Hi Everyone,
My wife's cat Chubby just got diagnosed a couple days ago and we have been struggling with a decision. I say my wife's cat since she had him before we married, and to be frank I am not a "cat person" being allergic and a dog lover. The cost has been the major factor as we have a young child, single income but also the level of care required also has my wife worried. We have a 2 week trip planned next week and don't have anyone we feel comfortable asking to care for him. It's a little overwhelming. At a time when we are trying to simplify our lives and tighten or spending, pragmatically it seems prudent to put him down plus we plan on having another child in the near future which will tighten our budget even more.
Chubby I believe is 14+ years old. The vet wants to keep him for the day; "Curve Package" using Caninsulin. The total cost with urinary tract medicine is CAD $417 (not sure that includes tax 13%) Plus we've already spent over $300 for all the tests. $750 poof.
For our family I think it makes sense to let him go, and my wife is on the fence, leaning toward keeping him. I don't want to push her and if she decides to treat him I would support her, but at the same time I get the feeling she wants me to make the decision or at least weigh in. I know she would feel some guilt if we put him down. Both her parents said put the cat down. I am a little more mixed about it.
The way I see it is -- maybe $1000+/year I could put in my child's college fund or put toward a house we hope to buy. I am a animal lover, but I am also very pragmatic. I keep thinking that over a week a year of my pay and time away from home will be devoted to his care. Putting him down would mean less work (hair everywhere, no littlerbox, puking), save me pain/suffer (allergies) and the cat has had a good life span. The thing is, I am sure if this was a dog I had had for 10+ years and loved, I would probably say let's do the treatment and care, so I feel like I shouldn't weigh in. However, I don't think her bond with him is that strong, she rarely pets him, especially now that we have our human baby (15 months). I feel that the decision will be harder than actually living without him.
Where can you draw the line without feeling like a @sshole for saying it's not worth it?
My wife's cat Chubby just got diagnosed a couple days ago and we have been struggling with a decision. I say my wife's cat since she had him before we married, and to be frank I am not a "cat person" being allergic and a dog lover. The cost has been the major factor as we have a young child, single income but also the level of care required also has my wife worried. We have a 2 week trip planned next week and don't have anyone we feel comfortable asking to care for him. It's a little overwhelming. At a time when we are trying to simplify our lives and tighten or spending, pragmatically it seems prudent to put him down plus we plan on having another child in the near future which will tighten our budget even more.
Chubby I believe is 14+ years old. The vet wants to keep him for the day; "Curve Package" using Caninsulin. The total cost with urinary tract medicine is CAD $417 (not sure that includes tax 13%) Plus we've already spent over $300 for all the tests. $750 poof.
For our family I think it makes sense to let him go, and my wife is on the fence, leaning toward keeping him. I don't want to push her and if she decides to treat him I would support her, but at the same time I get the feeling she wants me to make the decision or at least weigh in. I know she would feel some guilt if we put him down. Both her parents said put the cat down. I am a little more mixed about it.
The way I see it is -- maybe $1000+/year I could put in my child's college fund or put toward a house we hope to buy. I am a animal lover, but I am also very pragmatic. I keep thinking that over a week a year of my pay and time away from home will be devoted to his care. Putting him down would mean less work (hair everywhere, no littlerbox, puking), save me pain/suffer (allergies) and the cat has had a good life span. The thing is, I am sure if this was a dog I had had for 10+ years and loved, I would probably say let's do the treatment and care, so I feel like I shouldn't weigh in. However, I don't think her bond with him is that strong, she rarely pets him, especially now that we have our human baby (15 months). I feel that the decision will be harder than actually living without him.
Where can you draw the line without feeling like a @sshole for saying it's not worth it?