Well i took jinx to the vet the yesterday and they ran some tests and jinx's sores and lesions are not caused from cancer. Apparently it is a bacterial infection which is hard to treat because of his diabetes ( cant really have the steriods which normally help) and he does not react well with liquid antibotics ( caused his poop to be red in color). The vet said the peeing and pooping outside the litter box is stress related. He prescribed him an antidepressant/antianxiety medication called amitriptyline. He says he has had a lot of success using this with cats that are stressed and peeing outside the box. I pray this works otherwise i have to get rid of him because my roommate is already fed up with it. I am going to give this med some time and hope it works. Does anyone know of places that specialize in rehabitating diabetic cats? I could not live with myself if i had to put him down. It's not fair to him. He is such a sweet loving boy.