Mego - A Loving Tribute to My Beloved Mr. Green Eyes

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Katie & Mego (GA)

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Hello to my dear LL family,

It is with great sorrow and a heavy heart that I come to let everyone know that my beloved Mego wings_cat crossed over the rainbow bridge yesterday. :cry: :cry: :cry:

My life with Mego began over 16 years ago in Minneapolis, MN. I was attending college at the University of Minnesota - Twin Cities. I was beginning my third year of college and had just moved into a house with my roommate. I had furkids my entire life at home and since I was starting my own life away, I was longing for that familiar kinship. I went to a local pet store just to see who might be out there waiting for a fur-ever home. And there he was... the smallest of the bunch, being trampled over by the other kittens. And since I'm always a champion of the underdog - the little grey & white fuzzball with radar-sized ears and big green eyes stole my heart and found his fur-ever mama. cat_pet_icon

I took my darling boy back home and I called my mom; she had no idea what I was up to. I slyly asked her "How much does it cost to neuter a kitten?" There was a long pause on the phone and then she said, "You can't have a kitten, your landlord doesn't allow pets. You need to call the pet store and see if you can take him back." To which I replied, "NO WAY!" I had an absentee landlord and knew he wouldn't find out. VICTORY! :lol: :lol: :lol: I teased my mom that she was now a grandma which she wasn't exactly nuts about. :lol: :lol: :lol: But it was clear when my parents visited me at college that Mego wound up stealing their hearts too.

It took me a while to come up with a name for him, I wanted to spend some time with him and find out what his personality was like. Mego very quickly let me know that he was going to do whatever he wanted and go where ever he wanted in spite of me, hence his name "Me-Go" anywhere I want.

When it was time to leave school and move back home, I still remember the 5 hour drive with Mego in his carrier. It was his first long road trip and he let me know exactly how he felt about it all. 4 hours of constant yowling! By the time I got to Madison, I couldn't take it anymore and I let him out of his carrier for the last hour of the drive. He snuggled into a box of my clothes and slept peacefully for the rest of the way home. I constantly checked my rear view mirror to make sure he stayed there. We spent the next 6 years in Wisconsin together.

In 2004, I moved to Virginia with my younger brother while he attended medical school here. But before I arrived in Blacksburg, VA, Mego and I road tripped together to Charleston, SC to visit with my best friend. We spent a week together there and Mego was entranced by all of the new bugs to chase around. Mego spent the rest of his life with me here in Blacksburg and his personality continued to surprise me warm my heart.

In 2011, Mego gave me quite the scare by falling off my 3rd story balcony. It was a beautiful day out and I left my patio door screen open as Mego loved to go out there. My wooden balcony railing had recently been replaced by a newer and thinner plastic railing. As I was cooking in the kitchen, I suspect that Mego hopped up on my patio table and without realizing the new railing was more slippery, he jumped up and slipped off, falling to the ground below. I had no idea this happend and when I couldn't find Mego, I freaked out. I went outside to look for him and didn't find him. I scoured my house again and still couldn't find him. I went back outside and I found him huddled up against the wall of the patio below. He made it through unscathed and I was beyond relieved when he returned to his normal self a few days later. I felt like a terrible mama bean.

In March of this year, Mego's behaviors began to change and I knew something was up. He was exhibiting the classic symptoms of feline diabetes. And so began my journey with my FDMB family here. I was devastated with the diagnosis and I wasn't sure if Mego & I would be able to make it through this challenge. Together, through our FD journey, our bond strengthened even more. We made it through near insulin overdoses because of an error the vet made in the supplies I was given, food changes, and the general stresses that come with learning to give shots and BG testing. With the help of so many of you here, the unbearable was made bearable and I was given an immeasurable amount of strength and support so I could help Mego through this battle. We shared special time together with lots of scratches, purring and soft licks. Mego and I made it through and nearly a month after his diagnosis, Mego went OTJ in April.

