Sjude13
Member Since 2025
Hey there everyone,
My name is Sam, 28 and single with no kids, and my baby Korvo of 6 years was just diagnosed as diabetic yesterday morning and this morning we are starting on new food and insulin (Prozinc) shots twice daily.
I will be fully honest…I am terrified. I already have a very wonky schedule throughout the weeks and not home at the same time each night depending on the days. On top of that, I have another cat (Beans) who is very close with Korvo and they’re used to always eating together at the same time with shared bowls. This new diagnosis is sending my own and both of my babies’ lives into shock as Beans now isn’t eating his normal food.
Any advice or encouragement would be beyond helpful as I have been spiraling and nonstop crying all yesterday evening and into this morning.
On top of all of this, I was laid off before December and I already have an 18 year old dog which an enlarged heart that requires 5 types of medicine and monthly stomach drains. All of this on top of needing insulin and what I keep seeing as constant vet visits, I truly don’t know how I can even make this work while also surviving and taking care of myself.
I’m mortified that I will let not only Korvo the diabetic cat down, but all my other babies as well, on top of completely changing my entire life and routine.
I’m not sure I can do it and I feel like a failure. I have a roommate but she also works differing schedules and not a set 8-5 or anything and also asking her to give him shots and constantly monitoring him isn’t fair or realistic.
I of course want my baby to be safe and comfy and living his best and fullest life but I am so scared I will not be able to provide what he needs and it’s breaking my heart. He’s such a loving and fun and energetic guy and seeing him sick now is ruining me.
Please help…
Sam
My name is Sam, 28 and single with no kids, and my baby Korvo of 6 years was just diagnosed as diabetic yesterday morning and this morning we are starting on new food and insulin (Prozinc) shots twice daily.
I will be fully honest…I am terrified. I already have a very wonky schedule throughout the weeks and not home at the same time each night depending on the days. On top of that, I have another cat (Beans) who is very close with Korvo and they’re used to always eating together at the same time with shared bowls. This new diagnosis is sending my own and both of my babies’ lives into shock as Beans now isn’t eating his normal food.
Any advice or encouragement would be beyond helpful as I have been spiraling and nonstop crying all yesterday evening and into this morning.
On top of all of this, I was laid off before December and I already have an 18 year old dog which an enlarged heart that requires 5 types of medicine and monthly stomach drains. All of this on top of needing insulin and what I keep seeing as constant vet visits, I truly don’t know how I can even make this work while also surviving and taking care of myself.
I’m mortified that I will let not only Korvo the diabetic cat down, but all my other babies as well, on top of completely changing my entire life and routine.
I’m not sure I can do it and I feel like a failure. I have a roommate but she also works differing schedules and not a set 8-5 or anything and also asking her to give him shots and constantly monitoring him isn’t fair or realistic.
I of course want my baby to be safe and comfy and living his best and fullest life but I am so scared I will not be able to provide what he needs and it’s breaking my heart. He’s such a loving and fun and energetic guy and seeing him sick now is ruining me.
Please help…
Sam
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