GA Darcy 6/26 The day my heart was ripped out

Suzanne & Darcy said:
Oh Katherine, thank you!!! I do love him. I don’t have words right now to express everything… I will be watching out over you and Ruby and Olive — and Frank, too, although I think you have him covered :) THANK YOU!
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My little family sends you so much strength and love, Suzanne. Take care of yourself and your broken heart. We'll be here still whenever you need us. :bighug:
 
(((Suzanne))) I am so sorry for your loss :bighug:

I am at a loss for words. Please know that you did everything, including knowing it was time to grant Mr. Darcy his wings cat_wings>o

Fly free little one.

Thinking of you and your family :bighug:
 
Dearest Suzanne,
I hope you feel Darcy visit you in spirit . . . and know how grateful he is for your tremendous love and extensive care. We never know when these little miracles happen, but they do in their own time. God promises us heaven is better than we are capable of understanding. That belief alone helps me know All will be ok -- our beloveds have to be with us in the future.
Well done, mom . . . from Darcy. I seem to remember an evolution from Darcy to Mr. Darcy. Makes me smile (even if I am imagining the change). I pet sit a kitty that could be Darcy's ginger twin. Just saw him this morning - his name is Beverly;) The most loving, tender cat I remember ever knowing. The love we shared this morning . . . I pretended I was getting to love on Darcy.
Also, I am reminded of what my vet said when I showed him Tina's daily schedule . . . instead of crazy, he used "dedicated". You, Suzanne, deserve the title of Dedicated.
Much love from my house to yours. Keep your eyes and heart open for little blessings all around.

Play, dance, run, visit all our beloved GA kitties, and wait very patiently for your earth mama to visit you, cat_wings>oMr. Darcycat_wings>o
Your wings were so bravely earned, darling.
 
Tina Marie and Jan said:
Dearest Suzanne,
God promises us heaven is better than we are capable of understanding. That belief alone helps me know All will be ok -- our beloveds have to be with us in the future.

I agree. Thank you!

Well done, mom . . . from Darcy. I seem to remember an evolution from Darcy to Mr. Darcy. Makes me smile (even if I am imagining the change).

I think the Mr. Darcy came about because he was named after Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice. At some of the vets... they kept calling him a her... which he did not like... so we added the Mr! That is so sweet about Beverly. Glad you got to share some love!

Thank you SO much for your kind and thoughtful words. You have made me feel like I am not alone.
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Suzanne & Darcy said:
Thank you! I can't help thinking of what we did wrong... but the cards were stacked against him.
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Suzanne, you did everything 100%. If you have to see all you did, look at your posts, the vet visits every day. His pain. I am sure everyone did everything they could. You need to try and remember all the wonderful times, the joy you gave each other, the unconditional love you shared with Mr Darcy. His life on earth was short but filled with so much happiness, caring, protection. Let the blaming go, it has no place in your beautiful journey of life with Darcy. The Cat Gods wanted to bring Darcy home to be out of pain, play again, fly free with all the others that have crossed the bridge:rb_icon:
 
Oh, Suzanne. I am so, so sorry to hear this news. I was away for 3 days, and thus not on the board, but while I was gone, I thought to myself, "I hope I don't return home to any bad news about Mr. Darcy".

You were the MOST amazing mom to Darcy. You did everything you could and more, and I can only echo everyone's sentiments here. And in spite of everything you were going through with Mr. Darcy, you always found time to check in on others and offer support and compassion. It was always so heartwarming.

My heart truly breaks for you. Beautiful Mr. Darcy with always be with you, loving and watching over you as you always loved and watched over him.

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I am so sorry for you and for your families loss Suzanne. Darcy is a very special soul and you are an equally special Mom for everything that you did to put up the ultimate fight with him and for him the way that you did. You never surrendered and even at the end of the fight, you made sure that he was granted peace. I hope with time, you find that same peace….Darcy would want that for you as much as you wanted it so badly for him :rb_icon:.
 
I am so very sorry for your loss Suzanne, you went above and beyond making sure Darcy got the best care. The bond you shared was so evident, he will be truely missed. Acomegly is a horrible disease, my heart aches for you.

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Suzanne, I'm so so sorry. Mr Darcy was so lucky to have you as his mama and he will always be your special boy.

We lost Mo last month and knowing that he is no longer suffering brings me so much comfort, but I don't miss him so so much. You're not alone :bighug:
 
Hi Suzanne. Just want you to know we are here for you, grieving with you, shedding tears with you. It’s still so hard to wrap my head around it. Darcy is free of suffering and pain and having the best time with his old and new friends on the other side of the :rb_icon:bridge. Sending prayers and love to a remarkable Darcy mom. Keep remembering you gave 100% of your heart and soul.
 
katy and mo (GA) said:
Suzanne, I'm so so sorry. Mr Darcy was so lucky to have you as his mama and he will always be your special boy.

We lost Mo last month and knowing that he is no longer suffering brings me so much comfort, but I don't miss him so so much. You're not alone :bighug:
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I know that you understand. Thank you so much for writing me!!
 
