I feel like a failure

Fluffykittycat

Member Since 2019
My beautiful Russian Blue has diabetes and we were trying to control it with diet. That dream stopped today. Our vet introduced us to insulin and I practiced under his guidance until my cat would no longer tolerate it.
Unfortunately, when it came time to give the first insulin shot she wouldn’t cooperate at all. I failed and have to wait until tomorrow to try again. I’m just not sure how much or if any insulin was administered via a pen. My question is how do I and my cat make it through the first week of hopefully successful insulin injections while also living hours away from the nearest vet?
 
You are not a failure, not anything like! This all takes practice, patience and time. We call effective diabetes treatment "a marathon not a sprint" for good reason. :) Not many of us were whiz bangers when we began, not all of are whiz bangers now!
You are going to survive and learn and may stumble a few times. But keep trying and it will happen.

We would like to know more about your kitty, please. Then we can begin providing some information about the injections issue, among other things.
Please take a few minutes and create a signature, then your cat's information will be displayed with each of your posts.
Setting up your signature (light grey text under a post). Here's how:
click on your name in the upper right corner of this page
click on "signature" in the menu that drops down
type the following in the box that opens: kitty's name/age/date of diabetes diagnosis/insulin you're using and dosage amount /glucose meter you're using/what (s)he eats/any other meds or health issues (s)he has. You can add your name, and a geographic location (sometimes the time zone matters) Be sure to SAVE when you are finished.

We will do our best to provide you with good information and lots of support while you learn the "sugar dance". :)
 
You are not a failure! It is not easy to give the shots at first. You will get better at it. Your kitty will get used to it. You gave what is called a “fur shot”. This happens to even the most experienced caregivers from time to time. You did the right thing by not trying again. You could have got some insulin in and had you tried again you could have given too much. Many of us give our kitties their shots while they’re eating. They are distracted with their food and it can make it easier. Try again in the morning and let us know how it goes. There are lots of knowledgeable experienced people here to help.
 
You are not a failure at all!!!
The crash course in feline diabetes 101 is scary but we all get it eventually. The light comes on and we dance as it finally makes sense.
lol. So dont worry. You will get it. There is alot of help here to guide you.
Many of us have videos of how we test & inject. Watch some & you will see all the tips to help. You will find one that helps you with your kitty.
 
My beautiful Russian Blue has diabetes and we were trying to control it with diet. That dream stopped today. Our vet introduced us to insulin and I practiced under his guidance until my cat would no longer tolerate it.
Unfortunately, when it came time to give the first insulin shot she wouldn’t cooperate at all. I failed and have to wait until tomorrow to try again. I’m just not sure how much or if any insulin was administered via a pen. My question is how do I and my cat make it through the first week of hopefully successful insulin injections while also living hours away from the nearest vet?
The first couple weeks are really hard. Get calm before you try again....they will pick up on your emotions. You can do this!!!!
 
The beginning of the feline diabetes (FD) learning curve is totally overwhelming. So, take a deep breath and be assured that what you're experiencing is exactly right! If it's any consolation at all, my kitty was in the kitty ICU when she was diagnosed. The vet (not my regular vet) never showed me how to give an injection. (I do medical speak very well.) I learned how to give a cat an injection by watching YouTube. At least your vet showed you what to do!!

I'd encourage you to get a prescription for syringes. The pens do no dispense insulin in less than 1.0u amounts. You'll want to use a syringe so you can dose in smaller increments. In most places in the US, you need a prescription for syringes. You'll want to get U-100 3/10cc syringes with half unit markings.

 
It takes time to get used to all those new things and at the beginning it is sooo overwhelming.:arghh: I remember when I started, I was really discouraged and someone told me "it's gonna be like brushing your teeth; just a little something you add to your daily routine"! Didn't believe her at all, but she was right. Don't expect to succeed right away and at every shot! The most important thing is that you're trying and you will get all the help needed on this Forum! Never be afraid to post and ask questions!!
Be patient! You and your kitty will get used to this new routine and you'll be proud of yourself when he/she starts feeling better! :bighug::cat::bighug:
 
Hello and welcome to the forum!

First and foremost everyone who comes here - the first time - you're filled with apprehension, self-doubt and that sick feeling from finding out your beloved pet has diabetes!

