Welcome Lillie! I'm pretty new also and don't have much knowledge yet but I can tell you sleeping is normal, mine tends to sleep more the higher his BG, also you'll notice more and more things now that you're on hyper alert and vigilant, you pay more attention to things you might have missed before.
Home testing is not bad for me anymore, I started with the "I know what I'm doing attitude" and took charge (even though it scared me and I wasn't always successful...) and now its just another part of the routine. I think confidence has a lot of influence, for example my mother always starts the BG test with a high level of stress and he senses it. But with me, he lets me do my job, and sometimes doesn't even flinch. The more you do it, the better the ear bleeds. I have a preferred ear as it seems to bleed better than the other.
Insulin shots are now also part of the normal routine and he knows it helps him feel better so he lets me do it. You're both learning and this forum is honestly the best thing ever! I don't have much time to spend here but when I do, I always learn lots!!!!