Tomlin said:
I am so sorry for you and for your families loss Suzanne. Darcy is a very special soul and you are an equally special Mom for everything that you did to put up the ultimate fight with him and for him the way that you did. You never surrendered and even at the end of the fight, you made sure that he was granted peace. I hope with time, you find that same peace….Darcy would want that for you as much as you wanted it so badly for him :rb_icon:.
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Thank you so much, Amy. You always helped me with information to aid me in the fight. You are amazing!
 
Purrberry said:
Oh, Suzanne. I am so, so sorry to hear this news. I was away for 3 days, and thus not on the board, but while I was gone, I thought to myself, "I hope I don't return home to any bad news about Mr. Darcy".

You were the MOST amazing mom to Darcy. You did everything you could and more, and I can only echo everyone's sentiments here. And in spite of everything you were going through with Mr. Darcy, you always found time to check in on others and offer support and compassion. It was always so heartwarming.

My heart truly breaks for you. Beautiful Mr. Darcy with always be with you, loving and watching over you as you always loved and watched over him.

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Kathleen, that’s so kind of you to think of us. I thought of you being away at the wedding. Thank you for your kind words! They mean so much to me.
 
Oh, Suzanne I just saw this - I’m sooo sorry! Huge hug to you. I’m terrible at words when it comes to big emotions like this, so I’ll just give you some more hugs. He was lucky to have you and i know you did everything you could until the very end.
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Jay Dee said:
Oh, Suzanne I just saw this - I’m sooo sorry! Huge hug to you. I’m terrible at words when it comes to big emotions like this, so I’ll just give you some more hugs. He was lucky to have you and i know you did everything you could until the very end.
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Thanks so much, Jill. I appreciate your kind words.
 
(((Suzanne)))

I am deeply sorry for your loss and heartbreak. It is such a gift to have our beloved kitties knowing our hearts will one day be shattered. Darcy could not have a better Mom with more love for him.
I wish you peace knowing you gave him every piece of your heart and he knew it.

Gentle journey, Darcy.
 
Marje and Gracie said:
(((Suzanne)))

I am deeply sorry for your loss and heartbreak. It is such a gift to have our beloved kitties knowing our hearts will one day be shattered. Darcy could not have a better Mom with more love for him.
I wish you peace knowing you gave him every piece of your heart and he knew it.

Gentle journey, Darcy.
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Thank you, Marj. I am grateful for the ten years that I got to spend with him.
 
Know that you're not alone Suzanne. Safe journey Darcy. :bighug:

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I'm so very sorry to read this news...you were a wonderful mama to Darcy and he was blessed to have found you to love and care for him.

Fly free sweet Darcy...cat_wings>o
 
Oh no (((Suzanne))), I'm so heartbroken for you, I went looking for a post since I've not been on :(. Sending :bighug::bighug:, you did so much for Mr. Darcy, and I loved seeing the pics that you shared. Hoping you find comfort in the fond memories you have of your sweet, handsome boy.
 
Thanks so much, Christie! I appreciate your writing. I have been feeling really numb. I think I must be depressed because this isn’t at all like me. Anyway, thanks again. He was my very special boy and I would have done anything to save him but it didn’t work out.
 
Suzanne & Darcy said:
Thanks so much, Christie! I appreciate your writing. I have been feeling really numb. I think I must be depressed because this isn’t at all like me. Anyway, thanks again. He was my very special boy and I would have done anything to save him but it didn’t work out.
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Hi Suzanne, sorry I was in such a yucky/tired mood last night. We actually had company, a very rare thing, I got to meet my new great niece. I totally understand depression, I’ve been dealing with it for awhile. Certainly not for the same reasons. Losing something precious plus all the constant vet visits to get help, you had to of been operating on air, you tried your very best and you have to be emotionally exhausted, hence depression sets it. I know it took me some time with our Funny Face, it’s been over two years and I can still envision her around the house. I signed her up on the rainbow bridge and we light a candle for her every Monday night at 7pm along with thousands of others. This is the link. You can add Darcy
https://petloss.us14.list-manage.co...d371c23b86ee1fa38a&id=19b2b7a2b8&e=98a80f015c

Have a good day Suzanne. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Our Dolly Girl said:
Hi Suzanne, sorry I was in such a yucky/tired mood last night. We actually had company, a very rare thing, I got to meet my new great niece. I totally understand depression, I’ve been dealing with it for awhile. Certainly not for the same reasons. Losing something precious plus all the constant vet visits to get help, you had to of been operating on air, you tried your very best and you have to be emotionally exhausted, hence depression sets it. I know it took me some time with our Funny Face, it’s been over two years and I can still envision her around the house. I signed her up on the rainbow bridge and we light a candle for her every Monday night at 7pm along with thousands of others. This is the link. You can add Darcy
https://petloss.us14.list-manage.co...d371c23b86ee1fa38a&id=19b2b7a2b8&e=98a80f015c

Have a good day Suzanne. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
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Thank you, Adrienne! That is beautiful!
 
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