Minuit has let go of his fight.....

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Tanya

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Thank you to felinediabetes.com and all of you who helped me when Minuit was first diagnosed. I am certain I could not have cared for him the way I did without your support, information and assistance. .....

Thirteen years ago a stray cat showed up on my street in Belgium. I fed him for several years while he lived in a vacant house across the street. I called him "Black Kitty". Eventually, he worked his way into my house. I certainly could not continue to call him "Black Kitty"----that is no name for a cat. So he got a new name--MINUIT. (which is MIDNIGHT in French and pronounced MIN-WEE).

Minuit was always loving----to me. However, he hissed at Dallas every time he (Dallas) walked into the room. He did this for almost 2 years. (Dallas finally used tough love for cats---every time Minuit hissed, Dallas would immediately pet him in an overly-affectionate manner-- for several minutes. Minuit quickly stopped his hissing-habit).

Minuit was my shadow....so much so that I often tripped over him as he was always following me around the house. And he loved to hear me sing. He could be in the back of the house, sound asleep----and if I started singing he would run to the living room and sit on the couch, to watch and listen to me sing.....like my own private one-kitty-audience. (ok--maybe it is possible that he is simply deaf and is just attracted to the musical vibrations felt in the floor). And I could never sit at the computer without him. He insisted on being on my lap--laying his head across my hands, making it nearly impossible to type. Like most cats, he loved to lay in the sun. He would always find a small spot of sun on the floor and then follow it, moving as the sun spot moved.

About five years ago Minuit began having medical problems. He was diagnosed with a brain tumor, heart problems (then later a heart murmur), diabetes, liver problems, anemia, neuropathy in his front leg, seizures, and severe dehydration. So Minuit endured twice daily (or more often) blood tests, twice daily insulin shots, subcutaneous hydration (we bought IV fluids and special needles to give him the fluids twice a day), various medications mixed in his food, weekly shots for anemia --that can burn a bit at times, and weekly trips to the vet for special blood tests. He went to a Belgian Veterinary University hospital for multiple tests, saw a neurologist and a dermatologist. He lost most of his black fur which just left him with his fuzzy gray undercoat. He was often mistaken for a Siamese cat or some rare breed due to his unusual appearance. He even had a CAT scan (ironically....it turns out CAT scans really don't work very well on cats due to the closeness of the skull to the brain).

Minuit rarely complained and always sat still for all his treatments, sometimes even purring while getting his subQ hydrations. Five different vets advised me (five different times) that Minuit was going die....within months----or even days. He never did. He enjoyed making liars out of all of them. He wasn't ready to go. He loved living. (one vet told me "this cat does not want to die"). He continued to enjoy life...eating a lot, drinking a lot, getting and giving kitty cuddling, and hobbling around --(he walked lopsided--with a limp due to the neuropathy) and had whiskers on only side of his face ....he was sometimes called Quasimodo by my friends.

All of this medical history is not very interesting----but I write about it so you can understand what a fighter Minuit is.....never giving in----always living on---giving lots of love and joy to his family, especially to me.

Last July, once again, the vets told me that Minuit would not last more than 2 days. However, at the end of August, he flew with me to Washington DC, where he stayed with me for 3 months. The vets in DC informed me that he would not live long. However, in late November he took the 11 hour drive with me to Georgia. The vets there told me he had 3 days to live (that was 3 weeks ago). As we have been living in a hotel for the last 5 months, I have been worried that Minuit would die and I would not have a place to bury him (The Extended Stay Deluxe hotel is not exactly the place for a pet cemetery).

Last night, at 12:30, my brave, tough Minuit finally gave up the fight. He laid in his bed next to me and quietly took his last breath.

We closed on our house yesterday. So, we now have a place to bury him. (I think he intentionally waited so he wouldn't have to have a hotel parking lot burial).

Special thanks to Valerie, my wonderful Belgian friend, who cared for Minuit whenever I was on vacation or made trips from Belgium to the US. She tested his blood and gave him his shots and medication. Minuit allowed her to do all this and would even sleep on the bed with her. Valerie, your tender care of my beloved cat will never be forgotten.

And a huge hug for Kim and Steve (and Louie) who gave me and Minuit a place to stay in DC for 3 months. Without them and their amazing generosity, Minuit would not have been able to travel with me to the US. ....(and Kim was the friend who gave Minuit his Quasimodo nickname)

Now we are in our new house, with Minuit nearby. He was a sweet, loving boy with so much fight and determination in him. I miss his little furless body and his huge loving heart.
 

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i'm so sorry, tanya. i didn't know you or Minuit, but I loved your stories about him. what a sweetheart! you were lucky to have him.
 
Hello Tanya - I am so very sorry for your loss. I am happy though that he waited until you had the home that you wanted for him - how perfectly fitting. He sounds like a wonderful kitty - what great memories you have, will always have. Cherish them, keep them close to your heart. Minuit will always be with you, watching over you, being your shadow. May you find comfort in the memories.