As for your vet showing you the ropes - it's all well and good if you can do that - many of us couldn't/wouldn't. My vet told me 'if it were my cat I'd put her down' - so obviously he wasn't going to help me in any way! He did after I set up an appointment to 'talk' - give me a prescription for Novalin Insulin, 2 units a day and a recommendation for syringes. That's it. No mention of testing her before giving insulin or anything else along those lines. He DID however tell me that he had one patient who he gave the insulin/directions, etc. to and they came home and found their cat dead - really? I was terrified at that point!! OMG am I going to kill my cat because of my stupidity? How could that have happened? :blackeye:

Well after reading this forum, the stickies, and absorbing the information HERE, I now know why that happened. It was because the vet gave them an Rx for Novalin and the same instructions that he'd given me - they'd gone home and without testing their cat - gave her 2 units of insulin and then LEFT for the day. Their cat died of an insulin overdose since they had no clue what her blood glucose was before/after giving the insulin; no idea what they'd been feeding it, etc. :mad::mad::mad:

So you see the morale of the story is INFORMATION will help you to take care of your cat. There's a ton of it here. Sometimes I felt like I was trying to drink water from a firehose - and I'd NEVER get all of this figured out!:rolleyes: I asked a lot of questions and reeled sometimes at the responses - they wanted me to do WHAT? TEST how often? OMG!! :eek::eek: I already had a full plate with working full time, a home, a husband and the usual responsibilities of life - how in the name of god was I going to drop everything multiple times a day and test this cat??? And let me tell you, every time was a horror-show. It was time-consuming, nerve wracking and awful. Trying to wrestle Luci into position took TWO of us! One to hold her down and the other to do the poking and jabbing and the trying to get the blood on that darn little stick - the whole thing was unfamiliar and I mumbled to myself - I see why that vet said what he said...I'm not sure I can do this - I felt like such a failure.:banghead: I'd end up a sweaty exhausted mess with every attempt...but I persisted...over time it became easier...it took several weeks, maybe a month or so before Luci caught on to what was going on - every time she was held on the testing towel - she'd get a treat - always a spoonful of Fancy Feast or a freeze dried piece of salmon or chicken! Ah ha she says...they call me for this business and I get food! She started showing up at testing time and sitting in front of us...by golly this girl was catching on!:eek: Fast forward to now - she jumps up on the counter where I test her BEFORE it's time - and waits for me. When I unfold her towel she starts purring!!! Yes, this is my cat!!! UnBELIEVABLE! I actually took pictures of her laying on the testing towel to share with this group - how far had Luci come in such a short time...she actually really likes the antibiotic ointment - something about the smell of it - to her - must be wonderful. I don't smell anything at all...she even purrs after she's eaten her meals and I pick her up to give her the shot - quick poke in the scruff - and she's off with no mind to it whatsoever - as if nothing has happened at all...

So anyway...that's our story...please rest assured - if you listen to the folks on this board you too can become a great success story - help your cat and then help others if you're of a mind to do so. There are many here who've taken their cats right to remission - I'm not one of them - Luci has been reluctant to go that far - but she's alive, healthy and full of spunk. And I think often of that vet and his words - if I'd listened to him I would have grieved my girl over a year ago - so instead I give her some of my time, and yes some money too, but after all she's a member of our family and she deserves whatever it takes to help her live a long, healthy and happy life.

Wishing you the best on the beginning of your journey - and for you I hope it's a short one.:D

Read the stickies, get your Spreadsheet working (there is help for all of that here, just ask) and tomorrow when you post you can put the date, your cats name, and her AMPS (her blood glucose number in the morning before you give her first dose of insulin)...Lantus?

You may also want to add all that information to your SS or your signature so that everyone will know your name, your kitties name; date of diagnosis; type of food; testing meter type; which protocol you're following; etc. You can look at the other threads to see how it's typically done. You can also look at others peoples condos (the thread for the day and all the responses) and their SS's to see how their kitties are doing and the kinds of information we all share there. I found that tremendously helpful.

I'll look for your post tomorrow :) Again - welcome to the best forum on the internet for helping your kitty with FD. :bighug:
 
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You can give insulin on different places on their body I shoot on my kitties flank or side.
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In the beginning I tried to give insulin in his scruff but did a fur shot I switched to his side or flank & have never given a fur shot again.

Your kitty is Fluffy? What do we call you?
 
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