I found these tips posted by Ry and Scooter in another condo. We use 28 guage lancets but we've been at this for a while. Higher numbers are smaller sizes. You might want to try a bigger lancet until it gets easier. We freehand the poke too. I don't like those lancing devices. There best spot is toward the tip of the ear. (corrected)
Liz
Here are a few more tips for being successful in testing.
1. Use a larger sized lancet, 25-28 gauge is good. Sometimes they are marked for alternate site testing.
2. Freehand the lancet instead of using the device. Hold the lancet between your fingers, beveled side up, at a 45 degree angle, and poke the edge of the ear quickly.
3. Use a little dab of Polysporin ointment or Vaseline on the ear and wipe it off right before testing to help the blood bead up better and not get soaked into the hair.
4. Use a flashlight behind the ear to help see where the vein is better. You are not aiming at the vein though - you're aiming at the sweet spot between the vein and the edge of the ear.
5. If he has dark hair, try testing on the inside edge of the ear.
6. Along with the rice sock try massaging the ear also. After poking, stroke the ear towards where the poke hole is to help it bead up.
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