I’m sure someone more experienced will weigh in soon but I just wanted to say welcome! You’ve definitely come to the right place.
It can be really overwhelming at first, but there is so much accumulated experience and knowledge here. And a bunch of cat moms and dads who’ve been in your shoes and can relate to how you feel.
My cat Moonie is very cooperative now, but she was really skittish when I first got her and I remember looking at YouTube tutorials of people with the calmest cats giving injections and doing blood glucose tests and thinking “you must be kidding me.” But with time, we settled into this routine. I save all of our highest value treats for testing and injection time and I give her a hype up parade with lots of claps as she struts into her testing room. And I’ve come to learn how she likes to be pet and sung to as I massage her ears before testing. And now unless it’s a very heavy testing day, it’s almost a nice bonding ritual for us. It’s a stressful learning process for both cat and human, but with time, it’s become a regular part of the day.
Dare I ask how Crazy Bill got his name?