thank you to all of you who replied. I am so happy to get advice from people who have had experience with this situation and who have the emotional connection with their animals. I feel like since the vets don't have that connection they just tell what they learned in the books (if that makes sense). My current vet of course right away jumped on the "prescription" food wagon. And she kind of insisted that he "NEEDED" to be on this food and that his diabetes has now become secondary and we would have to manage the diabetes with increased insulin dosages "at some point". Wel, well, well - I of course am freaked out by all of this (again) and don't know what else to do at the time, so BOUGHT the "sample" pack of kidney diet foods (which cost me $40 - I was always under the impression that "sample" meant it was free......

- silly me.) anyway, yesterday was the first day I gave him the "kidney" food. I expected that his BG would go up some, but wow was I surprised last night when I tested him - 429. Holy crap. He has not been that high for MONTHS. I of course freaked out thinking if ONE can of this stuff can do this to him, what the heck is it going to be like feeding this to him on a regular basis??? So last night at bedtime I gave him his regular "diabetes" food, however I put out a bowl of the "kidney" dry food out mixed with a little of his diabetes dry food (I always give him Young Again on the side at night so he does not continually wake me up all night - but usually he only eats a very little bit of it). well apparently the kidney dry food must have smelled REALLY good because he ate pretty much of it. Guess what - this AM when I tested him his BG was 486. that is the highest is has EVER been - EVER! if these numbers are coming after ONE DAY on this stuff, how is this an option?? Ok. now I am upset. We are supposed to be going out of town this weekend. I had arranged for someone to come in to give him his insulin, however I had only been giving him insulin 1x per day on most days because he was so well controlled that his night time shot was almost always not necessary, so I was planning on that person to come only in the AMs. Now I feel like since he is back to being unregulated, I will have to tell her she has to come at night too. and I know I will worry all weekend that something is going on. Ugh. I could "talk" forever here. However, last night I had a bit of time to start doing some research and I think I am realizing once again that there are much better options out there. Unfortunately this time of year is so bad as far as how much time I have to do the research. I have a feeling that much of our weekend away will be spent online trying to do this research.
I guess one question I have is - how fast do I have to move on this?? is this something critical? I don't think I will have time to be able to post the results because I would have to figure out how to do that and that could take a while..., however I can just give you some right here - I will give the ones that say they are high, or that are probably important.
Albumin 4.1 (should be 2.5 - 3.9) I think she said this signifies dehydration.
BUN 59 (should be 14-36)
Creatinine 2.9 (should be 0.6-2.4)
BUN/creatinine ration 20 (this one is not high - should be 4-33 - but thought it might be important)
Phosphorus 5.6 (again not high - should be 2.4-8.2 - but thought might be important)
Glucose 158 (well it WAS good on the day of the visit)!
Sodium 155 (should be 145-158)
Potassium 4.8 (should be 3.4-5.6)
cholesterol, triglyceride and amylase were all high, but he had just eaten before the vet visit - do these make a diff?
Urine -
Ph was 5.5 (i think that is little acidic)
specific gravity 1.022 (should be 1.015-1.060)
Protein in urine - trace
No ketones, or glucose in urine
some blood in urine - not visible - she said he has kidney stones
i have been making every effort to try to get him to drink as much as possible. he loves broth (Wellness Core) so have been putting that on his food (of course i went back to the "diabetes food")
anything i have missed. I will try to get asap.
thank you all again! so much.