Frank & the Tuxedo gang
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Hello everyone, my name is Frank and I have been roaming this board for the last several hours. Let me say that this is an amazing community and I am glad to be a part of it, I found this site just doing general browsing.
Before I get started, let me say that I'm a guy. I only mention that because I've seen only women on this board so I feel compelled (for some reason) to let people know, don't ask me why because I don't know.
On to my story.
I am the proud owner of three black and white tuxedo cats, I obtained these cats by taking in their young mother who had gotten pregnant (unknown to me at the time) while she was left alone outside by a neighbor. I've raised them since birth so they are family to me, they were born Nov 9, 2003 behind my couch in the living room. I have a girl named Helen a boy named Max and another boy who is nameless but was given the name Charlie by a neighbor, Charlie is the focus of this post.
Charlie bonded to me instantly and continues to be close to me to this day. Charlie is energetic, talkative and the most curious of all my cats. He's always investigating something.
Charlie has had signs that he might be diabetic for a while now but I lack the financial resources to take him to the vet. I'm not afraid to admit that I'm a poor man so I'm not able to take him to the vet. I don't want to lose Charlie or any other of my cats so I thought I'd ask for advice.
The first sign that he might be diabetic came as a kitten but I'll get to that one in a minute. Charlie has a tendency to pee a lot and drink a lot of water, this sent up red flags. My aunt even noticed this and that's unusual because she's notoriously spacey. He goes to his litter box 5 to 7 times a day I'd say, though it does vary, he does have days when it appears normal. There are times though, that he'll go to the litter box, pause and leave. He does this quite a lot actually, like he's suddenly lost the urge. The thought had occured to me that he might have a urinary tract infection but this is offset by two things. 1. He's been doing this for years, UTI's would have spread and killed him by now (I'm guessing) 2. His rear leg weakness.
That's the other sign I was referring to. He almost died on me when he was a kitten. His rear legs gave out and he got so lethargic that he stopped moving. He wouldn't eat, he had no energy to walk, he just lied there on his side. He peed and pooped on himself because he couldn't get up, if my aunt hadn't hand fed him he would have starved. Apparently, this is a major sign of diabetes in cats but I didn't know that til recently, combine that with his constant peeing and it leads me to my conclusion.
I love my cats, they keep me sane during tough times so I want to do the best I can for them but unfortunately I don't have the resources. I'm hoping the members of this board can give me advice on what I could possibly do. Charlie isn't sick presently, infact, he's sitting on my lap right now. Charlie appears to have ear mites too because he scratches his ears and they are often bloody but he only get's worse with ear mite drops.
I hope that I don't seem to be a bad parent, I'm doing my best. If anyone has any suggestions, advice etc. please let me know. Thank you for reading my post and for any input.
-Frank
Before I get started, let me say that I'm a guy. I only mention that because I've seen only women on this board so I feel compelled (for some reason) to let people know, don't ask me why because I don't know.

On to my story.
I am the proud owner of three black and white tuxedo cats, I obtained these cats by taking in their young mother who had gotten pregnant (unknown to me at the time) while she was left alone outside by a neighbor. I've raised them since birth so they are family to me, they were born Nov 9, 2003 behind my couch in the living room. I have a girl named Helen a boy named Max and another boy who is nameless but was given the name Charlie by a neighbor, Charlie is the focus of this post.
Charlie bonded to me instantly and continues to be close to me to this day. Charlie is energetic, talkative and the most curious of all my cats. He's always investigating something.
Charlie has had signs that he might be diabetic for a while now but I lack the financial resources to take him to the vet. I'm not afraid to admit that I'm a poor man so I'm not able to take him to the vet. I don't want to lose Charlie or any other of my cats so I thought I'd ask for advice.
The first sign that he might be diabetic came as a kitten but I'll get to that one in a minute. Charlie has a tendency to pee a lot and drink a lot of water, this sent up red flags. My aunt even noticed this and that's unusual because she's notoriously spacey. He goes to his litter box 5 to 7 times a day I'd say, though it does vary, he does have days when it appears normal. There are times though, that he'll go to the litter box, pause and leave. He does this quite a lot actually, like he's suddenly lost the urge. The thought had occured to me that he might have a urinary tract infection but this is offset by two things. 1. He's been doing this for years, UTI's would have spread and killed him by now (I'm guessing) 2. His rear leg weakness.
That's the other sign I was referring to. He almost died on me when he was a kitten. His rear legs gave out and he got so lethargic that he stopped moving. He wouldn't eat, he had no energy to walk, he just lied there on his side. He peed and pooped on himself because he couldn't get up, if my aunt hadn't hand fed him he would have starved. Apparently, this is a major sign of diabetes in cats but I didn't know that til recently, combine that with his constant peeing and it leads me to my conclusion.
I love my cats, they keep me sane during tough times so I want to do the best I can for them but unfortunately I don't have the resources. I'm hoping the members of this board can give me advice on what I could possibly do. Charlie isn't sick presently, infact, he's sitting on my lap right now. Charlie appears to have ear mites too because he scratches his ears and they are often bloody but he only get's worse with ear mite drops.
I hope that I don't seem to be a bad parent, I'm doing my best. If anyone has any suggestions, advice etc. please let me know. Thank you for reading my post and for any input.
-Frank