Mego and I were able to enjoy the next 8 months together as if nothing had even happened. In the last week or so, Mego began displaying some unusual behaviors again and to Mego's dismay, off to the vet we went. I was concerned about possible kidney disease or hyperthyroidism. His blood work results did not point to anything conclusive. He was dehydrated and I brought home the supplies I needed to give him sup-q fluids. After I brought Mego home, his health and QOL rapidly deteriorated. Mego was not eating or drinking and I could tell he was in obvious pain. He was no longer interested in his favorite treats either. His breathing became very shallow from Saturday night into Sunday morning. With him being in such obvious pain, I could not bring myself to stick him with another needle. I wanted our morning on Sunday to be one filled with love. As the day went on, Mego let me know in his own way that it was time to let him fly free. We cuddled and I gave him as much of my love as I could.

Mego crossed the rainbow bridge peacefully in my loving arms. He was welcomed with open paws by the furkids from my childhood and those from FDMB who have gone before him.

Some of Mego's favorite things to do were to go out on my balcony and watch the birds, sun himself and watch the ferrel cats outside. He was so funny when the cats would come around. He would look down on them and tell them how displeased he was that they were around. Mego always was the ruler of this roost! Mego was my true "alarm clock," He let me know in his own unique way when he wanted something. He was great at waking me up in the morning with soft licks to my face, soft tickles to my nose with the fine hairs on the tips of his paws, head butts, and by knocking things off tables when he wanted attention. He always followed me into the bathroom because he knew I couldn't escape and he was sure to get scritches. He would love to climb into bed with me and sneak his way under my down comforter and camp out under my tented legs when I would read. He slept on the pillow beside me and would wait for his bedtime lovin'. He loved freshly picked cat nip and would sit on his hind legs and clasp it between his paws and lick it like mad. He always knew when I was coming home and would greet me lovingly at the door and wait for his full body pet down. When I would go away on trips without him, he would scold me as soon as I got home and then wouldn't let me out of his sight. He would always sleep at the top of my head on the pillow the first night I'd be back. He loved to go outside and lap up the rain puddles that had gathered on my patio too. He loved to hide behind blankets that hung from my couch or chair and pretend that you couldn't see him. I will miss him drooling all over me when he'd be so relaxed from scritches and pet downs :lol: .

He was such a character, and an independent soul just like his mama bean. We were truly made to find each other and I thank God that I found him that day at the pet store. Mego enriched my life in so many ways and in his crossing, has showed me my capacity for such deep and profound love. Mego will always be my prince in shining grey & white armor. It was a very difficult night last night and much too quiet around the house this morning. It will take some time for this broken heart to heal and for the waves of tears to cease, but each heaving sob and tear reminds me of the beautiful memories we had together.

I want to take a minute and send out some very special "Thank Yous:"
To Marje & Gracie: My appreciation for your guidance, patience and support will never be forgotten. You will forever have my utmost respect and gratitude for the strength you have given to all of us here.
To Jamie & Jupe: We started our stressful journeys together here on FDMB with our sugarcats and supported each other through the toughest of times. Your support and kindness has meant the world to Mego & I. And although Mego is no longer with me and I'm not on the board regularly, you will always have my support and love in your journey with Jupe & your civies. You are never far from my thoughts.
To Jill & Alex: Thank you for helping me work out a shot schedule that would work with my crazy work schedule. I have no doubts that it helped me get Mego OTJ in such a short amount of time.
To Michelle & Mannie: Thank you for making Mego's OTJ feast and I hope Mego was greeted by an equally delicious spread on his first meal on the other side.
To Camille & Frosty: Thank you for Mego's OTJ video - what a wonderful fur-ever gift you have given me. It brings a smile to my face every time I watch it.
To Sienne & Gabby: You helped us so much through those difficult times during our FD time here. You hold a very special place in my heart.
To Courtney & Kismet, Wendy & Tiggy, Ella & Rusty, The Bowhuntress, Rhiannon & Shadow, Wendy & Neko, Dyana, Carfurby (my VERY EARLY coffee buddy), and the rest of the FDMB family: You will forever have my gratitude and love for all the support you have given us through the long sleepless nights, early mornings and those difficult times. Mego & I would never have made it through all of this without your love and kindness. You are all blessed in my eyes.


