GA Milo’s gone

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Milo’s mom

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Hi all,
Wanted to say thank you for those who helped with my Denamarin post.

On Tuesday I noticed Milo was walking funny and having issues with his feeding tube. I made an appt with our vet who also said to take him back to the ER. The vet there said he had a small kink, rewrapped it and said that any other issues needed to be addressed with his vet. I was concerned with his food and that he was getting enough nutrients.
I asked if I could blend regular wet food to a liquid and he said to continue with the Recovery Convalescence and back it off if he gagged as he was up to 100ml every 6hrs. Then he brushed us off. He said in his discharge summary the drooling was from the tube.
Fast forward to 4:15 at our Vet. She took one look at him and saw he was critical.
Ran his blood and his potassium was at a 2. Range should be 3.5-5.8. Long story short, there was nothing that could be done. He passed peacefully surrounded by myself, my husband and my oldest son, his human (he 19). His head was in my son’s hand. My son said he was so happy to be home from college and would have hated not being here. My youngest, 13, didn’t want to be there. I don’t blame him, but we wanted to give him the option. Something my parents didn’t give me and I hated them for it, but that’s another story.

Reading over the hospital notes I found they only fed him 2x in the 3 days he was there. The flood him with IV fluids which cause his potassium to drop. When we brought him in, his potassium was at 5.2, the labs they ran 2x show it at a 3. They knew it was dropping and they didn’t give him anything!! I also found out that the only reason they installed the feeding tube was due to my Vet calling them after I called her.
Our Milo didn’t have to die. He’s gone. I know I did everything I could. What I can’t get past is how much he must have suffered at their hands.
 
I am so sorry. After the last few days, I'm beginning to wonder how the vet schools are training people. It sounds like your vet's license should be pulled. However, that's not what is most important. What is important is that you and your husband and son were there for Milo. He crossed the Bridge with you there knowing he was loved.

Fly free Milo. You will be reunited with the ones you love best.
 
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the memories of Milo will bring you some comfort.

Fly free sweet Milo and watch over everyone who loves you.

cat_wings>o
 
Oh no! I’m so saddened to read this. I had hoped Milo was going to be on the mend. You absolutely did everything possible, sending you and your family my deepest condolences and hugs:bighug::bighug: at this difficult time. I hope your fond memories of Milo coming shining through, and give you some comfort. I’m so very sorry. Fly free sweet Milo.:rb_icon:cat_wings>o
 
Oh no. I can’t believe it. This is devastating news. Milo definitely should not be gone. I’m so sad and so sorry. This is all wrong. I would perhaps consider legal action or a professional complaint process where those vets could at least be censured in some way. But right now your family must just be reeling from the loss. I do hope that you will be able in the future to focus on how much joy he brought to your family.
 
I'm so sorry Milo has passed, I just don't understand how these vets can live with themselves.

I'm glad he had a peaceful crossing surrounded by all his humans, even though you shouldn't have had to say goodbye so soon.

I must admit, that I agree with Suzanne, perhaps when the dust has settled you may consider a formal complaint, it's not just an accountability issue, but perhaps if they are made to see that their incompetence/negligence has consequences it may help to re educate and change their behaviour.

IFly Free Miilo.:rb_icon:
 
Sending you and your family so much love. I am so incredibly sorry. I'm glad Milo's human was able to be with him in his final moments. Extra love to your son.
 
Hi there… first off my deepest sympathies for the loss of your sweet Milo. I know just how you feel. We had such a similar experience around the same time with our kitties. You responded to my Edgar post that started about him not eating. We took him home from the hospital Wednesday afternoon. They weren’t able to help him with all the treatments and he was so weak and over stressed. We talked about transferring him for a feeding tube but once we got him home we realized just in how bad of shape he was. No way were we putting him through anything else. We had someone come over yesterday morning and do the euthanasia. Edgar was so miserable. My husband and I both feel that the 3 vets we went through and the ER hospital should have done some things differently. It was extremely frustrating.

I know you did everything you possibly could to help Milo. I believe they knew we were doing things to try and help them and that we loved them very much.

Thank you for your support for Edgar. Take care and I wish you the best.

Nikki
 
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