ohiogal
Member Since 2012
Hi all,
I need some advice. My 16 1/2 year old civvie kitty, Kennedy, developed a URI in December of last year. The vet's tried 4 different antibiotics and nothing's cleared it up.
In addition, he's lost a significant amount of weight (down to 5 lbs. from 7). He has some sort of lump in his neck that the vet thinks might be a tumor, but the only way to find out if it's benign or not is to go in and remove it.
He was doing OK, but in the last few weeks he stopped eating and became dehydrated. He became wobbly and fell over a couple of times, but the vet put fluids into him and that's revived him.
X-rays don't show any growths or fluid anywhere, and his blood work looks great. His organs are all functioning normally (his heart's a little small, but not abnormally so); so, generally speaking, aside from the URI and the weight loss he's healthy.
Except: he doesn't want to eat unless I hand-feed him A/D - if I set food out he doesn't touch it. Appetite stimulants haven't done a thing. If I put him in front of his food dish and scoop food into it, he'll eat a few bites and then walk away. He drinks, and I can give him fluids because I have a line, but I'm not sure if I should be prolonging this.
He doesn't seem to be in any pain, but he spends all of his time sleeping on my wi-fi router (it's warm there I guess), until I go to bed, then he switches to the bed. He's still jumping, but he's not as sure on his feet as he used to be, and he walks very deliberately as if he's trying to keep his balance. He's slipped and stumbled a few times, and I know that eventually he'll flop over again and won't get up until I put more fluids in him.
So, I don't know what to do. He's too old for surgery to do any good (to remove the lump in his neck), and I have a feeling that the reason he's so skinny is because anything he eats is feeding the tumor. The vet says he really can't afford to lose any more weight, but that's inevitable if he doesn't eat. He just doesn't seem interested.
Does anyone have any advice/suggestions on where I should go on this? Am I delaying the inevitable by putting fluids in him and hand-feeding him just to keep him alive? Or is there something I haven't tried yet that might work to get him better? On the one hand I don't want to give up on him, but on the other hand I don't want to make him stay if he really just wants to go. Any thoughts would be appreciated, thanks!
I need some advice. My 16 1/2 year old civvie kitty, Kennedy, developed a URI in December of last year. The vet's tried 4 different antibiotics and nothing's cleared it up.
In addition, he's lost a significant amount of weight (down to 5 lbs. from 7). He has some sort of lump in his neck that the vet thinks might be a tumor, but the only way to find out if it's benign or not is to go in and remove it.
He was doing OK, but in the last few weeks he stopped eating and became dehydrated. He became wobbly and fell over a couple of times, but the vet put fluids into him and that's revived him.
X-rays don't show any growths or fluid anywhere, and his blood work looks great. His organs are all functioning normally (his heart's a little small, but not abnormally so); so, generally speaking, aside from the URI and the weight loss he's healthy.
Except: he doesn't want to eat unless I hand-feed him A/D - if I set food out he doesn't touch it. Appetite stimulants haven't done a thing. If I put him in front of his food dish and scoop food into it, he'll eat a few bites and then walk away. He drinks, and I can give him fluids because I have a line, but I'm not sure if I should be prolonging this.
He doesn't seem to be in any pain, but he spends all of his time sleeping on my wi-fi router (it's warm there I guess), until I go to bed, then he switches to the bed. He's still jumping, but he's not as sure on his feet as he used to be, and he walks very deliberately as if he's trying to keep his balance. He's slipped and stumbled a few times, and I know that eventually he'll flop over again and won't get up until I put more fluids in him.
So, I don't know what to do. He's too old for surgery to do any good (to remove the lump in his neck), and I have a feeling that the reason he's so skinny is because anything he eats is feeding the tumor. The vet says he really can't afford to lose any more weight, but that's inevitable if he doesn't eat. He just doesn't seem interested.
Does anyone have any advice/suggestions on where I should go on this? Am I delaying the inevitable by putting fluids in him and hand-feeding him just to keep him alive? Or is there something I haven't tried yet that might work to get him better? On the one hand I don't want to give up on him, but on the other hand I don't want to make him stay if he really just wants to go. Any thoughts would be appreciated, thanks!
