mad... And follow your instincts.

Big hugs.

Diana x
 
PS just one more thought, probably not very relevant but I always think it's worth adding everything to the mix in these situations: is there any chance at all that Jonesy could have become allergic or sensitive to something? Ie the supplements (unlikely I know) or anything else? This only occurs to me because I was given antibiotics last week for my second tooth extraction in two months... first time round I tolerated the antibiotics ok, but this time I had severe griping pains and had to ring the dentist for advice (he told me to stop taking them straightaway but had no explanation as to why they were ok only a few weeks ago but not now).

Or is there anything you've added to the home environment recently that may be making Jonesy feel poorly?

Just a thought.
D x
 
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Thanks, everyone, for your help.

Sadly, Jonesy deteriorated quite quickly. And the vet came to the house to put him to sleep on Thursday afternoon. :(

We had over 18 years with him, and he was a truly darling little boy.
We know that all life ends, but DH and I are profoundly saddened by his death... (It's been a really tough few weeks for a number of reasons...)

Thanks again, folks.

Eliz x
 
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(((((((Eliz))))))) you have the understanding, love and support of everyone on this board. Jonesy was indeed a most special little boy and I know how much you and Chris will miss him. Try to remember that he will live on forever in your hearts because love never dies.

RIP dear little Jonesy. You will always be so very loved.

Diana
 
Dear Eliz,
I've just seen your post.
I'm really sorry to hear that you lost this beautiful boy! He is in a better place now - just in your heart!
Sending prayers and love to you and all your fur babies you so love and look after.
Marlena & Rocky :cat::cat::cat::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh, gosh, thank you so much for your kindness, dear people!

Jonesy did have some very particular qualities. And we have often joked that he may have been a Buddhist monk in a past life...
Our cats are indoor/outdoor cats, but to our knowledge Jonesy has never killed any other living being. However, he certainly did hunt, but only brought home inanimate objects... When he was young a variety of objects were dragged through the catflap including an 'Action Man' doll (with missing arm), and (what appeared to be) the handlebars from a toddlers trike... He also came home on one occasion carrying a vegetable knife in his teeth. He looked like a pirate! I'm assuming that someone accidentally threw that knife out with their vegetable peelings. We still use the 'Jonesy knife' most days... (DH sharpened it today in honour of Jonesy, bless 'im....)

We have a miniscule spare bedroom that doubles as our meditation room, and there are shelves on the walls with Tibetan Buddhist statues on them. Over the years Jonesy has often accompanied DH while he's meditating; either alongside him or on his lap, but always sitting upright in meditation posture. And I've lost count of the times that I've walked into the room only to find Jonesy sitting on one of the shelves alongside a Buddhist statue, quite upright, with his eyes half closed, as though in meditation. Sometimes I've felt that I've intruded into his space and have quietly backed out of the room so as not to disturb him!

This may sound rather strange (and probably totally bonkers) to most people but....given Jonesy's history, we're following the Tibetan Buddhist tradition and aiming to keep his body undisturbed for 3 days. So, Jonesy is in the little spare bedroom surrounded by the Buddhist statues and images. (He does have ice packs around his body to slow down deterioration...) And we have a CD of Tibetan 'prayers for animals' playing and re-playing in the room to try to ensure a 'good rebirth' for him (a really strange combination of ancient religion and modern technology....)

Jonesy will be buried tomorrow, in the woods behind our garden.
Om Mani Peme Hung...

Eliz
 
Elizabeth and Bertie said:
Oh, gosh, thank you so much for your kindness, dear people!

Jonesy did have some very particular qualities. And we have often joked that he may have been a Buddhist monk in a past life...
Our cats are indoor/outdoor cats, but to our knowledge Jonesy has never killed any other living being. However, he certainly did hunt, but only brought home inanimate objects... When he was young a variety of objects were dragged through the catflap including an 'Action Man' doll (with missing arm), and (what appeared to be) the handlebars from a toddlers trike... He also came home on one occasion carrying a vegetable knife in his teeth. He looked like a pirate! I'm assuming that someone accidentally threw that knife out with their vegetable peelings. We still use the 'Jonesy knife' most days... (DH sharpened it today in honour of Jonesy, bless 'im....)

