Hi,
My cat Bob was also treated for DKA, and I can certainly understand your wanting to make sure it never happens again. Scary stuff for sure.
The urine testing is much easier and cheaper that the ketone meter and strips. Basically, you just buy urine test sticks from the diabetic section of the pharmacy. (Look for Ketostix). Then the trick is to catch kitty in the litter box while he's peeing. You just stick the ketostix in the urine stream, it'll change color if ketones are present in the urine, and there's a graphic on the box that will tell you what the color means.
http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/ketostix-reagent-strips-for-urinalysis/ID=prod19769-product
Home testing is not hard for blood glucose either. Many people have trouble at the start, but after a couple of successes, it's not big deal.
The part about "inter-muscular shots" concerns me though...
My cat, Bob was given IM shots the whole time he was on insulin, so yes, they "work". I don't know if they are more or less effective. The thinking is that shooting IM versus Sub-Q changes the absorption rate of the insulin. I can't say for sure, because Bob only got sub-q shots for a couple of days, and then IM shots for 10 weeks, so I can't compare the rates of one way over the other.
The concern, to me, is the type of insulin (Lantus) and the method of giving insulin. Bob was on PZI insulin, which works totally different than Lantus. PZI is a shorter duration insulin, and the way it works inside the body is not the same as Lantus. I know PZI worked okay that way. But I don't know if anyone here has experience with giving Lantus that way. It may not be a realistic option.
I'm going to post a question on the Lantus forum and ask some of the more experienced people there to come here and give you some feedback. They may also help in evaluating the 2u starting dose, which is "higher than normal" for a starting dose. But every cat is different, and there may be good reasons for your vet to prescribe that amount to start. The DKA diagnosis, for instance.
More people will chime in soon. Welcome to the Board!
Carl