OK, here's the deal.

I think you said your vet said that 125 is the line in the sand for shooting or not? That is fairly aggressive advice that I don't disagree with because I was aggressive with Bob. But Bob was my cat so it was my call. And I also knew what I was able to do later in the cycle as far as testing goes. It's a different story when I'm dealing with a stranger and it's not my cat.
I might draw a line at 200 in your case, depending on when/if you can test tomorrow.
If between 150-200, maybe .25u. If above 200, maybe .5u. And I'd test 3-4 hours after the shot.
How is his appetite? As long as he is eating OK, I don't think that is a problem.
So far, on your spreadsheet, I don't see a number that is scary at all. Actually, I see some really nice numbers. Bob didn't have blue preshots until he'd been getting insulin for a few weeks, lol. And his doses weren't less than one unit until a week or two before he went into remission. In other words, both you and your kitty are doing really well at this point.
And yes, all of this does get much easier! The longer you do this, the more you will "learn your cat", and the more confidence that will give you.