We have a miniscule spare bedroom that doubles as our meditation room, and there are shelves on the walls with Tibetan Buddhist statues on them. Over the years Jonesy has often accompanied DH while he's meditating; either alongside him or on his lap, but always sitting upright in meditation posture. And I've lost count of the times that I've walked into the room only to find Jonesy sitting on one of the shelves alongside a Buddhist statue, quite upright, with his eyes half closed, as though in meditation. Sometimes I've felt that I've intruded into his space and have quietly backed out of the room so as not to disturb him!

This may sound rather strange (and probably totally bonkers) to most people but....given Jonesy's history, we're following the Tibetan Buddhist tradition and aiming to keep his body undisturbed for 3 days. So, Jonesy is in the little spare bedroom surrounded by the Buddhist statues and images. (He does have ice packs around his body to slow down deterioration...) And we have a CD of Tibetan 'prayers for animals' playing and re-playing in the room to try to ensure a 'good rebirth' for him (a really strange combination of ancient religion and modern technology....)

Jonesy will be buried tomorrow, in the woods behind our garden.
Om Mani Peme Hung...

Eliz
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I really like that, brilliant Eliz!
 
Eliz,

I absolutely LOVED your post. What a character Jonesy was!! Hearing about all the little trinkets he'd bring his beans...just so adorable I cannot stand it...and how he has to be your DH's sidekick while meditating. When my BF and I do our workouts, one of his cats in particular loves it when we do floor work...going back and forth between us with his tail in our faces. Sending big hugs to get you through this difficult time....I so appreciate you sharing things about what a great life he had...quite possibly the BEST POST EVER!

Dawn :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh Eliz, I am so very sorry to hear about Jonesy but it is obvious he had wonderful life with you and your DH and was a very spiritual kitty. I loved your stories about Jonesy...quite the character indeed. May you be comforted by your fond memories of this adorable (and very handsome) little soul. Fly free Jonesy and send your Mama Bean and Papa Bean a sign that you have landed safely at the bridge. :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Eliz: I am so saddened to hear about Jonesy. I read your post about him with much interest, especially the part about a possible past life. I lived in Cambodia for a few years- I brought my two cats with me- and I learned about some fascinating beliefs Cambodian buddhists have about cats
1) cats will be a human in their next life
2) karma: for most things, we will pay for things we do in this life in our next life, but many Cambodians are afraid to have interactions with cats because they will pay in this life for anything bad they will do to a cat - I asked why don't they just treat cats royally in this life and reap the rewards but somehow I never got an answer
When I left, I had to leave my 19-20 year old end stage renal failure cat with my housekeeper - who loved her like a child. My cat View attachment 19737 lived, miraculously, for another few months. When she died, my housekeeper took her to the pagoda and had a traditional buddhist funeral for her with cremation and monks chanting. Here's a photo they sent me from the Buddhist burial in the pagoda - her body is in the orange box View attachment 19737
Warm wishes for peace, prosperity and happiness in your next life, Jonesy and Eliz- very sorry for your loss - what a special kitty he was!!
 

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As others have said, Eliz, what an amazing, beautiful post - possibly the best ever! You do write so well, you know... why not think about penning a little anthology of stories based on your real- life memories of your kitties... you could self-publish cheaply and sell copies to your cat- loving friends around the world and donate the proceeds to charity. Think about it!

Sending love and hugs at this very painful time,

Diana
 
Eliz,

Smokey's blood work came back normal including a basic pancreatitis blood test. But he was not eating. Had the ultrasound done and it turned out to be pancreatitis. The GI blood panel sent out to Texas confirmed it. The ultrasound only requires a fast. Smokey is 18 or will be next week. The meds seem to be working and he will be staying on them for comfort.
 
I am just now seeing this, Eliz, and I can't tell you how sorry I am at the news. What a wonderful life Jonesy had! I hope all the great memories help give your heart peace. The Buddist ritual you gave him was just lovely, too, and I'm sure he appreciates it.

Fly free, beloved Jonesy cat_wings>o
 
another late to the news... what a wonderful tribute to a gentle soul. Namaste to sweet Jonesy. May he travel well. And may you find comfort and peace in his memories. What a handsome boy. He looks much like a childhood kitty of mine, Mac, who was born in my room and became my greatest friend, and also a very sweet soul. Perhaps he was reborn as Jonesy and reached an even higher level of spirituality! Sorry you had to say goodbye to him now on this plane. :bighug::bighug:
 
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