To my darling regal prince, my Mr. Green Eyes, my Mego: I love you fur-ever! I hope you know I did the best for you that I could and tried always to be the best mama bean. Thank you for leaving me one of your long soft whiskers; you will tickle my nose and heart forever. I will miss you dearly every day. You were my best friend, my buddy and were always there for me. I hope you find your way to the endless cheese block. You can now run free through the tall grasses and chase all the bugs and butterflies you want. Oh, and your favorite green mouse is now my lucky charm.

Love & Blessings to you all.
Katie
 

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katie, i didn't know you and mego, but find i can relate to so much of what you've written in your tribute. you obviously loved him so much, and he sounds like an absolutely wonderful companion. i also found a kitten in college and had her living in a university apt and a dorm room . . . and what a blessing it was to be a college student with a cat. i'm sure you know exactly what i mean.

you gave it all to Mego - a life full of love and adventure. blessings on you as you adjust to daily life without him. know that you gave him everything he needed. :YMHUG:
 
(((((Katie))))) I am SO sorry it was Mego's turn to go. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: You were such a great momma bean to him - you did indeed go through the trial by fire when you started your FD journey. Thank you for sharing your tribute to Mego - it is a beautiful story.
Fly free Sweet Mego and land softly. wings_cat

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(((Katie)))) what an amazing, beautiful tribute to your darling green-eyed boy. He was so incredibly handsome, brave, and obviously had an enduring love for his mama. My heart breaks for you; I know your love and devotion was and always will be strong.

I hope this poem will help you as it has helped me. Your green-eyed boy will be waiting for you and while he does, he will be happy and free from pain.

The Ridge by Carol Notermann

It’s been such a lovely summer, I’ve been napping in the sun.
This morning, other cats and I enjoyed a long long run.
We chased butterflies together. I climbed high into a tree.
And now I think what woke me up was that small bumble bee.

I’ve yawned and stretched, and still I feel that something has begun.
He’s standing there in robes of white, and telling me to come.
I always run to Him you know, when He comes across the bridge
To see if we’re all having fun and if we’ve checked the ridge.

He gives tummy rubs to all of us and pets and cuddles too
I’m glad to see Him every day, when He comes into view.
Each day He takes a different cat, and chats with them a while
Then off that kitty starts to run. I swear they seem to smile.

But now He’s stopped in front of me. He’s said a name I know.
He said to look out towards the ridge. The sun is setting low.
I start to walk out toward the ridge, and then what’s that I see.
IT’S YOU! IT’S YOU! It’s really you. You’ve come to be with me!

My goodness you are running and I am running too!
You stop to bend, but I can jump and now I am with you.
I feel your kisses on my head, as I did in long off days
You’re holding me and hugging me, and into your eyes I gaze.

And now He’s walking with us, as you carry me once more
We’ve crossed Rainbow Bridge together. We’re here at Heaven’s door.
And He has held it open, and told us to walk through
That from now on and forever, I can always be with you.
 
Dear ((((Katie)))),
Your handsome boy Mego is safely at the Bridge and surrounded by all our GAs. Chefs Mannie and Stu have prepared a sumptuous welcome banquet for him. He is in good paws. I am very sorry that you had to say farewell, but I know that you are comforted by the thought that Mego is pain-free and enjoying a place where he can chase butterflies, nibble catnip, and wait for that wonderful day when you will meet again.

In deepest sympathy,

Ella & Edward, Rusty, and Stu (GA)
 
What a nice tribute I say between my tears.

(((Katie))) I am so sorry for your loss. I know Mego knows how much he was loved, and he is having a good time at The Bridge waiting for you to join him one sweet day.

