Hi I'm fairly new too ...only a couple of months in, and I too have a Vet, who I actually like and seems knowledgeable but didn't exactly give the best starting advice and I too have the issue of balancing family apprehension with this forum vs. Vet advice.
My personal journey started in January with strictly following Vets advice which was (1) feed only 2 times a day at shot time, (2) give 2 units, (3) feed prescription food only and (4) monitor her water consumption and urine output and I will see you in two weeks.
We ended up at the ER Clinic twice with super high sugars and a really LOW episode twice. It took these
scary experiences to get my family to understand that I would rather follow the guidance of people who are doing THIS day in and day out almost all day long and altruistically than strictly adhering to the Vet.
I will further say that my Vet did (eventually) come around and "agreed" to smaller meals throughout the day, "agreed" that I should be home-testing BG levels and smaller increment dose changes (because its a Hormone with ever changing needs NOT an antibiotic). He initially said changes in whole units, not quarter increments as suggested here.
Now here we are...almost 4 months in...and I cannot and do not have the right words to express my gratitude to everyone here AND ESPECIALLY TO
@FrostD . She has been INVALUABLE and I personally owe her a debt that I could not never repay in 9 lifetimes (hehe cat humor).
The Vet TOLD US what to do in less than 15 mins and went on to the next patient. On one occasion in the very beginning, I got a reading on a pet meter of 69 and immediately called the Vets office who told me (after keeping me on hold for 15 minutes) to reduce insulin to 1 unit and have a nice night. FYI - hypo episode and ER trip then she bounced, then glucose toxicity took hold (all terms you will soon become familiar should you decide to stick around). That is what it took (and several $$$$$ later) for my family to come around.
@FrostD has held my hand and is teaching me and guiding me and we are finally seeing some good numbers!! Great numbers compared to where we started if you ask me! I like to think that she gives me GUIDANCE by giving me the options she has ascertained by reviewing the data and her day-to-day experiences and leaves the actually decision to me.
This Message Board is more than just science and dosing and data, its taking all those things and factors in the feline and human elements. How much can your furbaby tolerate? How much can the FurMommy/FurDaddy tolerate? Stress levels, comfort of shooting, being "data" ready to do these things takes time and lots of experience. To be completely honest, I LIKE MY VET, but he doesn't have the day-to-day data nor the time in his day to help a "newbie like me" be "data" ready to help my Cleo. I wish you the best of luck and I hope to see you around the message boards.