Diane came on here looking for a handout, plain and simple. Not looking for any information like she later backpedaled and claimed to, but a handout. The mention of foodstamps made that very clear (most people genuinely in that situation would NOT throw it out there like that). All that aside, her original post was not rude by any means.
Hillary came on and rightfully asked some questions. Nobody will just give a handout without knowing a bit more about the person and information. And, given that Diane just registered today for that sole purpose, people definitely have the right to ask. You come out of the blue looking for a handout, expect questions. Nothing rude in that post.
Third post: This is where I thought the rudeness began a little.
"I am not looking for advice on her diet."
"I know how if that is what you are talking about - I'd like to know what the reasoning behind this is when I already stated she is in good control as well as I am just trying to find some help in getting her insulin right now since I am between jobs and grant money... "
Although this wasn't outright rude, it was a little snippy. I guess she didn't appreciate Hillary asking her any questions. Just wanted someone to jump up and say "here, take one of my vials!" without any questions at all.
If Diane really is a nurse, then she KNOWS that you don't just give any medication (behind or over-the-counter) without a complete and thorough history and data. The people on here asking for it, are doing their due diligence, just like any health professional should (and they are not the health professionals here). Instead, since she didn't get what she wanted for nothing (nothing being a little effort on her part) she got pissed and left.
In summary, all Diane had to do was read the advice (taking it or leaving it) and make some gesture towards starting a spreadsheet again, and she probably would have gotten her handout. And all that aside, if I lived in her area, sure, I'd meet up with her and bring her a vial, even now. People make mistakes. Not sure how much it costs in the US, but it's $20 for a 3ml cartridge here, so if someone nearby really desperately needs one, just let me know. I'll throw in some other supplies, too.
And now to my impressions of the board here in general, being new. I don't know the political background, but I don't get that "take my advice or go away" vibe. I honestly don't agree with everything everyone has told me yet either, but I listen to the advice without arguing. My cats still have their bowl of DM sitting behind the wet food bowl. I give them wet food whenever one of them asks, but the DM is there for when I'm not around to give them wet food. Since I paid big bucks for that bag, you bet your a** I'm going to use it

That said, I don't plan on buying another bag. But yes, sometimes the new ones among us need some convincing, but whether we want the advice or not, we should just graciously listen to it. The intentions are all good.
/end s**t disturber mode
