Hi, is your name Desie? My name is Shelly, and my kitty's name is Jersey. Welcome to FDMB! We really struggled when we first started home testing. Despite all of the tips people gave us, we just couldn't seem to get the hang of ear testing. In desperation, we tried the paw one day and found that it was much easier for us. We paw tested from then on. Even though it's not the ideal testing method, it worked for us. If paw testing is going to work for you, it's okay to use it!
Here is what we did:
First, we heated a rice-filled sock in the microwave. We just heated it for 15 to 20 seconds - not long, just long enough to be warm. We held that on Jersey's paw for about 15 to 20 seconds, too. Again, we didn't want to get her paw hot; we just wanted to warm it. The heat was key for us. If her paw was cold, we found that we struggled to get blood. After we warmed her paw, we put just a tiny dab of Neosporin pain relief ointment on her paw. This was another key for us. The Neosporin helped the blood well up so we could get a good reading. (Don't put too much on; you don't want it to interfere with the reading.) Once we poked the pad, we had to gently squeeze it to get the blood to come up. Sometimes the blood would immediately come up. Sometimes, it would take a few seconds. (There were some occasions where I even had to poke again because I couldn't get any blood up.) Once we got the sample, I applied pressure to the site with a cotton ball and then followed it with another small dab of Neosporin ointment.
We used the bigger lancets (26 gauge) when we first started out. As we got better at testing, we were able to use smaller lancets on shallower settings.
I hope some of this helps. Hang in there - it really does get easier!
Shelly