I will light a candle tonight for little Mego.
 
Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and well wishes. I won't lie Marje, that poem made me bawl my eyes out but is much appreciated. Thank you Dyana for lighting a candle - it means the world to me. Unashamedly, I'll take as many hugs as I can get. I think I've made it a half hour without crying, well ok, maybe 20 minutes :lol: . As rough as it is right now, I know this sadness will pass eventually.
 
Katie, I am so sorry to read this. I so remember you, and Mego. There are not words.... I so hope that the memories will be of comfort to you. Mego will always be with you, in your minds eye, tucked away in a corner of your heart. He is a peace now, and pain free, whole and healthy again. Chef Mannie and Chef Stu are waiting for Mego with the feast of all feasts to welcome him to the Bridge. They will take good care of Mego. Hugs to you.

Fly free Mego. You will always be remembered, never forgotten.
 

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Oh my, what a wonderful tribute. We weren't around yet when you and Mego were doing the dance, but we understand completely about your journey. We send bon voyage wishes as Mego meets up with so many beloved friends at the bridge. And right there with you on Marje's poem, bawling my eyes out too.
 

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Katie, I'm so sorry your journey with your dear Mego has come to an end. I didn't know you and Mego, but any time any of us loses one, we all feel it.

You obviously loved him very much, and it's wonderful that you can remember the good times you had together

Fly free sweet Mego, and land softly...there are many at the Bridge to welcome you and show you the ropes wings_cat
 
Katie, I'm so sorry to hear this. It's never easy to let one of our furbabies go. You did the most loving thing for Mego. He is free now and won't be in pain anymore. Sending hugs and prayers to you. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

Fly free sweet Mego.
 
(((((Katie)))))

My heart is so sad but your words and your love for Mego are eloquent. While he chose one last journey, he took those steps knowing he was so very well loved. That love made me smile.

There is a fable I sometimes post about why we choose tears. I hope it brings you some comfort.

Fly free, Mego, and land softly. There are many kitties who we love dearly who are waiting with you and will keep you safe and happy until you are reunited with the one you love best.

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Katie,
That is one of the most beautiful tributes I have ever read here. My heart goes out to you in the days ahead. It was very hard for me to read, because as you described Mego's last days, it brought the memories of Bob rushing back to me. Like Mego, he went from doing perfectly well, to "what went wrong overnight?" and I could not believe he was gone. All I can tell you is that it hurt like the worst kind of hell, and what got me "through it" was the outpouring of love that I found here. My "FDMB Family" rescued me. They will do the same for you.

Fly free little Mego. You were so loved, and you returned that love every day since that day your Mom first laid eyes on you. Look down on her and let her know that all is well, and help her broken heart to mend. It's going to take some time for her to fill that "Mego-shaped" hole in her heart.

Katie, hold on to that "lucky charm" forever.

Huge hugs,
Carl (and Polly)
 
(((((Katie)))))
Hoot and I never had the pleasure of meeting you when you were here but are very saddened by the loss of your buddy Mego :cry:
What a wonderful and heartfelt tribute to him that was
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and hope that your heart will begin to heal soon :YMHUG:
 
(((((Katie)))))
I'm so sorry. This love we share can be so wonderful and so very difficult all at the same time.
Mego knew how loved he was.
Fly Free Mego.
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Sending hugs and prayers for your broken heart.
 
I am so sorry Mego has joined our GAs at the bridge. Your love for him is obviously deep, and your separation is temporary...you will be together again one day. Until then, our prayers are with you...
 
(((Katie))), I am so sorry to hear about Mego. I remember jumping for joy when he went OTJ earlier this year. I loved reading about your journey together -- he was by your side through it all. And now he is forever in your heart.

