Candy&Company
Member Since 2018
Hi there,
I was on this forum back in later 2018/2019 with my cat Fena. She went into diabetic remission and did wonderfully while my own health/life fell spectacularly apart. COVID times haven't helped.
Long story short, my Fena is now 17 years old (super senior) and is a royal mess, in part thanks to my vet even though I know they're trying and doing their best.
1 year ago when she was 16, my baby started getting anxious/stressed and I couldn't figure it out. She kept over grooming, pulling her hair out, etc. especially around her left foreleg shoulder/chest area and her left back leg/hip/knee area plus constantly licking her paws and scratching. I took her in and they found hyperthyroidism which she's been on meds for and seemed to do a bit better but the grooming/licking/hair pulling/scratching kept up and I tried to tell them, "Is it arthritis or an allergy?"
They took x-rays and it DID show arthritis where she's been focusing with the hair pulling but they fluffed me off, saying, oh let's give the thyroid meds a chance and keep her food the same (Friskies and Fancy Feast pate, low carb) and we'll monitor her.
I did my own food trial and found out Fancy Feast Beef Pate, when I stopped giving it to her, ended her paw licking and scratching but the grooming/hair pulling continued. I shared this with the vet, who agreed "no more beef" and "oh yes it is arthritis" because the thyroid meds are working great and the rest of her blood work looked really good - this was back in March of this year, 2021.
My baby has been even more miserable since. She's on arthritis meds (pills) twice a day which tear up her stomach, so while she's not over grooming/pulling hair anymore her appetite is down, she's throwing up off and on, has trouble sleeping and gets anxious if I'm not "within sight" of her. So THEN they gave her anti-nausea and appetite stimulant because she keeps losing weight.
She was down to 8.9 pounds as of Monday last week and is looking bony in her spine/back end, FEELS bony in those places and around her chest/front shoulder areas, is more lethargic/tired, is having trouble using the litter box because of her back end arthritis despite the pain meds...
Also last Monday the vet said I should feed her this Hills Science Diet "weight gain" wet food formula. I knew it was a bad idea but I agreed, and sure enough... now her blood sugar numbers are elevated. I'd gone back to testing her twice daily and due to her stress/misery before food she was sitting at about 145 average but then a few hours AFTER HER "weight gain breakfast" she was up to 200-240!
I called my vet this morning to tell her and she said "not to be concerned", etc. I just have a feeling if I keep up with this "diet", she'll need her insulin again because it'll wreck her all over again.
I'm a realist, I know my baby is 17, she's old... I'm looking right now at maintenance and quality of life until she lets me know, "That's it Momma I need to go". So I need help?
She's still bright eyed and bushy tailed in between her lethargy bouts, still pees/poos just fine (except the struggle of holding position sometimes even with her pain meds), still climbs stairs, jumps up to the windows, the couch, my bed (I have boxes of books I use as stepping stool for her all over the place), still eats and drinks happily when her tummy lets her, still cuddles with me and follows me around, etc.
So she's still fighting and wants to be here... so I ordered 2 different brands of CBD oil online this afternoon to see if one or the other helps her if she doesn't take to one of them and I've been thinking about either giving her kitten wet food as a supplement for some weight gain or maybe those high calorie paste tubes?
I'm just kinda stuck and... I dunno what to do or try? The vet hasn't suggested putting her down, but she doesn't see how my baby struggles 24/7. She seems to still wanna fight for life.. what should I do?
I was on this forum back in later 2018/2019 with my cat Fena. She went into diabetic remission and did wonderfully while my own health/life fell spectacularly apart. COVID times haven't helped.
Long story short, my Fena is now 17 years old (super senior) and is a royal mess, in part thanks to my vet even though I know they're trying and doing their best.
1 year ago when she was 16, my baby started getting anxious/stressed and I couldn't figure it out. She kept over grooming, pulling her hair out, etc. especially around her left foreleg shoulder/chest area and her left back leg/hip/knee area plus constantly licking her paws and scratching. I took her in and they found hyperthyroidism which she's been on meds for and seemed to do a bit better but the grooming/licking/hair pulling/scratching kept up and I tried to tell them, "Is it arthritis or an allergy?"
They took x-rays and it DID show arthritis where she's been focusing with the hair pulling but they fluffed me off, saying, oh let's give the thyroid meds a chance and keep her food the same (Friskies and Fancy Feast pate, low carb) and we'll monitor her.
I did my own food trial and found out Fancy Feast Beef Pate, when I stopped giving it to her, ended her paw licking and scratching but the grooming/hair pulling continued. I shared this with the vet, who agreed "no more beef" and "oh yes it is arthritis" because the thyroid meds are working great and the rest of her blood work looked really good - this was back in March of this year, 2021.
My baby has been even more miserable since. She's on arthritis meds (pills) twice a day which tear up her stomach, so while she's not over grooming/pulling hair anymore her appetite is down, she's throwing up off and on, has trouble sleeping and gets anxious if I'm not "within sight" of her. So THEN they gave her anti-nausea and appetite stimulant because she keeps losing weight.
She was down to 8.9 pounds as of Monday last week and is looking bony in her spine/back end, FEELS bony in those places and around her chest/front shoulder areas, is more lethargic/tired, is having trouble using the litter box because of her back end arthritis despite the pain meds...
Also last Monday the vet said I should feed her this Hills Science Diet "weight gain" wet food formula. I knew it was a bad idea but I agreed, and sure enough... now her blood sugar numbers are elevated. I'd gone back to testing her twice daily and due to her stress/misery before food she was sitting at about 145 average but then a few hours AFTER HER "weight gain breakfast" she was up to 200-240!
I called my vet this morning to tell her and she said "not to be concerned", etc. I just have a feeling if I keep up with this "diet", she'll need her insulin again because it'll wreck her all over again.
I'm a realist, I know my baby is 17, she's old... I'm looking right now at maintenance and quality of life until she lets me know, "That's it Momma I need to go". So I need help?
She's still bright eyed and bushy tailed in between her lethargy bouts, still pees/poos just fine (except the struggle of holding position sometimes even with her pain meds), still climbs stairs, jumps up to the windows, the couch, my bed (I have boxes of books I use as stepping stool for her all over the place), still eats and drinks happily when her tummy lets her, still cuddles with me and follows me around, etc.
So she's still fighting and wants to be here... so I ordered 2 different brands of CBD oil online this afternoon to see if one or the other helps her if she doesn't take to one of them and I've been thinking about either giving her kitten wet food as a supplement for some weight gain or maybe those high calorie paste tubes?
I'm just kinda stuck and... I dunno what to do or try? The vet hasn't suggested putting her down, but she doesn't see how my baby struggles 24/7. She seems to still wanna fight for life.. what should I do?