Fly free little one. rb_icon
 
Tanya,

I'm very sorry to hear that you lost Minuit, but it sounds as if he could not have asked for a better life with a more caring family. If fate hadn't brought you two together, he would have lived a very lonely, and likely short life. Your story of him is obviously told with love and pride, and I hope that's what you carry in your heart moving forward. Loss is hard and painful, but only because of the wonderful memories and joy they allowed us to experience.

Edit: Forgot to say what a striking face he has. He is very handsome. His eyes are such a beautiful cream/green.
:YMHUG: :YMHUG:


Jason
 
Tanya, I'm so sorry for your loss of Minuit. He was a wonderful, brave kitty and he loved and was loved. Fly free, sweet Minuit, on your beautiful new golden wings. wings_cat

In deep sympathy,
Ella & Rusty & Stu (GA)
 
Thank you for sharing what is no doubt a small bit of the story of Minuit's life with us. He was a very special cat with an indomitable spirit. Fly free Minuit.
 
Tanya , i am so sorry to hear of your loss. Minuit sounds like such a brave soul! He will always be with you, every time you sing , everywhere you go. Cherish all the memories of your extra time together. These travails only strengthen the bonds with or loved ones.
 
Tanya, what a gorgeous boy your little fighter was.

terribly sorry for your grief...

Fly free and land softly, Little One...

Celi & Binks
 
Tanya,
I'm sorry for your loss of Minuit....i strongly believe there was a reason why the two of you bonded...and now you have memories that will last you a lifetime....cherish them always...he will be with you in spirit...

Fly Free Minuit wings_cat
 
I did not know you or Minuit but have cried the same bitter tears as you. Love is an energy that connects us to our loved ones and serves to comfort us in times like this. The love bond you had with Minuit hasn't changed, you're simply not able to see him now. He will never be far away from you. I'll keep you and Minuit in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Tanya, I am so sorry Minuit has gone. I can tell how much you loved him, and how much he loved you. He is now free, and I know he will always be in your heart.
 
So very sorry for your loss. I didn't know you or Minuit, but I enjoyed reading about his life with you and all that he overcame. He must have loved you so! They are such very special little creatures. Fly free, Minuit!
 
I am so very sorry for your loss. What a very special cat. (((Big Hugs))) and tears for you.

Fly Free Minuit
wings_cat

You will be with him again, one day.
 
Hi Tanya, I'm so sorry for your loss. He sure was a fighter and was not going to give up easily. Minuit sure was a lucky kitty to have picked you and have you give him a forever home. Rest in peace sweet Minuit. I love the pictures of Minuit. Hugs.
 
I am so sorry about Minuit and grieve with you - what a lovely story.

Judy, Jake, & Civvie Boomer
 
I am so sorry, Tanya. Sounds like Minuit was a real fighter indeed. I am glad to hear that, at least, he passed peacefully at home. This seems like the best way to go.

Je vous souhaite beaucoup de courage en ces temps difficiles. Bon envol, Minuit.
 
(((Tanya))) My condolences to you on the loss of Minuit. You told his story beautifully and I am very touched by all that you two have been through together. It is a comfort that he waited until you had your new home and now he will be near you. I hope that you will take comfort in your wonderful memories.... We are sending hugs to you during this very sad time...

Fly Free Minuit...until we meet again..... wings_cat
 
Thank you for sharing Minuit's story. It sounds like he was a very special cat and that the two of you had a special bond. I think that the love you two shared will live on, even though Minuit has crossed. He will be close to you at your new home, and always in your heart. My deepest condolences to you.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss .. the way you wrote about him brought tears to my eyes .. he was beautiful, inside and out .. Fly Free Minuit ..
 
Chaque soir, à minuit, on peut penser de ce chat miraculeuse. Adieu, Minuit...

I am sorry we never knew you, but your story has touched us all... what a courageous boy... so very sorry for your sad loss.
 
I am sorry for your loss - Thank you for sharing Minuit with us - he sure was a special kitty.

Fly Free Minuit - you were so loved and will be missed.
 
What a beautiful tribute. My heart goes out to you at this sad time. Fly free brave and wonderful Minuit. Safe journey and soft landings. Before you have time to miss mommy you will be together again.
jeanne
 
I'm so sorry for your loss, Tanya. Thank you for sharing his story and pictures with us, he sounds like a very special kitty.

Fly free sweet Minuit. wings_cat
 
What a lovely story. You obviously loved and provided the best care for Minuit, and he loved you back with all his heart.


*******Fly free Minuit, land softly at the bridge*******
 
Tanya, what a beautiful tribute to Minuit, a truly brave and courageous boy. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Fly free brave Minuit, land softly.
 
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