Hi Michelle :YMHUG: Please, you are doing everything you can for Belle and you can deal with this. Diabetes is a very treatable disease, too many people think it is a death sentence. IT IS NOT!!! Tess is nearly 14 and was DX over a year and a half ago, she will tell you she is just fine thank you! Tess is one of those kitties that need a very little bit of insulin, but don't want to give it up entirely. I thinks she loves all the extra attention. :roll:
One of the best things you can do for Belle is to get rid of the dry food. Even if it is a lower carb food is is hard on cats because of the lack of moisture. Cats normally get most of their water from their prey. They tend to drink very little water, and dry food makes that problem worse. I think understanding food is one of the hardest parts of this whole sugar dance. You said that Belle likes Fancy Feast, go to the the
old food list , print out the list (or just those pages for foods you can find) take a highlighter and mark those varieties that are under 10% carbs, the carbs are always in the 3rd column over from the name of the food even if the header isn't visible. This will make it easy to take along when you are shopping. It will also keep you busy for a while and Belle can get her nap in. :lol:
Equally important is BG testing. By testing at home you will save a ton of money over going to the vet. Moreover cats get upset at the vet and the stress can raise their BG a lot, once you get used to testing at home you can get more accurate BGs there than at the vet. You can also see at any given time just how well Belle is doing and that will set your mind at ease.

With more accurate home tests Belle's insulin can be adjusted much more precisely too.
You are on a tight budget and there are ways to keep costs down. First call you vet and find out how much it costs for a box of syringes . You do not need to buy them from him! My (ex)vet Charged me $47 for syringes I could get for $17 online. Many of us use a site called
ADW you can get the lancets and test strips there too, even cheaper than at Walmart. Unless you spend over $100 you do have to pay shipping, but it is usually still way cheaper to order online. You just need to keep track of your supplies and plan ahead. If you don't have a credit card, maybe your dad can help you and you can repay him. If you get the Relion meter at Walmart ADW has strips that will fit it. I have to check on which ones.
I had a thought on your concern about getting the shot in. You said Belle's fur was very fluffy. Try taking a wet cotton ball and dampening the fur around the shot site. it will make it easier to part the fur and to see the ski. Then you can see the needle go in. You won't be able to
feel for insulin residue though. I always bend over and sniff the shot site afterwards and then give Tess a little kiss.

She doesn't notice because I shoot while she is busy eating. :lol: I also put a very slight sideways pressure on the needle when i withdraw it and can feel it come out. That way I know it went in.
lastly, remember the vet works for you!
- -- the vet cannot tell you that you cannot test
-- the vet cannot make you bring Belle in for a BG curve or fructosamine test
-- the vet cannot make you feed his expensive (and poor quality) prescription foods
-- the vet cannot tell you that you have to put Belle to sleep!!!
-- Belle is your cat , you decide what is best for her, the vet can advise you, but cannot make you do anything you think is not in Belle's best interest!
-- YOU CAN find a new vet if this one does not want to work with you
Oh, did you ever say where you live? City and State? There may be a member nearby who can help you get started!
Breathe! And eat some chocolate!!! You'll get through this. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: cat_pet_icon cat_pet_icon cat_pet_icon