Valerie Morris
Member Since 2015
Hello!
My name is Valerie and I am mom to a 13 year old Maine Coon (I think) rescue named Chaos. He is truly the love of my life (sorry husband and other 4 cats!) I wanted a cat my entire childhood, but my parents wouldn't allow one. As soon as I got my first apartment the summer before my third year of college, I jumped at the chance to FINALLY get a kitty! He was so tiny that I could hold him with one hand, and he would eventually grow into a pretty huge cat- 18 lbs. Unfortunately, even though he wasn't grossly overweight, I know this contributed to his diagnosis of diabetes 3.5 weeks ago. Since then, I have been dedicating every ounce of energy I have to treating him. I have nightmares about him dying and frequently wake up in the middle of the night to check on him (fortunately, he sleeps right next to me.)
I noticed the changes in him about a year ago. He had been losing weight for a while and was feeling bony (especially his spine.) By January, he was down to 12 lbs. I took him to the vet insisting that something wasn't right, but they did a bunch of tests for diabetes, hyperthyroid, etc. and told me that he was fine. Deep down I knew that he wasn't, but I'm not the doctor, so I waited. About a month ago, he tried to jump onto the bed from the pet stairs (it's not a huge leap!) and failed and slid down to the floor. Combined with how he felt, I knew something was VERY wrong. I weighed him on my scale and found that he was down to 10.5 lbs. (he ended up 11 at the doc the next day) and FREAKED OUT. He went straight back to the vet, where he actually lay in my arms while we waited for the doc. This is not a cat who ever sat still when there was exploring to do! Fortunately (I guess?) the doc found the diabetes this time, but it sounds like she only did a simple glucose test- not fructosamine or whatever other in depth tests there are. She sent us on our way with an order for Lantus insulin- 2 units per day, which I immediately thought was weird to just inject without testing (I have diabetic friends and they would never do that!) So I only gave him 1 unit and ordered a glucose meter. Boy am I glad I did! The vet hadn't warned me that switching him to canned food (Friskies and Fancy Feast classic pates only- he won't touch Merrick, Evo, or any of the higher end stuff) would cause a change, and did it ever! We had a Karo emergency within the first few days. 1/2 unit was too much sometimes, and now he can't even have 1/4 of a unit consistently without going hypo (which I'm sure isn't being helped by the fact that he isn't eating much lately, despite being spoon fed at 6 AM if that's what it takes!)
I took the vet his glucose log (which is VERY detailed because I'm a little insane) yesterday and she instructed me to take him off the insulin and only test him every month. I am so confused at this point. My vet makes me feel like I am a helicopter cat parent for testing him often and being so worried about his levels. She also keeps pushing the "prescription diet," including the dry food (even though she told me that the recommendation for carbs is <7% in that same conversation... it makes me wonder if she knows about nutrition or just pushes the prescription diet because it's easy/profitable. I can't afford to feed all 5 of my cats the prescription canned food, even if I wanted to!) I am here in hopes that you will help me determine if I am crazy or if I need a new vet, and, if so, find some recommendations.
Please know that this site and board have been INDISPENSABLE during this process. Although I haven't posted, I have been lurking and reading, and you have all helped me so much already. So if you are still reading by now, thank you all so much. You are likely helping so many more people than those who post!
-Valerie
3 of the 5:
Bruce Wayne - 5 years old, found as a stray, HATES canned food and is super annoying about the new feeding schedule <3 The only one who hasn't transitioned to canned yet.
Chaos - 13 years old, my baby, adopted from a high kill shelter as a kitten
Apollo - 8 year old flame point Siamese rescue, VERY finicky about food but is obviously not starving!
My name is Valerie and I am mom to a 13 year old Maine Coon (I think) rescue named Chaos. He is truly the love of my life (sorry husband and other 4 cats!) I wanted a cat my entire childhood, but my parents wouldn't allow one. As soon as I got my first apartment the summer before my third year of college, I jumped at the chance to FINALLY get a kitty! He was so tiny that I could hold him with one hand, and he would eventually grow into a pretty huge cat- 18 lbs. Unfortunately, even though he wasn't grossly overweight, I know this contributed to his diagnosis of diabetes 3.5 weeks ago. Since then, I have been dedicating every ounce of energy I have to treating him. I have nightmares about him dying and frequently wake up in the middle of the night to check on him (fortunately, he sleeps right next to me.)
I noticed the changes in him about a year ago. He had been losing weight for a while and was feeling bony (especially his spine.) By January, he was down to 12 lbs. I took him to the vet insisting that something wasn't right, but they did a bunch of tests for diabetes, hyperthyroid, etc. and told me that he was fine. Deep down I knew that he wasn't, but I'm not the doctor, so I waited. About a month ago, he tried to jump onto the bed from the pet stairs (it's not a huge leap!) and failed and slid down to the floor. Combined with how he felt, I knew something was VERY wrong. I weighed him on my scale and found that he was down to 10.5 lbs. (he ended up 11 at the doc the next day) and FREAKED OUT. He went straight back to the vet, where he actually lay in my arms while we waited for the doc. This is not a cat who ever sat still when there was exploring to do! Fortunately (I guess?) the doc found the diabetes this time, but it sounds like she only did a simple glucose test- not fructosamine or whatever other in depth tests there are. She sent us on our way with an order for Lantus insulin- 2 units per day, which I immediately thought was weird to just inject without testing (I have diabetic friends and they would never do that!) So I only gave him 1 unit and ordered a glucose meter. Boy am I glad I did! The vet hadn't warned me that switching him to canned food (Friskies and Fancy Feast classic pates only- he won't touch Merrick, Evo, or any of the higher end stuff) would cause a change, and did it ever! We had a Karo emergency within the first few days. 1/2 unit was too much sometimes, and now he can't even have 1/4 of a unit consistently without going hypo (which I'm sure isn't being helped by the fact that he isn't eating much lately, despite being spoon fed at 6 AM if that's what it takes!)
I took the vet his glucose log (which is VERY detailed because I'm a little insane) yesterday and she instructed me to take him off the insulin and only test him every month. I am so confused at this point. My vet makes me feel like I am a helicopter cat parent for testing him often and being so worried about his levels. She also keeps pushing the "prescription diet," including the dry food (even though she told me that the recommendation for carbs is <7% in that same conversation... it makes me wonder if she knows about nutrition or just pushes the prescription diet because it's easy/profitable. I can't afford to feed all 5 of my cats the prescription canned food, even if I wanted to!) I am here in hopes that you will help me determine if I am crazy or if I need a new vet, and, if so, find some recommendations.
Please know that this site and board have been INDISPENSABLE during this process. Although I haven't posted, I have been lurking and reading, and you have all helped me so much already. So if you are still reading by now, thank you all so much. You are likely helping so many more people than those who post!
-Valerie
3 of the 5:
Bruce Wayne - 5 years old, found as a stray, HATES canned food and is super annoying about the new feeding schedule <3 The only one who hasn't transitioned to canned yet.
Chaos - 13 years old, my baby, adopted from a high kill shelter as a kitten
Apollo - 8 year old flame point Siamese rescue, VERY finicky about food but is obviously not starving!
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