(God help me, I'm going to rock the boat...sigh...)
Victoria & Sundance said:
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I don't know why there is so much worry about this... When I came to the forum four years ago it was clear who had knowledge, what their limits were and what information I should consider. Since that time, we have taken almost all the responsibility AWAY from the caregiver... they can now get advice for each and every dose, they don't even have to weigh the information because we have ranked the advice givers... how are they to learn and pay forward if they don't take responsibility for what they are absorbing from the net?
Please don't sell me, and others, short. We are learning as fast and as much as we can;
we are the ones putting the needle in our cats' bodies, and
we're the ones trying to get blood out of an ear that just doesn't want to bleed.
We're the ones watching the poop and pee habits, and trying to figure out if a semisolid poop means something or not. It's fully our responsibility. If we didn't want to take that responsibility, not a single one of us here would be posting. We'd've put the cats down, or given them up. I take full, complete responsibility for what I put into my cat; how I put it in there, and what it can do if I don't get it right. I do. You don't. The LLC doesn't. I do. The insulin is in my fridge, the syringes in my cupboard, and the test meter and strips on my counter. So please don't see me short; and don't sell others short, either.
I don't ask for advice for every dose. I don't see anyone who does. I see people saying "oh geez, I don't know what to do with this (high)(low) number...what does the experience of this board think? Do I consider how long a person has dealt with a particular insulin to be an important piece? Absolutely. As we've all seen, vets often have no idea how to treat this disease. So learning at the knees of others who have had not just their own success but have contributed mightily to others success, in a medium which is often a difficult one to communicate accurately in, is something which is very, very valuable.
And bear in mind that to weigh information given one must have a secure base of knowledge to judge from. You can't ask a child who loves chocolate if that's a good diet; he's going to say yes. Once he's grown (experienced) a bit more, he may change his answer...because he now has a base from which to accurately assess and judge the situation.
So where does that secure base of knowledge come from? For me, it has not come from the sources I expected - not one vet understands this like I do that I've spoken with. As a student RN, it behooves me to question and assess and dig, and build my base from where I stand. But I have a headstart...this isn't blindsiding me. And did you know that at my hospital, people make more than $250K a year as - get this - a diabetic educator? The Doctors refer the patients to the DE, and the DE may indeed have no additional title other than RN. But they're the ones doing the education...and doing it well. In other words, they're narrow-field specialists, and that's all they do...educate people. And you know what? They get calls at all hours, for those folks who are new and wondering what a bs of 150 means to them, and how to deal with it.
Compare that to folks (like me) who got a dx of diabetes, handed a vial of insulin, and set out on my own merry way to figure this out. I've explained my experience with vets in a previous post, and won't recount again here. But I have to say, the enormity of my relief was incredible when I found this site...and I've been happy with each and every person's post to each and every one of my posts...be they asking for "advice" or not...
Vic, I'm sorry I'm ranting. But I want you to clearly understand that in no way, shape or form have I not accepted responsibility for my cat's illness. She is mine, and I am hers, and I am utterly, completely responsible for everything I do, feed, inject or test with that cat. If what you're concerned about is that I'll never pay it forward, or not ever become independent, rest assured...I already have. There are two folks who I taught how to test and inject Esse while I was on vacation...and I came home and Esse was just fine. I will contribute to other folks' questions as I gain more experience (expand my knowledge base), but until then, the LL Angels are indeed just that - Angels.
And to my Angels - please do not let this stop you from helping us. We need it. We want it. We come here for it. You spend a lot of time helping folks like me, and someday, having learned from you, I will pay it forward too. Until then, just know that I very, very, very much appreciate everything you have done for me...and you are indeed my Angels.
I'll shut up now. I just didn't want anyone to think that by asking for help it meant that I, or anyone, is a weak sister. All it means is that we're new. We're learning as fast as we can, but we're also new. And there's nothing wrong with being new.
Best-
Michele and Esse