~ Sharing your tears and giving you endless hugs,
Josie & Ripley
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(((Katie)))

What a wonderful tribute to a much loved kittie. I think Cleo and I had just joined LL when Mego went OTJ. You and Mego were an inspiration to us newbies. Sending hugs to you - soft landing for Mego wings_cat
 
Katie I'm sending you cyber-hugs on the loss of your very special kitty Mego. I didn't know you, or the others who have lost their purrfect kids, but I know your and their pain and I thank God every day that there are such people in the world who treasure and adore cats as much as we all do. You gave Mego a wonderful life and if it's one thing I know without a shadow of a doubt, cats LOVE back and they KNOW how we feel. One day a new furry, soft treasure will come into your life who needs the love that only a cat person can give, and you will again have those whiskers tickling your face and your heart.

Sleep sweetly little Mego until you and your mama meet again.
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{{{{Katie}}}},

I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my face feeling your sorrow. Your tribute made me feel like Mego was an old friend. Nothing but time will mend your broken heart. Please know that all the strength and support you got from everyone from the beginning only multiplies exponentially when it's time to say good bye. I can never contain my tears when I read of someone's loss and I know all of the others out "here" feel the same way. We are a family and when one of us is hurting we all feel it. I am sending you prayers of comfort and please know, this too shall pass and soon you will be able to remember him with all the smiles and love you gave him each and every day.
 
Katie, what a beautiful tribute. I actually read it about 3 times since you’ve posted it yesterday and still cant read it without tears. *hugs*

I remember that Jupe and Mego started there FD journey together, Mego diagnosed only 1 day later then Jupe. “Us newbies have to stick together if we're going to get through this!” That’s what you said to me and that’s exactly what we did. I Remember I was so happy when Mego went OTJ in such a short time and he was really an inspiration!

You and Mego will always have a very special place in my heart. Katie, you have been a great friend to me and I will always remember your dearest Mego. I have always had you both in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to keep you in my prayers especially during this tough time.

I loved reading about your journey with Mego and I know you were both so lucky to have one another. Cherish those sweet sweet memories forever. I know that Mego knows he was loved SO much and he will be in your heart with you forever.

Sending you comforting vines and prayers and tons of hugs.

Fly free sweet Mego
 
(((Katie))), What an absolutely amazing tribute to your "Mego" . I'm so grateful that you two found each other and got to know what real unconditional love is like. Fly free Sweet boy...
 
Good morning everyone,

Thank you all for your overwhelming outpouring of love and support. I don't think I could get through this without all of you. This was all so very sudden and I'm trying to wrap my head around that. I truly feel it was a blessing and that Mego didn't suffer in pain for an extended period of time.

Carl, you totally get me and I appreciate your words more than I can say. I've recently read your story about Polly and you give me hope that there will come a time when my heart will be able to love again. I hope when that time comes that I'll be as lucky to find another furever kid like Polly.

Cleo & Jane, I do remember you and I hope your journey here has been very positive. I know Mego is watching over all of his FDMB buddies and he's sending his own healing vines to all of you.

Thank you again everyone, those known and unknown. You all mean the world to Mego & I.

I'm sending out healing vines to all of those who need it, and offer as much strength as I have to continue your journeys and hope that one day your little ones can enjoy life at the falls too, just like Mego did. Hugs to you all.

Katie
 
Katie,
BIG HUGE LOOOOOOONG HUG, I'm so sorry it was Mego's time to cross. What a beautiful tribute to him and what an amazing love you two share. Remember, Mego's not gone, you just have to hug him differently.

Fly free sweet baby....land softly right back in MamaBean's broken heart.

Another big long hug,
 
Hi Katie...I did not have the opportunity to get to know you and Mego, but through your beautiful, touching tribute I feel like I do know you. My heart aches for your loss. Mego was one lucky little man for you to have picked him ... It sounds like you guys were the "purrfect" match ;-) I know the next few days, weeks, months will be difficult for you but knowing Mego is free from sickness and again happy should bring you some comfort. You and Mego will be together again one day and until then he would want you to be happy too. Sending my thoughts, Prayers, and lots of :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: your way.

Sincerely,
Rise'
 
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Good morning everyone,

Thank you all for your overwhelming outpouring of love and support. I don't think I could get through this without all of you. This was all so very sudden and I'm trying to wrap my head around that. I truly feel it was a blessing and that Mego didn't suffer in pain for an extended period of time.

Carl, you totally get me and I appreciate your words more than I can say. I've recently read your story about Polly and you give me hope that there will come a time when my heart will be able to love again. I hope when that time comes that I'll be as lucky to find another furever kid like Polly.
Katie

Katie,
That time will come. And that new heart-saving furever kid will find you.
http://www.felinediabetes.com/FDMB/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=109758

Hugs,
Carl
 
{{{Katie}}}, I haven't met you, either, but reading your incredible tribute to Mego, I feel like I do know you. You are a wonderful, loving person and your precious kitty knew it as soon as he saw you. You had me sobbing like a little baby, but my heart swells at the love I read in every word. I know from my own experience that it seems like it will never stop hurting. It won't, but you'll learn to get through the pain by remembering the good times. Mego will always be there, watching over you, waiting for you to come "home". The tears will lessen, but your memories will grow stronger. You have my deepest sympathy.
 
Thank you again everyone. I sincerely could not get through this without all of your sweet words. I know Mego has landed softly, not sure about gracefully. :lol: :lol: :lol:

The days are getting A LITTLE easier but it's another hard night. There are so many "firsts" happening... first morning after, first night home from work and he's not there to greet me. Yes, it's hard facing these things, but I have managed to make it through each of the "firsts" so far with tears here and there but still breathing. I took Mego's favorite mouse with me to work today and tucked it into my pocket - I know he's helping me keep it together. Some might think it's weird, but I don't care. Everyone at work was very helpful and they treaded very lightly around me today... and I appreciated that. I'll be able to talk to them more as time goes on.

Once again, a big thank you to all and many hugs back to you.
 
(((Katie)))

A truly beautiful tribute to Mego. Like others, I never had the pleasure of getting to know you and Mego while you were here, and yet I do feel that I know you. My heart goes out to you and I truly hope you find comfort in knowing that you gave your sweet kitty one amazing life. Prayers and hugs.
 
Lighting a candle, in memory of your beloved Mego. The love just shines through your beautiful tribute to Mego.

Give time to let your heart heal. Those "firsts" are some toughies'
 

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Katie what a wonderful tribute you have given your sweet boy! Vines to you and I hope your many happy memories will help you through this difficult time. Mego was very lucky to have a mama bean like you. Fly Free Sweet Mego (((Katie)))
 

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What a beautiful kitty. I love how you chose his name. It sounds Spanish. :-D

I do not think I have ever lost a friend and had it notfeel sudden. Even when you've known they have been sick for a while, there is always this little part of us that hopes. You gave the most beautiful and loving gift that you could by sparing him pain and giving him peace. Letting go is one of the most difficult things to do sometimes. :YMHUG:
 
Katie, I am so sorry for your loss. Your tribute to Mego was a beautiful one. I know that Mego is flying free and happy with all of our other GA's. Hugs to you.
 

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Oh dear (((((Katie))))) I am so, so sad to read this. I'm sending you and your family hugs and prayers. Please know that I know the hurt of losing a beloved furchild and my heart goes out to you.
 
Thank you so much Kat. It's been very difficult to say the least. I have Mego back home with me now where he should be. I still find myself crying at some of the little things I miss, but it's very expected. It's good to hear from you. :-D
 
Aww, Katie... I'm sorry.
May you soon find comfort in all your memories of your life together.

wings_cat Fly free little Mego...
 
Hi Jill! It's been so long since we've talked. Thank you so very much for your sweet message. Without FDMB and your help, I wouldn't have had another 8 wonderful months with my guy.
 
Katie,

I'm just seeing this now. I am so so sorry. What a wonderful tribute you wrote. The love that you two shared is awesome and will live forever in your heart. Fly free sweet one.
 
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