Oh my, you really have your hands full!
So the vet hasn't said anything about his hind leg weakness/paralysis? Here is a very good video that shows the progress of diabetic neuropathy:
https://www.google.com/search?client=opera&q=Tootsie's+neuropathy&sourceid=opera&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8
It is very treatable, especially if it is caught early. Most people here use Zobaline, synonymous with Methylcobalamin (Methyl B12).
I'm so sorry to hear about your mega-colon kitty. But I can tell you that Hill's W/D canned food is about 25% carbohydrates, so I would think the dry must be considerably higher, which will keep your diabetic kitty's BG high. Also, for what it's worth, when my little Bengal was diagnosed with IBD, several people here told me that Hill's (which my vet had put her on) of any variety, is NOT good for kitties with diarrhea as it contributes greatly to dehydration. And I would definitely ask the vet to rule out pancreatitis, as
@SpecklesandMe suggest.
I don't understand why vets tell their clients to wait to home test until kitty is "stablized." A trip to the vet is very stressful for most cats, and in some cases "vet stress" has been known to raise a kitty's BG by 100-200 points! Home testing is not difficult, especially once you get the hang of it, is a lot less stressful on your cat, and is a lot cheaper than a trip to the vet to have BG tested! It is also pretty vital to the health of your kitty; if you don't know what the BG level is, how can you make sure you are not administering too much insulin? My cat has had several hypoglycemic episodes; if I didn't home test I could have killed him by giving too much insulin when he didn't need it, or not being aware that he was hypoglycemic. It is always best to test before you give a shot. If you know any people who are diabetic they will tell you the would never give themselves a shot with out checking their blood glucose first. Let us know when you are ready to begin home testing and anybody here can help you learn!
I don't mean to throw a lot of "scary stuff" at you, but these are some of the things you should be aware of to best treat your diabetic kitty. Also, what is his name, please? I hate to have to keep referring to him as just "kitty"!
Once again, please do keep us posted, and good luck at the vet's! Let us know what they diagnose!