Oooo! Ferals are some aggravating fun! In fact, when I went to give Mikey his shot this morning, he yelped as if I'd stabbed him when I hadn't even inserted the needle yet! Whenever he does that, I simply roll my eyes :roll: and tell him to stop being so melodramatic. :lol:
The best bit of advice I can give you is to be flexible and take your time. Part-ferals react much more to your emotions and they pick up on stress even when you might not even realize you're stressed. As Nikki's Mom said, it helps to break the process down into individual steps and focus only on each step instead of the overall goal. I wrote
this up for another new member and you might find it helpful. It's about taking your time. For me, the actual pre-shot test takes about 15 seconds (mostly because I'm waiting on the glucometer to be ready) and about 3 seconds to shoot. The entire process, however, takes me about a half hour with Michelangelo (and that's after "practicing" at this for the last 7 1/2 months!).
Figuring out his wants and peculiarities will also help you go a long way. Mikey only likes to be given his shot on his right side. He prefers that I announce when I'm going to give him his shot. He sometimes needs to run off some energy before I give him his shot. You have to get really in tune with your cat and be willing to chase him around the house for 15 minutes in a game of tag till he settles in or use some cat toys to play with him and get his attention or bribe him with treats or a little bit of food first.
Basically, give in to their every whim. Cats don't have many needs and what they do want or need is often simple for us to fulfill. You can't "spoil" a cat because it's not like it's going to ruin them when they grow up (into humans?? :lol: ). So, as long as you remind yourself that he's not being "unreasonable" because he wants to play first or whatever; he's simply being a cat and it won't inconvenience you to play with him for 15 minutes if it makes shot time and test time much more agreeable for both of you.
I have plenty more suggestions, so feel free to let me know anything specifically that is causing you grief or if you need any other ideas.
And welcome to the board! :YMHUG: