Hi Sharon, so sweet of you to ask about her.
Bonbon doesn't 'appear' to be any worse so far, and seems comfortable.
Thanks to cerenia and mirtazapine she is eating a little better (but still not great).
My attempts to give her fluids are very 'hit and miss', literally! While I can get the needle into her I'm having trouble finding 'pockets' to get the fluids into. The vet has said that she's not the easiest cat as she seems to have some adhesions (?) under the skin. But we keep trying... I did give her a day off from me attempting to do it, and got a vet nurse to come to the house to do it yesterday. It was rather nice, because I had a day of just being able to be Bonbon's friend, and a break from looking for a good opportunity to stick a needle in her...
(It's funny, I can still remember thinking that insulin shots were hard, haha!)
We're still waiting for the results of the urine culture, and that's expected on Monday.
The vet is now leaning more toward thinking this is an acute kidney injury. But the cause remains a mystery...
It's been really difficult to know what to do because the prognosis was so poor initially.
The vet suggested 3 options. The first was to hospitalise her for 3 - 4 days, but with no way of knowing if this would improve the outcome at all.
The second was to do subQ's at home, and give meds to help nausea, stimulate appetite, and also address any pain, etc; so as to improve the quality of the life she had.
The third was to do neither of the above and just wait, spending time with her, and euthanizing her when the time came.
Given the extremely poor prognosis I opted
not to hospitalize. She'd spent two and a half months in a cage at the rescue shelter, and during that time had two short stays at the vet as well. It was a stressful time for her.
She's now been here two months, and has recently started to seem really settled and happy here. And if her life is going to be short then it seems to me that the life that remains to her should be as settled and happy as possible. ...I'm
endlessly second-guessing myself though about whether I've made the right choice...
The vet is happy for me to manage Bonbon's diabetes as seems appropriate. My strategy at the moment is just to try to keep her below the renal threshold (which she mostly is) without risking her dropping too low. I'm dosing conservatively because I know her response to the insulin may change as her kidneys worsen.
So, that's where we are...
I have finally stopped crying (at least for the time being). In the days and nights following the diagnosis I just cried and cried; and to an almost embarrassing degree for a woman of my advanced years....

...It's been a very long time since anything affected me this much...
Eliz